What to do to get a new man in my life?

Question

I just got out of a relationship last year and I haven't been dating. I have a one year daughter and I am very limited to do things. I want a man so bad. I am very lonely, and I am tired of being lonely. I am not over weight or bad looking. What to do? Most of these guys out here don't even care anymore. They just want to sleep with me. I am not a sex kitten. I want a relationship. HELP.

Answer 1

First thing is to figure out what has really been going on in your prior relationships.Accept that you are attracting whatever it is. There is probably a pattern.
Most guys will sense neediness or lonliness like a shark smells prey. Once they get what they want, they will not typically stick around.
To attract the love you want, you must love and respect yourself FIRST, and behave and dress accordingly.
Get to know the fellows you date thoroughly and meet their families, and get a commitment before taking the relationship to the physical level.
You have a child in the picture, so you must consider her first and provide the role model.
If the people in your immediate area are not the quality you want in your life, consider a networking group or two... perhaps Parents Without Partners or start going to a community college to enrich your job skills.

Answer 2

Stop wanting a relationship so much. If men can sense your desperation they will run a mile. You need to learn to be happy with yourself and not depend on a man to provide your happiness. No man can give you happiness, that has to come from within you. Men are only attracted (long-term) to confident and happy women.

Answer 3

Well if we met maybe you'd change your mind about men. heh. anyway, perhaps you should start approaching men at the grocery store/gym etc. I hear there's lots of frogs but only a few princes. Best of luck to you! -J

Answer 4

its okay