My fiancée kissed another guy a few days ago and begged for forgiveness (which i did cos i'm crazy about her) but she can't give me a valid reason for doing it.
The best she can come up with is, sometimes i wish i wasn't so 'tied up' so young. What does this mean?
2007-07-30 08:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by liam316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention it's a pretty long distant relationship for the time being (away at college)...could she just be missing 'physical contact'?
2007-07-30 08:24:27 · update #1
seriously man. it's not going to work. this thing just happened to me. she begged me for forgiveness and i did. told me it would never happen again. a week later...it did and she left me. not that I could've probably trusted her again anyways, but it still hurt that the wedding was just 3 weeks away. anyways over the months before that she was worried about the word marriage and sometimes said that she felt too young and maybe she wasn't ready. but then she'd chalk it up to nerves and tell me she loved me and wanted to be with only me for the rest of her life. so i didn't think much about it....until it all went to hell and back. lol.
so yeah...she's not ready. let her go. give her time and space. if she comes back to you then it was meant to be. ever hear of that before?
2007-07-30 08:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some wild oats to get out of her system. She's too young to be a fiance.... much less getting married. You guys need to drop the fiance label, and just get back to dating. When she gets her head back on straight and doesn't have the need to lip lock with other guys, then revisit the fiance thing. But right now your train is pulling out the station without you.
2007-07-30 08:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready... Tied up with you and being so young... She want's to test the waters see what out there...
You have 2 options...
Give her a month to get it out of her system and see if anything changes (No sex of course)
Or
drop her cause it will never work.
2007-07-30 08:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's not ready to get married. I'd put it on hold...a cheating wife is much more of a headache than a cheating girlfriend....
She sounds like she doesn't wanna be tied down to 1 guy
2007-07-30 08:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready to get married. Maybe you guys need time to explore and grow up some more then get married later on.
2007-07-30 08:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ms B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is having second thoughts. But if you are both young, this is just something that happens. Honestly if she wanted to marry you she wouldn't have done that. That is not devotion.
good luck
2007-07-30 08:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by cass_muffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't ready to get married. Why would she kiss another guy??? Do you really think it willwould be any different after you got married?
2007-07-30 08:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by lostinflorida05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are going to have a lot of problems later.
Ler her go, and find someone that doesn't mind being a relationship taht 'young'.
2007-07-30 08:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she still wants to date, she is not ready for marriage and comitment, she is definatly not loyal and is not acting like a wife to be, not a good person to tie the not with if you can't even trust her, do you see her being honest for the rest of you marriage?
2007-07-30 08:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by raidergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's definitely not ready to get married to you.
2007-07-30 08:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by tuggybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋