2007-07-30 08:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Join the club...I'm so afraid of letting in another jerkass abuser that I can't let anyone in. Hopefully time will heal.
2007-07-30 08:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should not judge her based on your past relationships, a lot of people get hurt in relationships and it is very difficult sometimes to move onward and trust again, but with out the trust there really is no relationship.
Find a way outside the relationship to deal with your feelings, counceing, or just be honest with why you feel the way you do and try to work though it with her.
2007-07-30 15:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is unclear. Do you mean that you are finding it hard to trust HER because someone ELSE hurt you? That would be unfair of you and really not so healthy. If you mean that you find it hard to trust her because of HER past relationships and the way SHE acted...then wait until you know she is committed to you.
2007-07-30 15:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl Durham, Ph.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past relationships with her? Probably not right? You need to realize that everyone is different. Look at her as an individual not part of a group that hurt you in the past. Good luck
2007-07-30 15:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over whatever happened to you in the past. Your trust issues can make another person feel like crap and leave you standing along at the end of the day. Seriously...its time to grow up
2007-07-30 15:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard trustin after hain problems in the past but its best to bite the bullet in do ur best to trust again caus not having trust in a relationship only mess's it up and ur mind also
2007-07-30 15:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by tmnph15401 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the girl..your probably giving her alot of grief for something she didn't even do.YOU should of resolved that problem BEFORE you entered into another relationship. Bringing baggage from one relationship to the other just plain sucks for the other person.
2007-07-30 15:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her I don't really see how you could expect it to last...if she hasnt given you a reason to not trust her then do. And if you keep hounding her about it chances are she's going to cheat on you because you already think she is.
2007-07-30 15:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by beach_bum_bm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont blame a whole group for something one person out of that group has done to u in the past.
2007-07-30 15:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about the past, it's about the present.
2007-07-30 15:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋