so i was talkin to this guy for a few months and we hung out quite a few times and went out a few times- well the last time we went out was like a double date with my friend and her b/f. well after having some drinks we decided to go back to my place and hang out for a little bit- well i hadnt eaten dinner and i got sick because i drink too much- and i never do so i was really embaressed- well he went home that night and everything was fine- i havnt talked to him since and it was a week ago- so im not sure what to think- everything was fine before and i think it would be really immature for a guy to not talk to me cause i got sick- what do you think?? im asking again so i can also tell you- i have tried to call him but he didnt return my call
2007-07-30 08:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by ADNAMA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drinking to the point of puking doesn't endear you to someone and may very well be a reason for them not calling you again. Many people (myself included) are really turned off by that behavior, and it might prevent me from giving her a chance to redeem herself. (It would depend on how nice a time she and I were having before that happened, and on whether or not she was acting the fool while drunk as well). Maybe this can be salvaged, maybe not....(many people have experience with alcoholics in their past and are less tolerant of that behavior than someone who hasn't gone through that). But Amanda, the sooner you find a way to talk to him and explain your side the better your chances with him will be. Good luck.
2007-07-30 09:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Adnama. Well to me it is bad for you to drink too much, because when you have drink too much then it will really effect your health too When you were drinking time and got drunk then it is something really bad that he felt because to him that you should drink to drunk and that is why he is not answering the calls you had made, but it could be also that he is facing some personal or family problem which he wants to try to solve it by himself and also he just want to take a time off, but since he has already have a girlfriend of his own then it is good that your friend and you should at least go up to see him as a friend and try to see his problem he is facing and maybe from there you' ll guys van at least try to give him some solutions which it could be helping him and when it solve then for sure he will go out with you'll guys again and then you can still ask him, and also for sure you'll guys will have great time.So it is better for you and your friend to go and check on him first. Try this and hope it might help you...................
ALL THE BEST...................
2007-07-30 15:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who drinks has at some time drank too much, that is how we learn our limits. If he cannot accept that you just had a bad night, then you're probably better off without him. Admitingly, getting sick on a date is not the best way to impress someone, but I am certain he had some less than shining moments in his time with you. So if he won't return your calls, move on, I know someone will return your calls. I hope this helps.
2007-07-30 15:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Some guys are liek that and if hes gonna be a jack off about you puking then he isnt worth your time. I doubt its about getting sick tho, some guys are really busy workign and things that they forget to send a simple text message.. just give it a few days
2007-07-30 16:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, he probably was still on the fence about liking you...your drunk episode probably pushed him over the edge. Move on. Occupy your time with other things, don't just wait on him to call. If he calls... he calls. I don't think he was that in to you in the first place. My words may sound harsh, but it's just an outside perspective.
2007-07-30 15:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, most normal people that go to college, get sick at least once in their 4 year experience, most get sick many more times then that
especially on their 21st birthday
2007-07-30 15:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys will be guys..it probably had nothing to do with the fact that you got sick..i would let him go...you will find alot of guys like that unfortunately coming from experience here!
2007-07-30 15:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to slow down on the drinks and get grid of the loser.
2007-07-30 15:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by questionmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not drink
2007-07-30 15:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much
2007-07-30 15:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋