ok so i have this new boyfriend & he's great... i love to bring him places with me. he takes interest in the things that are important to me. he knows i love church and he wants to go with me. problem is... my ex-boyfriend goes 2 my church. we're still really close friends..we usually sit together and hang out sometimes. i dont want either one of them to feel uncomfortable... advice???
2007-07-30 08:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by **CHRIST*a rock that is higher** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and your ex are close try talking to him about the changes in your life since ya'll have been together before you bring the new boyfriend around so he doesn't feel off guard. I would definitely bring your boyfriend to church. Don't stop doing things that you feel are going to make your current relationship better because of a relationship that went bad.
2007-07-30 08:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by it's me again 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by telling him what you said here, that you and the ex are friends still, and that you sit with him in church. Most improtantly let him know that you want the three of you to be able to sit together, and NOT be uncomfortable. See what he needs to be able to do that, don't surprise him, things will work out.
2007-07-30 08:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes nothing wrong or negative about that. Its just friends meeting new friends. Well I think boys understand this topic soon. Nothing to worry baby.
2007-07-30 08:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by vjkiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell the old guy that you want him to meet a new friend--introduce them and let them say hi and shake hands--NO PROBLEM--Good GOD--you are a kid--this old guy doesn't mean anything to you. IF HE CAN'T BE NICE---THAT IS TOO BAD.Good luck
2007-07-31 11:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm. just don't let them meet.
2007-07-30 08:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋