Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

When my husband and I got married none on his family wanted to be there. Neither his dad or brother would stand up with him so his uncle did. His mom and did not want to come to the wedding, but since we envited friends of the family they came to been seen only. His sister and brother refused to come. I have been told by many people that they talk about me behind my back. They refuse to ask us on family vacation when they invite is brother and sister. I have been as nice as I can to them. We loaned them a fridge when theirs went out and it took 2 years to get it back. They parked thier camper in our driveway for the winter without even a thank you. They go and get there other grandchild but will not even come and see ours. They can drive past our house on the way to his sisters and not stop. I have been band from there house before because I wanted to know why they hate me. They say my husband should have married this other girl and bring her up alot. My marriage is in trouble. Help!!!

2007-07-30 03:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family

Me and my friend.well more like sister. i like her brother and i dont know what to do? he's kinda perfect HELP
ive been friends with this girl for about a year know and i havnt found any other girl like her.. were exactly alike.. i love her like a sister, her family loves me and then i meet her brother. he just graduated from college, the best personality oh an did i mention hes gorgeous.he told me he likes me too but it would make it so weird with me and my best friend. i dont want to lose our friendship but wow i havnt felt this way about someone in so long. what should i do? just try my hardest to forget about him? or give it a try?

2007-07-30 03:23:39 · 1 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you know the difference?

I get a lot of questions on my relationship/dating site about relationships. People rarely refer to their wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend. They normally refer to their "relationship".

Is there a difference?

2007-07-30 03:22:23 · 14 answers · asked by Market Magician 3 in Singles & Dating

In continuation to my previous post I just want to know how I can make my relationship with my boyfriend work. We have been dating for almost a year now. When we were in school things were great. I had him wrapped around my finger. He brought me bouquets to school if I came back from a long vacation and gave up his previous life of endless parties and millions of friends to hang out with me and my mom minus the drinking and parties. As soon as summer came I started my new full time job. We started to talk less and he found a few hobbies and a job. Now I feel like he doesn't care about me and I've noticed that I have become more jealous about his past. He doesn't seem to be affected by my emotions (he used to cry over me and call me all the time) and the passion seemed to die down. I remember when we spent the most magnificent days together. Now we are hardly alone or together. Is it possible to bring the old "us" back? How can I get him to fall in love with me again?

2007-07-30 03:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by Ava 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to marry my BF, and he the same, we have talk about next year even, but I know he can't come up with the funds for the ring I want right now. Maybe in a few months, but Weddings book up venues fast around here, and a year is best to plan!!!

Would you still get engaged, and pick out a ring later, or do you really need the ring???

2007-07-30 03:16:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Especially for her self-gratification among the ladies I've ever known, either at the workplace or at school, some of them had flirted with me before. Back in the Spring of 1994 there's a lovely woman named Alicia who's a mulatto, tall and slim. Who once worked as an receptionist a my job, although she's engaged at the time, she smiled, winked at me and asked for chewing gum. Then there's Joei whom I known for the past 4 years, works as an administrative assistant. While she's in a cheerful mood, she would sometimes winked at at me, constantly ask me questions as "You go out on dates?", "Which movies have seen lately?", "What are you doing this weekend?" It really makes me wonder about them.

2007-07-30 03:15:19 · 4 answers · asked by slimdude142 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

should I pay for everything???????

2007-07-30 03:14:10 · 31 answers · asked by reebabe 2 in Weddings

my name is polly; i'm 15.. i have liked this one guy, "jason" forever. last night was the first time we actually got to hang out, and i got to know him for as he really is.

let's just say i was pleased. we were reallyyyyyy flirty the whole night! then, as we were watching movies, we started cuddling a lot. he was moving closer to me and finally it ended up with his arm around me, me holding his arm, my arm wrapped around his stomach with his hand on my knee. lets just say i was really really happy...

unfortunately, this guy has a girlfriend. when his friend brought it up, he got really quiet and awkward about it. but is cuddling/flirting cheating? also, should i have shunned his advances when i have liked him for so long -- like a year?

2007-07-30 03:11:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been happily married 15 yrs and saturday night we went out with my sister and her husband..Well the conversationed turned to sex and my sister said her and her husband have 3-somes all the time and my husband and i were totally shocked about this and they ask us if we ever did this and we both said NO WAY that is not for us..My husband said thats a really sick and disguisting thing to do in a marriage and he would never do that cause im enough for him..Well my sister said to him that every man has had this fantasy and he told her he never did and she told him he is lying cause all men want this and that he is only saying this cause i was there otherwise he would tell the truth..After we got home i ask him about this and he got mad at me and said he was telling the truth and that my sister doesnt know crap about what he would or wouldnt want..He is still mad at me now and i dont know what to do..He is still not talking to me...I just figured my sister was right.

2007-07-30 03:11:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you do it in your local indian resturant or maybe somewhere more exotic? Or push him/her of a cliff and splurt it out while they are free falling haha? Just interested in how different people would go about it!

2007-07-30 03:01:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I need to get my wife-to-be a gift on our wedding day on Saturday. Ive already explored having flowers delivered and she will be leaving to early for the flowers to get there. Anyone have any other ideas??

2007-07-30 02:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by just_another_spaz 1 in Weddings

even while masturbation, I get a headache, though I believe masturbation is not the cause, please helop. This problem is now spoiling the color that was there in my life.

2007-07-30 02:51:45 · 1 answers · asked by Mr.Mysterious 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 02:51:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am planning my parents pearl 30th wedding anniversary

My dad is disabled cannot walk stand up without use of his zimmer frame or crutches.

obviously if he could they would be able to dance together, is there anyway around this, an alternative???

2007-07-30 02:49:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-30 02:47:47 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in a stage right now that I doubt my closest friends if they were real. I thought that no one is real. I don't know what I am feeling this. I used to be a friendly person and nice to all of the people around me. I can get along well with all of my classmates and friends. What happened is that I don't want them to get near me because I discovered their truest selves. I just can't ignore them because I have to face them everyday. What will I do? I just don't want plastics around me.. They are irritating, my boiling point reaches to the highest level whenever they talk with me. Is it a good move if I will ignore them and express what I really feel towards them? I am just being honest with my feelings.

2007-07-30 02:45:44 · 9 answers · asked by bagz y 2 in Friends

pursue it,and let it happen naturally"
Which I agree is true,but you also need to take some proactive positive steps.
Any tips to finding the right girl,where to look,how to approach,what to do or say?
I mean I know what I know,but if you'd be so kind,I'd like to hear some other opinions on what to do,to be successful,or at least stand a better chance.I still freeze up and get shy like a teenager too around a potential girl i like ,hehe.Maybe u can help me get around that,besides just saying"just ask her out",which doesn't help me get over being shy.
Any links too if you know any.

Thanks in advance.
I'm 27male Australia

2007-07-30 02:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by n 3 in Singles & Dating

The mother says she feels that the daughter hasn't liked her since she was small. The ex-husband had a business and kept the daughter while my friend attended college. They are divorced now and she wonders if the father told the girl negative things about her. Also, she feels guilty about going to college. At the time, she said that she thought she was doing a good thing - showing her kids that education was important, and also preparing herself financially in case something ever happened to her husband. How can I comfort her? What can she do?

2007-07-30 02:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by mountaindew25 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 02:42:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiance for 5 years next spring. We are already engaged and have discussed marriage, kids, etc. We want to spend the rest of our lives together and the only reason we haven't married so far is money (or lack of it), but now I have just started a much better paid job. I would love for us to get married on our 5 year anniversary but want it to be a surprise. What do you think?
We planned a wedding before (or rather I did) but it didn't come off due to various financial difficulties, and he was quite happy for me to decide on everything and i have a good understanding of what he wants the day to be like, so i dont think he's be upset at missing out on the planning side of it.
But do you think its a bit weird or romantic?
Should i go for it?

2007-07-30 02:36:39 · 24 answers · asked by hannah b 1 in Weddings

Does this mean that he didtn want to do that b/c he was around his friends which included women. Also he's 29yrs old.

2007-07-30 02:31:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for almost two years now.
this past year has been good, but our first year was a total mess.
he cheated on me twice, he always flirted with other women, and he told me that he'd always picture being with them instead of me. which in that year, i lost my trust towards him, and hes knows that.

this year he hasnt cheated yet, but i always get the feeling that he is. whenever i try talking to him about it all he says is that he wont do it ever again, but he said that the first time too.
ive talked to my counciler and she's not to sure.
my parents adore him to death and i for one am inlove with him.
i'm just not sure if i can go on not being able to trust him.
but then again i do love and care about him with all my heart.

2007-07-30 02:29:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 02:28:23 · 1 answers · asked by kaylee t 1 in Singles & Dating

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Is this normal?
there is this girl. she said she likes me alot but whenever i do anything nice for her she just loses intrest in me and when i stop doing anything nice for her she comes back and does something nice for me.i am confused why does she do this?

2007-07-30 02:18:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am referring to all the questions about the McCann's, and similar. Yes, they did a bad thing and I'm sure they are paying for it every day. But what happened to forgiveness?

I am sure that little Maddy, wherever she is, isn't thinking - "I hate my parents for leaving me" or similar. If she is able to see the horrible things being said about her parents, I'm sure it won't help her.

Please, let's stop the witch hunt! Can we focus on trying to find this little girl and put all our energy into that?

2007-07-30 02:11:25 · 14 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 5 in Family

Hi. I'm 21 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Sometimes I feel bad about it. But, there doesn't seem to be any substantial men out there. I am reasonably pretty and smart. Does anyone have the same problem? Am also worried because I see that I'm getting older when most girls start dating in their early teens. NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASE!

2007-07-30 02:09:59 · 45 answers · asked by ILovePizza 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 02:08:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you were in the market for an engagment ring would you take your girlfriends father to help you look/shop for one? He does know a thing or two more about rings and jewlery than I do.

2007-07-30 02:08:30 · 20 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Weddings

the proper etiquette in terms of returning or keeping the engagement ring?

2007-07-30 02:03:52 · 13 answers · asked by Yeeeeezzzzz 1 in Weddings

i got back with him a lot of times. thats why there's 3 ex

2007-07-30 02:00:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends