I am in a stage right now that I doubt my closest friends if they were real. I thought that no one is real. I don't know what I am feeling this. I used to be a friendly person and nice to all of the people around me. I can get along well with all of my classmates and friends. What happened is that I don't want them to get near me because I discovered their truest selves. I just can't ignore them because I have to face them everyday. What will I do? I just don't want plastics around me.. They are irritating, my boiling point reaches to the highest level whenever they talk with me. Is it a good move if I will ignore them and express what I really feel towards them? I am just being honest with my feelings.
2007-07-30 02:45:44 · 9 answers · asked by bagz y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey, cool down. You can't run away from the fact that they are your classmates. What u need to do is not to expect anything from them. Let them come to you and speak; you also speak to them casually. Hostility doesn't give you anything in return. Conquer others by love not enmity. Besides it may be a feeling of jealousy or some other defect in their personalities that is making them do so. If you start behaving like them, what is the difference between you and them? Keep your calm and don't let their conversations disturb your mind.
2007-07-30 03:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by aravind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends can be unpredictable. Criticising you cruelly one minute, and then the next miinute they take you on a holiday when they have won 2 free tickets. There are some friends who are the same towards you whenever you meet, and these stable people make your life go more smoothly. Try to make friends in this group and you will be more calm. It is hard when you have to be at school amongst people you would never choose as your friends, but that is just another life lesson to learn. When you get older and get a job, there will be people in your workplace who are irritating and some who you will be friends with for life. You wonder how those irritating people hold onto their jobs, but nobody is all bad, some of those people may be a genius at a certain thing that your workplace values, so the bosses ignore their idiosyncracies. Some workplaces offer a good social life and some focus only on work achieved, so try to get a job in the place that suits your needs. In the meantime, just study people like they are in a zoo or a museum - they are iinterestiing specimens and ones you don't care for are found quite attractive by others. Who knows why? Be a good friend and you will attract good friends.
2007-08-07 02:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by wemblania 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only know who your true friends are in a time of dispair, or when you are the one who actually needs a special favor, not just any favor...The ones that will show their face and defend you and not curl their tails behind their legs and leave you when u need them the most. That one friend who's not afraid to tell u how he or she feels but at the same time wants to know how u feel. That friend that will give you the biggest piece of half of their milkyway. It's usually the one that you don't really notice, that's alaways there, that is yor true friend. Treat everyone the way u want to b treated, but don't let no one walk all over you, do not bite yor tongue with whatever you want to say to people...you get more respect that way, just be aware that u need to chose ur words carefully.
2007-07-30 03:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by lostnthought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever you spend most of your time with is who you will act most like. If your current "friends" push your buttons, make new friends - you've outgrown them. You don't have to ignore your classmates, but you don't have to spend time with them outside of school either. Been there, done that. Bottom line, the people you go to school with now will NOT be in your life for the rest of your life. You will all grow up and go your own way.
A true friend knows all of your faults and loves you anyway...
2007-07-30 02:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important thing my Father ever said to me was I would be able to count my true fiends on the fingers of one hand when I get old... he also reminded me that we don't count the thumb as a finger. so having said this look past these people that are fake and be on the lookout for ones you will be able to form a real friendship with. do not feel weird or bad because you have a higher standard than most of the others, why waste time on people are not of your caliber
2007-08-05 10:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel to me, true and real friends are kinda the same. But I do know that if you fall down your friend would help you up and make sure your ok, but a REAL AND TRUE friend would wait till you get up and then trip you again and laugh.
Also a friend would bail you out of jail, but a true and real friend would be sitting right next to you saying, damn, that was fun
2007-07-30 02:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do that and you wont have no friends and if you pretend to put up with them then ur plastic...
2007-08-06 18:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by YeLlOwSiSsY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a few friends and select one, as a true one.
2007-07-30 03:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by murugan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real freind that trust you
2007-07-30 03:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋