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Is this normal?
there is this girl. she said she likes me alot but whenever i do anything nice for her she just loses intrest in me and when i stop doing anything nice for her she comes back and does something nice for me.i am confused why does she do this?
2007-07-30 02:18:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does still show very subtle signs like keeping close to me but never talking and trying to make eye contact but i dont include does because their too subtle and usually i dont notice all the time.
2007-07-30 02:58:45 · update #1
I think she likes attention from you and when she doesn't get any she come back to you so that you will take an interest and do things for her again.By saying she likes you alot it's kind of a way of keeping you sweet.
2007-07-30 02:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Classy Clarissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without more info it's hard to say. Given the little you've described, I'd say she has a common but messed up problem, anxiety . She feels anxiety over closeness, so she backs away. Then she feels anxiety over distance, and does something to feel closer. And so on.
WATCH people through life. You'll see a lot of this, in many forms.
2007-07-30 02:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Theron Q. Ramacharaka Panchadasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going after her, i dont care what girls say about god damn prince charming, if you chase hard you will look desperate and that is a major turn off. im not saying ignore her, just treat her like a regular person, dont shower her with praise or anything, next time she does something for you just take it as an opening and go in for the kill, ask her out, suggest plans, do something man, jesus
2007-07-30 02:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by boredatwork 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may feel that when you do nice things for her that she has you, and then when it stops she is probably afraid she might lose you, so does something nice in return just to hang on. It is a very strange thing about some girls (women), some just seem to want what is unattainable. Try stopping all together and see what happens. :)
2007-07-30 02:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell her "I think you can make a good friend". Do not be predictable, do not do "nice" things for her, if you do, do that in your terms, things she could not possibly expect. Don't buy present, no dinners, don't do anything money can buy. Show some "active disinterest", no courting, no clingy.
Do communicate and go out often.
Good luck.
2007-07-30 02:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Artan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the old treat em mean keep them keen play,if u want this girl.
It's twisted,but alot of girls like that from what i hear.
But your better off finding a girl who is genuine,and not into strange mind games.
2007-07-30 02:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just using you because she knows you'll always be there.
She's taking advantage of you. The next time she needs something, disappear.
2007-07-30 02:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by NotAgain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...very interesting. I guess you better do somehing nasty to her. What do you think? Maybe she just don't like your style... Maybe you acted differently. The thing is, you are liked by her just the way you are so be yourself. Maybe she likes it more.
Wait for her. Maybe she likes to do the moves.
Be happy and Peace Out! (^=^)
2007-07-30 02:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rouge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave It Alone Homeboy. She seems confused and dazed, save it for a lady that will appreciate it ( it millions of them out there)!
2007-07-30 02:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by gene b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you right well maybe she is confused maybe just as confused as you are. So take her out do something nice when she loses interest talk to her bout it
2007-07-30 02:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋