Especially for her self-gratification among the ladies I've ever known, either at the workplace or at school, some of them had flirted with me before. Back in the Spring of 1994 there's a lovely woman named Alicia who's a mulatto, tall and slim. Who once worked as an receptionist a my job, although she's engaged at the time, she smiled, winked at me and asked for chewing gum. Then there's Joei whom I known for the past 4 years, works as an administrative assistant. While she's in a cheerful mood, she would sometimes winked at at me, constantly ask me questions as "You go out on dates?", "Which movies have seen lately?", "What are you doing this weekend?" It really makes me wonder about them.
2007-07-30 03:15:19 · 4 answers · asked by slimdude142 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a difference between friendly flirting and serious flirting. Friendly flirting is the type of flirting that means nothing other than being friendly and having fun. Serious flirting shows obvious interest in something other than just being friendly. I would say that the flirting you're experiencing from these taken women are of the friendly kind.
2007-07-30 03:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In American culture, it is ok for women to talk to other men, even if they are in a relationship. The same goes for men. They can shake hands, hug, even a peck on the cheek for a close friend. Those questions you mentioned do not mean that they want to jump your bones or even date you. They were just being friendly. Winks can be friendly too. Flirting is acceptable in our culture. Of course if they are touching you or making sexual inuendo, that is a bit far in the flirting department. But asking someone what they are doing this weekend and if you are dating someone or if you have seen a movie-- those are quite harmless questions.
I am assuming that you are from a different culture, where women are only allowed to have contact with their husbands or something like that. If not, maybe you should see a therapist if you are still obsessing over a request for gum and a wink from over 13 years ago.
2007-07-30 10:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirtation is harmless. Attraction is harmless. And both of these things can actually be healthy for a relationship. It is human nature to be attracted to people other than your mate. As long as it remains harmless flirtation, and it's not taken to a physical or romantic level, it's fine.
2007-07-30 10:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there being friendly but also flirting at the same tym there doing it coz you no you cnt hve it which mkes you wnt it even more
2007-07-30 10:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋