I have been with a guy for the past two years now and we have break up three times. This is just because the guy who claims he loves me always break the relationship because of any slight mistake i do. I do render all sought of appologies to him but he will never forgive me. He do come back after four to five months begging me to forgive him but because i love him i do forgive him. We recently came back together after a beak up because i thought he has change but he has not, he is still the same.As am talking he is seriously annoyed with me, i have appologise to him but still he is not ready to accept my appologies i really love the guy and i can't stay without him. Can somebody help me out.
2007-07-30 00:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a. thats not a healthy relationship
b. the guy sounds like a dumb ***
c. you can find better
2007-07-30 00:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alex H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what to do, because you already know what you should do. You just need the strength to do it. The guy is playing games and has been and blaming you and making you feel like everything has always been your fault. Thats a sign of an abuser. You cannot stay with him because it will never get better and it will only get worse and he will only drag you down further. You need a partner who stands beside you that builds you up and stands with you. Not one that tears you down. Please leave this one alone and allow him to play games somewhere else. I know in your heart this might hurt for a bit, but so much better to hurt for a bit then for years and years when he suddenedly has got you so far beaten down that you would do anything for him. Not where you want to go. You want education, college, a chance at a real future for family and children and etc...... It will and cannot happen with this person. So please. .even though the truth hurts for awhile.. move onward and UPWARD
2007-08-05 02:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by billies35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advise i could possible give you would be based on my own relationships just like this one. I found that I waisted many years in a relationship that was never going to go anywhere,. If there is love their is understanding and patience! sounds like he keeps coming back cuz' he either has nothing else or is lonely. He keeps making stupid reasons to walk away. Do not waste anymore time that you can be investing in a good relationship.
2007-08-06 22:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by connie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this i s your time. 3 times and he still comes back after he decides. well listen sister, you need to get a grip there are so many cool guys out there and i bet you are neat also. you dont' need to keep going back with same guy write him off your list. tell him to get and hit the road and dont' let the car hit him in the seat and start moving around and looking for greener grass that is mean what he was doing and stick to it. you will find someone nice and alot nicer for you don't apoligise for stuff like that. hey, man you need to get a life and be happy and one day you will find the special guy and not have to do that stuff like you said.
2007-08-06 14:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him untill he is ready to acceppt your appologies.and then work it out.
2007-08-06 16:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, u should only be friends
2007-08-07 00:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by łαđÿ ħαια ツ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break ties & MOVE ON
2007-08-04 17:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by saved_astronaut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋