Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

my dad wont let me watch what i want on tv and i am 17 and am old enough to have to keep the house clean water the garden and soon have a job but i cant watch what i want on tv or go out after dark or go to an amusement park or store or the fair by myself i mean i am 17 i know hes being protective but come on i am almost an adult and he expects me to have a job next year is a little freedom to much to ask and i am not a tiny little person i am 5 foot 8 and look like i can kick the **** out of pretty much and one i am not a twig girl so am i being unreasonable

2007-07-27 19:08:17 · 12 answers · asked by lissy_ann430 2 in Family

I have known of my husband cheating on me & forgave him 4 our family sake. and financila reasons Now he is jumping through hoops for me but I am not convinced I also know that he had done it once before. I found out about this in October One relationship lasted a year the last one almost 3 yrs.. I have decided to stay because I don't want to lose face & our boys(2) he tells me that he loves me. But now 9 months later I know he is seeing a diffrent one. he is the type that uses woman to get what he wants at work. So now do I look the other way or what should I do. i have no proof of this last one she is some one I know she comes by his office all the time with the excuse of them working together. she comes by late in the afternoon then once everyone leaves the office they are alone for 2 hours. How would you ladies get proof? I mean she is all over him on the daily calling him leaving messages of course i told him to let it go and he says how can he do that this is his income.

2007-07-27 19:07:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 19:04:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His wife and MIL are heavy drinkers, to the tune of $400 a month at the liquor store. He has been kicked out of the house, for not buying their liquor anymore. His two kids are still there. They are 2 years and 7 months old. He wants to get them out of there, but needs to know how he can. He's got to prove they're behavior is bad for the kids. They leave open containers of alcohol around and MIL mixes it with Kool-Aid. We're afraid kids will get it. Can anyone help with this?

2007-07-27 19:03:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 18:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by Charlotte 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like your look and im intersted in booking you?
not in the prostitute way, ...its about modeling and acting.

2007-07-27 18:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay Im 14 and a girl. And well the past coulpe of weeks i enjoyed watching porn. I mean its nothing sick and it doesnt show penetraition its nothing hard core. Im a virgin and i mean im not a bad kid i get good grades and im not looking to have sex in tell im ready to take the risks. but I was wondering does that make me grosss and dirty because i watch porn? or is it ok? or i need some advice please be a little nice. I mean i dont watch it like every night but say 2 times a week?
thank you/

2007-07-27 18:56:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going tomorrow to the book store. Should I buy the Mystery Method to brush up on my pick up game or should I purchase a different book by a different author? My library doesn't carry this book so its making it difficult on me. My "game" in terms of talking and entertaining women is fine, I'm just having difficulties making the first move to meet them. Thank you for your help

2007-07-27 18:50:42 · 1 answers · asked by rob y 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom and my 18 year old sister's birthdays are comming up. what would be some good gifts for them?

2007-07-27 18:49:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i heard some good ones today, cracked me up!

2007-07-27 18:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and one of his dumb little white trash girls do it all the time. They'll put her to bed at like 1030pm then at about 12am go upstairs and put the kid on the floor still sleeping, and proceed to have sex in his bed with each other. They can get a little loud sometimes as well because me and my girlfriend are in the next room and can hear them sometimes. We both dont think that it is right, what do you think?

2007-07-27 18:41:27 · 19 answers · asked by Maximus_2007 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is a good trip my wife and i can take together?

2007-07-27 18:40:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across and i heard from a friend that someone he knows which is the guy's friend told him that he filmed her changing and showed him the tape. now first i thought this was not true but my friend said that his friend said that he saw the tape... and that she has really big saggy boobs nothing like what she looks like with clothes. My girlfriend does have big boobs but she ways small bras that make them look small and push them up... thats how she likes them to look. so i was wondering if you guys think its true that the video exists? do you think i should tell her? do you think he will post it on the internet? now i just want to say she has beautiful boobs their not saggy they just hang a bit

2007-07-27 18:37:38 · 17 answers · asked by Joey _ 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to stay friends with her, and not ruin our professional relationship. She also has the same name as my sister, which is an ick-factor to me :(

2007-07-27 18:33:04 · 15 answers · asked by micaela 2 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago they fought, and stopped for a while. But now they fight every day! They won't talk to each other and my mom keeps telling me what a horrible person my dad is. He just hit her once, because she was being REALLY annoying(And even sometimes I think so too!) They fight for every little thing! My dad's been asking my mom whether he should file for divorce! I didn't think he was serious..... And now he said he'd go out to buy a camera, so he can take a ew pictures of her before they get divorced! Please, what can I do? I feel like it's my fault! I don't want to end up like 42% of my friends; without a father in my life! Do I write to Dr.Phil, asking for help? I know it sounds pathetic, but something, anything, please!

2007-07-27 18:31:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and you have never been kissed or kissed that way and you fall off the couch while kissing....

Is it because you are madly in love?

Or you both have had way to much experience?

2007-07-27 18:30:54 · 5 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Singles & Dating

Few mths ago, I realisd my husband had a new female friend he was getting close 2, atho he nvr metiond her 2 me. I startd chking his cell msgs n concluded that altho thr was no actual relnship, the girl was definitely super-friendly, beyond what I find acceptable. I hired a PI, found tt he was definitely lying 2 me abt spending time with colleagues when he was actually with her. When confronted, he insistd he wasnt doing anything wrong, even denied she existd until i named specific time and place he had been with her. then he said she's some business contact. said he lied 2 me becos i have a habit of freaking out, which 2b fair, is true. we talkd n set boundaries 4 his interaction with her. lately he's been deleting msgs, which i noe cos certain things in his records dont seem complete. dont think he's cheating, but the lies r still burning at me.cant stop thinking abt wat he did, feel i cant trust him one bit, keep sniping at him and am going mad frm the stress.

2007-07-27 18:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 18:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he used to love me. Does love ever come back? I know love is supposed to be a decision, but who wants to live life with such a lack of ease and joy. Is a relationship based on security, not rocking the boat, and kids worth it?

2007-07-27 18:25:52 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But she was trying to get away from him should i put the sharp shooter on him

2007-07-27 18:23:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there any way i can talk teach my dog to speak on the phone? are there any special pet people who know how to do that? like Baxter from the movie Anchorman

2007-07-27 18:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend Kathy is a closet drug user (she had previously admitted it from me) she has recently been diagnosed with schizophrenia plus depression. I havent spoken to her in a few months and the other day she called me trying to borrow 40 bucks from me. (I know 40 isnt much but I work hard for my money and I'm not just gonna hand it out to someone who does drugs) She tried telling me some lame excuse that she needed the money for bus fare to find an apartment because she just got section 8. Kathy has been on the BUS FOREVER and that is her only mode of transportation, she knows better than anyone that because of her disability she can get a $15 monthly bus pass. How do I tell her I think she's lying and how do I end this 20 year friendship? I do not want to be friends with her anymore especially if she is going to lie to me. Am I wrong in feeling like this?

2007-07-27 18:18:38 · 23 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Friends

We been together for 5 years and our family does not approve us! How can we have a wedding where everyone is happy?

2007-07-27 18:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by Victoria K 1 in Weddings

i'm only 18, so i have no idea what my obligations are as a maid of honor. My best friend is getting married and she is only 18 as well. I know she's too young to be married, we've had that fight already, but she's not going to let me talk her out of it. Anyway, does anyone know any websites i can find out what i have to do for her? or does anyone know personally?
Thanks so much!

2007-07-27 18:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Weddings

I met a really nice guy online a few weeks ago and now he wants to meet in real life but I'm not sure, because I've NEVER met anyone from online... in person I mean... has anyone had any positive/negative experiences with meeting people from online in real life?

2007-07-27 18:11:42 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I got ya!!! There was a boy that told me that I was the one for him and he was going to leave his fiance and we were about to kiss and then he said....."I got ya" while jumping out of his seat. To tell you the truth, I think he thought I was joking (that is the kind of relationship we had) he was so excited he thought he got me first. I was being serious.

2007-07-27 18:10:27 · 4 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband seems that his boundaries are limitless as far as how much he would take before he would leave me. I could say the worse things to him or we could have the worst possible fight and the the next few hours he could just let it go. When we say mean things to each other my husband is able to get over it, but I can't, even if I was wrong, in fact my feelings are pretty much gone because of things that we're said. I don't beleive in that saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me." Words do hurt. I could never really love him anymore , but for some reason he doesn't want to give up. If it was up to him we would never divorce. Is it a lack of self love that causes him to be this way?

2007-07-27 18:09:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Especially since if the woman definately would have been "into" the guy?

2007-07-27 18:05:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I was wondering do guys prefer a good girl or a bad girl? I'm 28, single, and a good girl. I'm pretty, have a job and a master degree, but for some reason can't find a boyfriend. My friends who slept with everything that walked even married men are now married or in a longterm relationship. What gives? Do guys not want good girls?

2007-07-27 18:02:12 · 22 answers · asked by Jay Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 17:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by mona m 1 in Friends