I met a really nice guy online a few weeks ago and now he wants to meet in real life but I'm not sure, because I've NEVER met anyone from online... in person I mean... has anyone had any positive/negative experiences with meeting people from online in real life?
2007-07-27 18:11:42 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did that once and only once. We've been happily married for over 5 years! I didn't intentionally go looking for a guy on-line, but it was a late night, I was board, and then fate stepped in. Was I nervous to meet him? Heck yeah! But once we did, it was magical. Don't get me wrong here, there have been a ton of people who can tell you nothing but horror stories about people they've met on-line. I'm one of the few exceptions. If you want to meet this guy, then go on. But be safe about it!
2007-07-27 18:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have I meet a girl that said I looked cute, she sent me a message on myspace and we began chatting. She was so nice and very sweet. We met at a bar, and had a fun time talking and getting to know each other. We of course used IM to chat some 1st to get to know one another before we met. I am glad to say we are still friends and have been for over a year now. We never got together, the timing was bad, but we are friend. I actually met two girls that way the other was very nice to she move to California to go to grad school though so I have not talked to her in a long time. She was a very sweet girl originally from Morocco. I don't mind meeting people I have met on-line, as long as I can chat with them for a while before we meet. Oh and I always make sure it is in a public place.
2007-07-27 18:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my bf online. We've been together 2 yrs now. Then again, I also met my abusive ex-bf online too. The point is that you never really know. If you want to meet this guy go ahead but meet him in a public place and tell at least two people where you're going and who you're going to go see. Give them his ph number even. You can't be too careful. The ideal would be to go on a group date. If it goes well then you can always go out again. He should understand you wanting to be safe. Just keep in mind that in person it might not be the same as it is online. It happens, you think you have chemistry and then....it fizzles. Good luck. :)
2007-07-27 18:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy online with the aid of Yahoo Personals, and in the present day is our 4 3 hundred and sixty 5 days anniversary. in basic terms met in a public place the 1st time, simply by fact there are some unusual ones accessible.
2016-10-12 23:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're kind of young I wouldn't advise you to meet someone off the internet. If you really want to meet this guy and you think he's totally cool, make sure you meet him up in a public place (don't have him pick you up) and make sure someone knows where you're at.
Also, it might not be a bad idea to go with friends to meet this cool friend you met online.
2007-07-27 18:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Natsumi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. Twice. In the one instance it was just kind of a flop and we kept the meeting short--both of us felt awkward. In the second instance, my friend and I were going to hang out with the guy at his house...a friend and my older brother (who is also like a friend) insisted they came along. At the time, I was kind of pissed at them, but in retrospect, I'm kind of glad. The guy was pretty intent on getting us drunk and was a bit forward--who knows what he would have tried had our bodyguards not been there! Finally, I do have one friend who met her husband online. So I guess it goes better for some people.
2007-07-27 18:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a teenager/kid then the answer is NO no matter what. However if you are a mature adult, then just be careful... Be sure you trust this guy enough from what you've seen to actually meet him. Meet in a public place like a coffee shop... DON'T invite him to your house because it's just too dangerous.
2007-07-27 18:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i have done that b4....but if hes like a long ways a way then hes prolly some rapist or something. but if hes in your area then most likely hes a person that just wants to get to know u. dont ever meet some one long distance. NEVER DO THAT!!!
2007-07-27 18:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by mAlLiE_XoXo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My uncle met his wife online. He later went on to marry her
2007-07-27 18:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by sPUNKy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sis found her boyfriend on line and they met in person even i met him and they have been dating for about a month
hope that helped.
2007-07-27 18:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋