Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

I am 5'2, weigh 97 pounds, have long straight dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, i am pretty smart - i get all A's and B's-
I am shy until i talk to the person for about a day then i am very outgoing and talk a ton! lol
SO.....what im getting to is.... Why don't guys ever ask me out?
Seriously my little sister gets asked out more than I do.

2007-07-27 16:41:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

usually i can just find out sum greetings to them, but dont know wat to talk next. so can u help me?? really really thanks.

2007-07-27 16:41:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what is the best gift for the first date???

2007-07-27 16:39:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 16:39:00 · 6 answers · asked by anybody 1 in Singles & Dating

the mom and my neice fight constently mom just went through a divorce from a man who is not neices dad but she called him dad. so court ruled dad got custody of their two kids together leaving neice with mom now neice tried to cut her wrists 2 weeks ago and now is talking about choking herself mom is at a loss and asked me to help by letting herlive with me 2 states away but is it wise to take her away from mom evan though their are problems or else how are they ever going to get along also mom has a new boyfriend and mom says that sh has to decide between boyfriend and my niece now i know she should choose my neice but han that would just cause underlying hatd between them wouldnt it.i am the only one thhat has ever been able to get through to neice evan more so than grandma and grandpa and neice cant go live with ex because the lawyers are getting their noses in it making exdad feel like niece is a burden when neice love him should we take out of her element to better one with no mom

2007-07-27 16:38:03 · 15 answers · asked by worried aunt 1 in Family

I'm sorry if I tend to sound selfish here. I'm really not trying to be...it just hurts I guess. Anyway, I found out my parents were getting a divorce June 8th (I remember because it was the day after the last day of school). Today I found out my dad was on one of those online dating services. He uses my brother's laptop all the time and I clicked on the history button to find a website url I was on before. Then this dating stuff came up and all these links from a bunch of women's 360's. I'm sure it wasn't my brother because he's eleven and i've already talked to him about it (and my dad and brother are the only ones who uses his laptop. I just use it when I leave mine in my room). Am I right to feel hurt about this? It's not so much the dating that hurts me...it's just that he decided on doing so so soon. Doesn't he know we are nowhere near ready for that yet? What do you think I should do?

2007-07-27 16:37:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so I meet this dude right and he actually aproached me...so i gave him my number ........he called and we talked for hours..then a few days later we went on a date ..he was sweet and took me to this great italian place...then he ask me if i wanted to play pool so we did then right before i dropped him off he asked me to go to lunch with him the next day and i agreed ......when we pulled up to his house and he smile then gave me like a bullshit sideways hug and got out.........so the next day when he tried to call I was still asleep so I call him back and tell him I'll be there at the time we were suppose to meet but he cancelled cause his boss ask him to go and he didn't know that i was still coming......so later that day I call him and send him like three messages and he never responds back and it's been a few day .......why won't he call if he was interested

2007-07-27 16:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by tccballetmusic 1 in Singles & Dating

I can feel it, when he looks at me for a real long time or a short time--that he really likes me. He is so sweet to me, but when I do not talk to him much on any given day--his reaction is kind of moody--like he is not liking the thought of me not talking to him. I have fallen in-love with this guy--his watching me, made me really nervous and excited, all in one. He always seems to come to my work area--even when he is not in my work group. He tries to get close to me a lot. He will find any excuse to talk to me. He has purposely bumped into me a few times--I believe it is to let me know that he is interested in me. I have asked him why he stares at me--he said, that he did not stare at me--I clearly can see that he does stare and so can my co-workers. He does not know that I like him.
1. Why does he want me to talk to him, and he wants to stand near me--but he doesn't want to admit to his staring at me?

2007-07-27 16:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like Tv like Advertisement, art, and bussiness but I want a good job that pays and theirs lot's of jobs openings.

I also like working with my hands, i'm great at brain storming and team work. plus I speak the spanish


Is there any good sites that I can go to help me on my quest?

2007-07-27 16:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well my prblem is this, i want to get my eyebrow pierced because i want to be indepentend from my brother and i like the way it looks... they think i'm stupid because of this. I feel my dad wants me to become more like my brother. They both have a lot in common with each other. They love cars, they watch the same shows and they can talk to each other about anything. I feel left out just because i'm different from the family. I'ts a typical hispanic family except for me. i skateboard, i listen to rock but i'm not gothic or anything like that. i'm not an outcast or do drugs. I'm just myself and my dad keeps on pushing me to do the same things my brother does and i just want to be independent. i skateboard for fun and i actually want to go to college and train to be a doctor. They just dont understand. I really want to show my dad that i'm different from my brother and i'm independent. i know when i turn 18 i'm getting like 3 small tattoos. So how do I show my whole family I'm indepentent

2007-07-27 16:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-27 16:22:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend was drinking and was in a horrific car accident. he almost died. we had a fight the night of the wreck about him drinking. he dont remember the fight but knows about it from conversatition. he wants to know about it but i cant bring myself to tell him. i said alot of hurtfull things and stuff i didnt mean.how is the best way to tell him?

2007-07-27 16:22:26 · 15 answers · asked by [[Just Your Typical Girl]] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you date one of ur best friends ex's?
my best friend just broke up with her ex but then she met another guy that she is totally in love with.
she said she thought it would be cute. in fact it was her idea
so should i date him even though he likes me?

2007-07-27 16:21:53 · 27 answers · asked by astrid 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl were bestfriends for about a year, then we decided to go out and tonight she broke up with me, she says she still loves me and cares for me but i dont know what to believe, ive been trying to expolain to her how much i care about her and love her, but i just dont know how to explain it, thats how much i love her and care for her

2007-07-27 16:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 16:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your boyfriend slapped you really hard and called you a wh*re during an argument?

2007-07-27 16:14:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We've only been going out for 2 months. his birthday is in a week and i have no idea what to get him! all i know is that he likes the yankees, basketball, baseball, and football. when i ask what he wants, he says "you don't have to get me anything." Do you think a yankees hat would be a bad idea? Maybe a video game? if so, which video game?!?!

~we are both only 13

2007-07-27 16:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like did you go out or stay home

2007-07-27 16:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really tough situation - went to visit future in laws last weekend. They put us in separate rooms. Snuck into girlfriends room. We were doing the nasty when I tried sneaking it another spot of hers. When I did this, she screamed in pain and her dad came in when I was pulling it out and had birds eye view of where I was pulling it out of --. Her mom did as well, but had a weird kind of smile on her face. Anyway, her dad through me out immediately. I'm 38, she's 21 and her Dad is a bit miffed. Do i send him a token gift or something?

2007-07-27 16:09:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got a call from my dad today asking to borrow money because he is 2 months behind on his house payment. He didn't specify an amount, just saying "whatever you can do". I'm 22 years old and I live on my own, with my boyfriend. I work full time, bought my own car, pay bills, and have spent extra money entertaining family members that have been visiting and flying to see other family. Together, my boyfriend and I have a good income - but we're struggling with our issues like paying off his debts so that we can look into buying our first home and afford a wedding in the next few years. I'm hesitant to give him any money because I'm afraid some of it will go towards helping my brother who is 26 years old, lives at home, jumps from job to job, and spends all of his extra money on drugs. My dad has never been good at budgeting his money. It burns a hole in his pocket. I'm torn as to what to do. If I loan him any money - it wouldn't be much as I only have $700 to my entire name. Thoughts??

2007-07-27 16:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by VetTech1016 3 in Family

2007-07-27 16:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by candi c 1 in Singles & Dating

I stay up all night with our infant, I stay awake all day with our infant, sometimes, I go without any sleep for days with our son, today, I was able to take a nap with my son and not 30 minutes later my husband is waking me up because he is bored. I am furious, and I explained to him that I am so tired I want to cry but it means nothing to him, I am awake now and of course he is sleeping peacefully, I really want to dump ice water over him and fantasizing about divorce, what would you do?

2007-07-27 16:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by Carpathian Mage 3 in Marriage & Divorce

LAST NIGHT MY SHOOL HAD A DISCO......AND MY BEST FRIEND CALLED SAM HAS A SOFT SPOT (IN LOVE) WITH A BOY CALLED NICK...BUT THE THING IS THAT I LIKE, LIKE NICK TOO........AND NICK SAID TO SAM HE LIKED HER BUT NOT ME......AND AFTER THAT NICK TRIED TO DANCE AND HUG SAM........
I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND A SIT NEXT TOO HIM AT SCHOOL.........SO WHAT SHOULD I DO.....BECAUSE I AM VERY, VERY IN LOVE WITH NICK.......(I'M A SHY PERSON)

2007-07-27 16:01:23 · 7 answers · asked by Katie L 1 in Singles & Dating

"Am I pregnant?"
"I want to kill the baby, what do I do?"
"Should I cheat on him?"
"Can I wash the condem after sex?"

Let's have some fun! Add yours to the list!

2007-07-27 16:01:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

many say it's in the eyes... i'm asking about the smile itself.

is a wide smile attractive? can a narrow smile be sexy too? what attracts you to a smile?

2007-07-27 16:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at least since I am not in the wedding party but can I expect to be included in the wedding party with my husband? I mean come on...i am going to be sitting alone right? geesh...

no, i dont want to be a brides maid, those dresses are ridiculous and this wedding is going to be to big, to long for me to be that uncomfortable. I just dont want to be excluded is all.

2007-07-27 15:58:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jessy 5 in Weddings

ok so there this girl that I have been texting and talking to over the past 3 months or so. But I want to ask her to hang out with me tomorrow but I cant think of a good way to ask. it is to watch a movie or go to one or something like that. How do I ask her but not be to pushy.

Girls: how would you like a guy to ask you to a movie?





Thanks

2007-07-27 15:54:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it feel like and how does it make you feel? Give me the most detail discription about it.

2007-07-27 15:52:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm the alternative/indie rocker type, i love to read and watch movies..i am vegetarian and i like to be unique...so heres the thing:

this guy i've liked for years...i was too shy when he first asked me out on a date..and now...(years later) we still like each other alot..

the problem is, he has experience in relationships and dating, and i don't..i've never gotten past my shyness..plus i'm also dealing with alot of anxiety and depression..but i'm getting help and feeling better, so...i want to give this my best shot.

how do i get past the shyness and have quality time..i'm not a **** or a whore..so him getting in my pants is the last thing on my mind..

i know being myself is the best thing, but maybe some tips...or just some advice.

even simple words of encouragement!!

Additional Details:

no...we STILL LIKE EACH OTHER, as in, he does't need to ask me out..

2007-07-27 15:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by lacy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is a hypothetical question because neither of these girls actually like me. Ok, the first is a uni graduate, likes the same music as me, and we get along really well. The second one is pretty much opposite to me in every way. She never went to uni, likes different music and our personalities are different but there's just a connection that's hard to explain. Who would you choose?

2007-07-27 15:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by Adam Antium 4 in Singles & Dating