me and this girl were bestfriends for about a year, then we decided to go out and tonight she broke up with me, she says she still loves me and cares for me but i dont know what to believe, ive been trying to expolain to her how much i care about her and love her, but i just dont know how to explain it, thats how much i love her and care for her
2007-07-27 16:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT BEG!!!! Make her wonder how your feeling. That will make her more crazy if you sort of just forget about her.... not beg her!
2007-07-27 16:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
enzo32ferrari's dating tips...for guys.
Topic: Do you or do you not?
The 1st reason that comes to my mind, is why all of a sudden, you two go out, and you break up on the same night. Could it be something you did? Try and retrace your steps, and if you can't, just ask what you might've done, and make sure you say you're not mad. Saying how much you care and love for her CAN "lose its flavor", then she might believe you don't really mean that. Just talk about the night when you two went out, and ask if you want to "go on another date" or "have a repeat date" to say sorry for last time.
2007-07-27 16:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by enzo32ferrari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop explaining.
She broke up with you..it's over.
Saying she still loves you and cares for you is a way of letting you down easily...or so she thinks. She doesn't realize that it is leading you on, which it is.
She wants the relationship over, so leave it alone.
Don't send her poems, don't call, don't serenade her....nothing! She'll feel stalked and you will look like a goof.
2007-07-27 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her a few days. And then try to contact her, tell her you want to talk. And if for some reason she doesn't want to talk to you. She's already decided that she just doesn't want to be with you any more. Or she already has someone else. In that case then you deserve alot better....
Good Luck to You.
2007-07-27 16:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you've been best friends for so long, she might just love you like a brother. you guys can still love and care for each other, but not in a romantic way.
2007-07-27 16:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by kb293 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her every thing that's how me and my boyfriend got 2 getter i liked someone else until i figured out how much he really loved me that was 2 years ago and we are still 2 getter he told me everything and he never asked Any one what 2 do and tell me how it ends up gooooooooooood luck fingers crossed
2007-07-27 16:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by catblush360 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and go CLOSE to her and look straight into her eyes and say "i love you" and see what she does. its cute and play full just try it. after than have a talk about how much you care.
2007-07-27 16:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Some Person 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i kno how you feel man. i went out with my best friend who i've known for 2 years. she broke up with me, an she says she still likes me. know, after 2 years of being best friends, we decided to just be best friends. and we're like bro and sis. i kno it stinks, but thats women (NO OFFENSE)
2007-07-27 16:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i believe u need to cut ur losses. u can't force someone to love u. if it's meant to be it will come back. remember u and her were best friends, if u can't be lovers then try and regain ur relationship as friends
2007-07-27 16:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Andre D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her email or address(if you havent already) and send her a poem that ryms saying u love her and need to be her.
2007-07-27 16:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if someone dont want 2 be with u then theire is nothing u can do sorry.. even telling her u love her wont make her want 2 be with u.
2007-07-27 16:26:16 · answer #11 · answered by jeannine v 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋