would you date one of ur best friends ex's?
my best friend just broke up with her ex but then she met another guy that she is totally in love with.
she said she thought it would be cute. in fact it was her idea
so should i date him even though he likes me?
2007-07-27 16:21:53 · 27 answers · asked by astrid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...she's given you her blessing. But it could be a bit weird. He may talk about her, your best friend may talk about him. And when you want to talk about your b/f, her ex, she may get weirded out about it.
If you really like it I'm sure you can make it work though, it could get complicated.
2007-07-27 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Janey 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM! EEK!
Sorry for the caps but it's true, my friend also broke up with her bf except she isn't in love with anything else. In fact, she's still undecided about how she feels about him and he's trying to get with me! I can't ruin such a great friendship, she's my best friend, I'd be lost without her, therefore, I let him know that we could only be friends. But, in your case, if it was her idea, then I don't see a problem although some conflicts may arise so be careful.
2007-07-27 23:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is totally over him and shes seeing someone else and it was her idea, then yeah! go for it!!
It would be cute cause then you guys would dubble date and..well..it would be very cute.
So yeah go out with him, but just make sure you best friend is over him first. 'Cause if she isn't then that would be a bad idea..But like you said that she fell in love with a nother guy..
GO FOR IT!
Have a very great time!
And Good Luck!
2007-07-27 23:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!! i had two girls, one of them one of my best friends...my bf said to said girl she didn't care if she dated her ex...anyways, any showing of affection in public tore the two friends apart until a constant battle erupted between the two...the talk to each other now but it's never been the same...i know what they both went through cuz i was a lucky middle person (sarcasm) and OHMYGOD what a mess that was...
trust me when i say don't do it!!!!!!!
2007-07-27 23:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mags 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never quite understood this concept of not dating somebody ex.
If he is an ex, then that person is finished with him.
When I was in school we all dated the same bunch of guys I say date him.....
2007-07-27 23:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but my friends aren't attracted to the same kind of guys that I am. And even if we did like the same kind of guys, the answer would still be no. Too weird.
2007-07-27 23:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Tiesto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course, if you 2 really like eachother. If you just sort of like him don't, it is a tough decision. I did it and it didn't turn out great. IF you really like him a lot go for it, if the friend gets mad tell her to get over it, and that she gave you permission.
2007-07-27 23:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the rule is not to date your best friends ex's but if you think it's worth it and it could last then do it because your friend seems chil with the idea ! good luck
2007-07-27 23:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is okay with you going out with him - and you are completely sure - then go for it. If it's going to make things weird between you two, talk it through and do what you think is best for you. If your best friend is completely over this guy, and this guy is comepletely over your best friend, then it shouldn't be a big deal.
:)
No harm, no foul.
Hope that helps!
2007-07-27 23:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by ItalianBella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I would NOT!!! Trust she is just saying that. Also if you guys are really good friends then definitely not. Kinda weird that she wants you to date her ex. Good Luck w/ everything ;)
2007-07-27 23:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋