i'm the alternative/indie rocker type, i love to read and watch movies..i am vegetarian and i like to be unique...so heres the thing:
this guy i've liked for years...i was too shy when he first asked me out on a date..and now...(years later) we still like each other alot..
the problem is, he has experience in relationships and dating, and i don't..i've never gotten past my shyness..plus i'm also dealing with alot of anxiety and depression..but i'm getting help and feeling better, so...i want to give this my best shot.
how do i get past the shyness and have quality time..i'm not a **** or a whore..so him getting in my pants is the last thing on my mind..
i know being myself is the best thing, but maybe some tips...or just some advice.
even simple words of encouragement!!
Additional Details:
no...we STILL LIKE EACH OTHER, as in, he does't need to ask me out..
2007-07-27 15:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by lacy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its good you say that being yourself is a best shot for you. You dont have to be pressured it is good if you act naturally and nothing is scripted or well planned sometimes it doesnt work. So its better you discuss things with under the sun with no pressure...ok
2007-07-27 15:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know much advice to give you but I have had problems with anxiety too, (I did a course to help me but I've been considering going back), I'm shy and a vegetarian. Wow, I feel like I'm reading about me. With advice, just take things slowly. You could try telling him that you are shy and he should understand. Just be open and honest and don't be in a rush to overcome all this, just give yourself time and you'll get there. Good luck.
2007-07-27 16:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by caroline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard, and for you whos asked this same question twice i feel that i should answer. The reason is simply because you lack social experience. But just accept him. Its not going to kill you or anything. If hes truly as good as you've described him as. You won't have a problem conversating with him.
Vo.
2007-07-27 15:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Haikin L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but he does need to ask you out --- you need to be together to get comfortable being with each other --- talk to each other about anything and everything --- spend companionable silences together --- im sorry why should any thing you are being anything but proper just being with a guy --- it seems too many people are too eager to judge --- anyway all you are concerned with is each other let other people find their own pleasures --- take pleasure in each others company --- best wishes
2007-07-27 15:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection hurts and men don't like to go through this time after time with the same girl...what's in it for him?
2007-07-27 15:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tim C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like you are talking to your best friend or your brother or something
2007-07-27 15:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldnt even rad this whole thing whithut boring myself
2007-07-27 15:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋