2007-07-27 19:04:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had a lot of boyfriends but they were not the right ones for me. so i keep trying and no luck yet. i don't know what i should do. i need advice on what i should do. any one out there?
2007-07-27 19:08:25 · update #1
The battle is letting someone find you. I pretty much have vowed off dating until God sends me someone . I have found that if you take your focus off the issue ( well at least something like this ) the person right for you will come in time. In the meantime keep living life to the fullest and learn to be o.k. with being single.
2007-08-04 18:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by cjs23navy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know the secret?? STOP TRYING!!! stop looking, stop everything. He's around, just let things take its course. don't see every guy as a romantic candidate, see him as just a friend. Hang out more like friends then romantic interests. One day he will come and slap you in the face (no not literally) But you have to be patient.
2007-08-05 01:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Emna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have thought this out.
It's good that you know what kind of person you are looking for. Some people find the wrong person then proceed to change that person. I am sure you will find that special someone eventually.
2007-08-04 17:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by candle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lizzy, do yo get along with yourself? If you can't learn to love yourself, how can anyone else ever learn to love you? So, begin with yourself. Learn to love and accept yourself, as you are, without judgment. If you can do this, truly accept yourself, then you will find others will be attracted to you. And you will have the options. You will select only those who honor you by the way they are.
2007-07-28 02:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A trick i learnt from my friend and he is now having a long long long relationship
This is my best friend he told me that he found a girl whose chracteristics were alot like mine and we 3 get along really well she is just like me and he likes her because she is just like me
good luck
2007-08-04 20:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lizzy, hang loose & keep pursuing your interests w/eyes open. someone will come along when you least expect it as long as you don't have a long list of expectations. if you do maybe you should peruse & decide on fewer qualifications.
good luck.
linda y
2007-08-05 01:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by linda y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. It just means you haven't met the right guy when you do you'll enjoy spending the majority of your time with him. Me and my husband were inseparable until his deployment. He's my best friend.
2007-07-28 02:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably won't find the right guy until later because you're probably a young girl,but someday you're find your prince charming,remember everyone has a soul mate in this world,you just have to find him.good luck!
2007-08-05 02:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by rosiebearohiogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a checklist of what you like and what you don't.. Make a column for each. The checklist can handy especially if you have prospect. You can refer to it as to if he has more of your like qualities or not.. But, the bottom line there is that... it is still up to you.
2007-08-05 01:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kaye Bennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of my best relationships happened when i was totally not looking to be in one. so my suggestion is to not focus on a relationship focus on doing ssomething fun with a best friend and create some fun memories. who knows what might happen
2007-08-05 01:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋