Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

i read somewhere online that in az you don't have to go through a legal process that all you need is the certified marriage license to start changing your documents is this true?

2007-07-12 15:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is it okay to be going out with someone but still think other guys are hot? I mean, I don't tell him but I laugh with my friends about it and stuff. I am going out with a guy but am chrushing on about 5 other guys... I think some of them like me too but I would never dump my current bf. Is this okay for me to do?

2007-07-12 15:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl started dating that i work with in december 2006. She was my assistant. Everything was good till March but then i found out she started talking to the guy that she left for me (nothing serious). I approched her about it and she was shocked. She then becaome closer to me and our relationship was great. We were in love had a great time at work and outta work. No one knew we were together even though she worked 10 feet from me. May she went away for 20 days and she wrote me emails .telling me how she missed me loved me all the nice things someone could say. I was feeling so good and couldnt wait for her to get back. Long story short the week she gets back I found out she is talking to a guy she met at the airport from her trip. I asked her about it and we fought and i cancelled out weekend trip. Now she told me she does not want me to call anymore and to leave her alone. She says that I pushed and smothered or is it she wanted her cake and eat it to. Women- what it mean?

2007-07-12 15:06:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We love each other and know that we will be together. He said that he would like to be proposed to which I would love to do, but would like a traditional proposal, with traditional wedding. I know its old fashioned, but would thats how I would like it!

2007-07-12 15:06:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been in a relationship for 10 years. We stopped living together for 1 year because of he says his mom needs need him (bedridden but drinks). All we do is talk on the phone everyday and no intimacy but probably once a month.He don't want to marry and we don't have any kids together. But I still care for him. My love is fading. I have been seeing someone else secretly because of respect for him. What should I do?

2007-07-12 15:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by carol d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just hooked up with arecently DIVORCED guy.?
He is a bit older.37 and Im 23. He had like ed, and said to my friend it probably should not have happend. The hook up that is. I dont get it . He said he was attracted to me. I wonder why he said that. He's already asking other girls out. Im kind of mad..

2007-07-12 15:01:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this sounds like a stupid question for many people, but I never used to feel this way before because I wasnt really interested in having serious relationships. But now I would really like to live a normal healthy life, get married, have kids you know the drill and another thing and probably most importantly is my relationship with God. i do not think he aproves this way of life (just what i believe). So can anyone help me?? I really dont know how but yeah........

2007-07-12 14:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe is another stupid question but i just wonder , i am asking this because i work in a place and most of the white girls look at me but i am not really sure if they do that because they like me or because they see me weird,by the way my english is not good enough for having a relationship with someone who doesn't speak spanish,would a white girl be patient to talk with me even knowing that my english is not good,cuz in every relationship comunication is so important and by the way most of the girls that look at me are so young do white girls like old guys i mean I am 29 and most of them are 19 and 23 ,thanks and i apologize for my bad spelling and bad english :)

2007-07-12 14:55:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to help by trying to catch some of these pedofiles on the internet by posing as a young girl( 10 years old) well I did it. and I figured I could just start and find out how to go about telling on him later on, well by the time i got something on the guy, I found out that was I was doing was illegal? I was told that it was called entrapment. Is this true? Is there another way that I could go about getting this guy in trouble? This guy seems like the type of predator to steal a child and keep them captive. It bothers me really bad knowing that I might not be able to do anything about this now, another child might be at risk if I dont do something. What can I do without getting myself in trouble?

2007-07-12 14:54:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-12 14:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jake P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this girl for awhile now and there are times when she feels that I need to be:

1) More affectionate - I feel the amout of affection I give is the equal amount to anyone else's in a relationship

2) More sensitive - Sensitivity isn't a guy thing. I'm not on a macho path, I'm just not the kind of person who reveals his personal feelings 24/7

I'm more laid-back, mature, and calm, whereas she can be stressed out and juvenile. This is my first relationship, so she's in more control, yet whenever we have "talks" about me being more of the above, I get sent on a guilt trip and try to change to make her happy. But it doesn't make me happy.

I also don't find it neccessary that if you're looking for that someone, and the one you're with isn't "the one", you shouldn't have to mold them into their Prince Charming.

I've had serious thoughts of breaking up with her, but I'm not sure how to break it to her.

2007-07-12 14:44:59 · 43 answers · asked by Tcap 3 in Singles & Dating

i need some serious support or to vent-im in a shitty situation-my boyfriend is very abusive-he always tells me he wants to punch me in the face-and choke me and that he hopes i fall down the stairs-he wants me to cook and clean and shut my mouth-have no opinion-not to talk unless talked to-im not allowed to pursue any of my dreams-i have no friends-i have no family-my father passed and mom is ill -i dont know what to do-i have no money,no car,its his house since he pays the bills,i dont have anything-his family is VERY supportive-im in mesa,with all his family-his family doesnt like my children because there not daniels-i have no access to a phone unless i begggg him to use it-in front of him-for some reason i just want to end my life-i stay because-him and his mom will take custody of our daughter-i have no money,no home,no family,nothing-except for the clothes on my back and thats it. im using his computer-because he thinks im paying his bills online-please dont make fun of me-

2007-07-12 14:42:50 · 17 answers · asked by DEDRA 2 in Family

2007-07-12 14:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by rage707_666 2 in Friends

2007-07-12 14:40:30 · 10 answers · asked by inquisitor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sorry my english, im spaniard. im dating an american chick.

She is loosing hair ( A LOT ) because she is stress cuz of her exams ( university ) . Everytime she looses a strand of hair I feel like our relation is dying slowly. What's the softest way to tell her i don't wanna be around a bald head woman? and, just in case she gets her hair back , what should i tell her to go back with her?

I HAVE to dump her, is like dating a dinosaur. , is horrible..

2007-07-12 14:36:42 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been talking/seeing this guy at work for about 3 months. We talk on the ph for hours sometimes, text a lot. Sometimes we chat on aim at work, we always hang out on breaks and lunches but we haven't hung out a lot outside work and weekends. I'm 25 yrs leave w my 2 lil sisters (18 n 21 yrs), he's 26 leaves w his parents. We leave about 45 mnts apart. So we don't really have enough privacy to be alone. We hung out only 4 times after work to grab something to eat or have a drink. This situation is kind of weird for me so I thought he probably has a gf/another girl. 1st time when I asked him, he said there's a lot of rumors about him at work and when I said if he wants me to leave him alone he said not to. The 2nd time, he didn't answer my question and things between us got kind of awkward it took us awhile to get on track again but that still leaves me with no answer if he has a gf or not. Sometimes I have doubts that he's into me but what I know is he said he likes seeing and talking to me also enjoys my company. He goes on breaks and lunches w me everytime he gets the chance because he's always busy at work. We've been calling each other hunny and he's the one that started calling me that. Last Friday he asked me to hang out w him I thought it's just going to be another ordanary night w him but it turned out to be a great date! (our 1st date) from the date, I could tell that he really likes me because he couldn't stop looking at me and kissing me on my forhead, cheeks, and my hand when we're holding hands. On Monday when I was sick, he asked me if I was feelling any better, etc but there are times that I have my doubts if he's into me because if I think about it most the time I'm the one that always call him 1 to 2 times a week or text him first everyday, and if I don't he sometimes text me and rarely calls me. He sometimes doesn't txt me back or pick up the ph. Especially on the weekends there are no ph calls or texts from him even if I text or call him, it would be a miracle if he answered me back. Btw about our intimate stuff, we only did that twice. Now I'm getting tired of this game and decided to stop calling or text him. In my head I do want to ask him but in my heart I think I already know the answer. So I really don't know what to do...do you guys think he's playing games, booty calls, into me or do I bother him to much or what is it? Please help me...

2007-07-12 14:36:36 · 14 answers · asked by marlie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 year old girl. Lately i have been going into yahoo chats and talking to guys. I like to talk to the guys about sex, what we would do if we had it and stuff. I find sex interesting but i know i am too young and i would do it until i was ready. I think i have been talking about to guys to replace my want to actually do it. Is this a bad thing? Is it normal?

2007-07-12 14:34:09 · 44 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

married since march and im not happy what should i do

2007-07-12 14:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i got married a year and a half ago in vegas. I was working and my wife as well. She later had to quit her job to finish her masters program. After getting married in vegas spontaneously, i knew i wanted to give her more than what i gave her in vegas. She wanted to get rings and have a wedding down the road. I agreed and promised i would try and make it happen. Well it hasnt...and its a year later. I got into real estate, she had to quit her job and i said i would take care of her. Since then money has been hard and i had to get a job to cover bills. She hasnt worked but she just got hired. I wanted to get her a ring, but she had a savings and was able to financially get it before i could do it on my own. I knew it was wrong, but i knew she needed to have a ring...at least. Through this struggle these last 6 months, she has built resentment due to my lack of action and following through with my promises. I love her so much, but she wants to divorce me, i want to fix it!

2007-07-12 14:29:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

had sex on the first date. And are you still in the relationship? Or did it become a relationship and not just a one night stand?

2007-07-12 14:29:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 14:29:36 · 5 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

my first love was my ideal and i broke his heart because i was afraid he was changing my priorities.. im a musician have been since 7 years... 10 yrs later im in love to the exact person i would imagine... i grew cold to love... im still cold i never really like anyone anymore.. im cynical about it and i dont know what to do.. i dont beleive it exists anymore.. its been 5 years... i still look for him in other people i cant find him, there is no unconditional love in hollywood, no one who actually cares... he hates me and will never talk to me... how do i grow past the person who would have always been there for me

2007-07-12 14:26:45 · 13 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Singles & Dating

What way would you tell a uy or a girl that you liked them? or how? (if long distance away)

2007-07-12 14:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Oranges 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you define good personality?
how can you tell if a guy has a good personality?
what are the qualities of being a guy with good personality ... help me out

2007-07-12 14:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by Skateboard P 1 in Singles & Dating

do both sexes think the same on this subject...?
is love an important thing more in a woman's or in a man's life???

2007-07-12 14:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by all me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

that u've said something to a girl because u thought she wanted to hear it just to get something out of her?.............

for ex. saying u think she's beautiful just to get in her pants.

2007-07-12 14:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by greeneyedphsyco 2 in Singles & Dating

well, my mom is crying and my dad is not yelling but my mom was crying because my dad never comes home early, i know he would not be doing anything bad because i have known him for a long time but i think he should be getting home earlier but he will not really answer a good answer. pls help?

2007-07-12 14:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by w♥ 2 in Family

like i'm only 13! is this weird! i want some perspective. llol

2007-07-12 14:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been having problems lately with my husband. We've been married almost a year come september 23rd and the past week he had to stop smoking pot cuz he got a DUI awhile back and has to take classes for it. But since he has quit it seems like im getting b****ed at every 5 min. sure some of it is my fault but he tells me to have common sense and get my head outta my ***. sorry we think to compleatly different ways when your not smoking. But my problem is ive been thinking bout getting a divorce but we have a 4 month old daughter and I dont wanna lose her and I know he will make me leave her here with him if i do leave. Any suggestions?

2007-07-12 14:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by Traci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do boys wink at girls?? and with eye do they use? thankz. i never got y ppl do that to girls.

2007-07-12 14:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by bklynmaster56 1 in Singles & Dating