Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

2007-07-12 14:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think this is my breaking point.. I don’t know what to do, and I really could use some people that just want to care. I really messed up this time. There is no one to blame but myself this time… I have a lot of anger built up inside me and I’m just going to end up going crazy. I am 5’9 and use to weigh 170 ( which scene I was so tall I looked pretty normal)

I met this guy and I fell for him.. I mean I have thought about him every day scene I left him.

I need help. I need to be over this, I don’t know what to do.. He has another girl friend and it doesn’t bother me, what bothers me is what he said, and did to me, he treated me good when he was in a good mood….

So this is the problem… I think I’m pregnant, or something is very very wrong with me!!!

I feel this grinding in my lower stomach, when I look at my stomach it jumps, I haven’t had my period scene 0ctober 30. But the last time I had sex was on june8 of last summer, and did bleed between june and October. There is no possible way I am pregnant.. Right? So I guess that I just keep hoping that this will go way, but every now and then I feel something in my stomach… I don’t know what it is

I know I messed up, I wish I could go back and just tell him to get away from me.. I hate him for what he did, and really messed up my life.. I don’t have any of my friends left, and I quit school when I only had a semster left to finish .. I hate myself.. All I do is think about my problem and what he did, and his new girl friend.. I cry, and sit alone.. I hate myself.. Why did I throw everything away??
But there is something inside me that Is pushing me to get threw this.. I would love to go to the doctors but my mom doesn’t have insurace if anything I would love to go to the ER right now because my veins are popping out alll up my arm ( all up it) and that’s not normall.. I’m dying inside I just don’t see what I’m going to do.. Why did he say he loved me? And then leave me and now he is happy and I’m soo alone with this problem?? Is everything my fault.. He had sex with me too.. I dunno what to do..

2007-07-12 14:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i like lied to me about having a girlfriend. I want to kick him in his balls right now! He said he liked me and he was going to get with me. What should I do! Should I play to at his game and act like I don't know or......???

2007-07-12 14:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by VeganChickk 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is going to have a baby, and i wanted to give it a special present, so i bought a piggy bank that i can decorate, but she will not know what the baby will be until it will be born, but i have to give her the present in the summer because i have to go to schooland will not be seeing her, because she lives far away. What can i decorate the piggy bank with, so that it will be a nice present for either a boy or girl. I wil lbe painting it, so it has to be simple.

Thank you SOO much!

2007-07-12 14:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by italyguitarchick 4 in Family

First to get a Background of my story go to my other qustions!!.
... Now How do i move on ( Single and lonely).. I have a really BIG trust issue right now i cant see my self ever trusting another person again....... To be honest i just want to take care of my son.. and when i am not doing that i just want to smoke weed every day to numb the pain.. let go of the hurt .. and just sit there. lmao ... i know it sounds bad , but dont judge.. i am out of ideas and right now i am out of feelings .. Advice needed.. comments required ... good and Bad... right about now theres nuthing you could say that could make me feel any worst!

Your friend and Mine -- Skip =P

2007-07-12 14:13:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

about marraige,that i ain't getting into one,she told me that she doesn't want to be married either.We both talk about the issue of a kid if by chance she got pregnant,that we will both work it out to make sure that the child is well taken care off.Now that she is pregnant,i told her that she can move in with me if she wants.But she is now telling me that her parents wants us to get married and she agrees with her parents.I refused,because i told her from the onset that i'm not interested in married.
That she can come live with me or i will pay child support,my question is she makes more money than me and does anyone out here what amount of percentage child support is,and if there is any word of advice for me,because i feel that we are both adults and we consented that neither of us is interested in marriage,when we started dating and her parents consent should not coming since she is in her mid thirties and i'm in my late thirties.

2007-07-12 14:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Abinobi 1 in Singles & Dating

Originally we were looking at this specific style of ring that I absolutely fell in love with but the ring was $48,000. There is no way we would have purchased that ring. My husband had our jeweler make a ring similar to the ring but not quite what I wanted. I fell in love with that ring as well. Recently, I lost one of the diamonds from my ring and we took it to be repaired. While we were there, my husband said to me, "Why don't we consider looking for another ring since this was not the original ring you wanted." I was reluctant but he found the exact ring we saw years ago (the $48,000 one) and it was about $12k. Of course the diamond wasn't perfect or as big but I loved the ring. Well recently my husband saw a documentary about how cheap diamonds really are and now he's reluctant to buy the ring. He's actually reluctant about buying anymore diamonds period. I don'tmean to sound shallow but I really love that ring. I was also planning to get him a new ring as well. What should I do?

2007-07-12 14:10:45 · 20 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5 in Weddings

We have a 14 month old baby and I'm in school full time, staying home with baby. He is a high school teacher. He comes home and sleeps on the couch. I am ready to stab him with a rusty pitchfork; I am so exhausted. How do I make him realize how hard I work and get him to help out? Please help!

2007-07-12 14:10:39 · 14 answers · asked by Corozal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 14:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Carter and I have been together for seven months. Everything was going great. We went to the same college together lived on campus so we spent a lot of time together. He proposed to me at the on the dock at the lake we came to so often to be at. He was always sending me cards or letters. He was so good to me and I love him very much. We could even read each others thoughts. So anyway, in June he was suppose to come for a week down at my house and we went to Florida to Walt Disney World for four of those days. When we got back to my house, that's when I noticed a huge change in him. I told him to be sure and call me when he got back home. It was like he was in a hurry to get out of Murray where I live. He quit calling me all together. When I would call him, he sounded different and seem to make excuses why he didn't call me and wouldn't want to talk very long. He went back to school because he has two weeks left.

2007-07-12 14:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

This little punk (16 or so) downstairs apartment says this to my roomate right as he is going in his apartment. There is no reason except maybe that this guy looks like a loser and my roomate drives an 07 gt mustang I guess? Jealousy or just plain stupidity? Its hard to tell. Whats your guess?

2007-07-12 14:06:51 · 12 answers · asked by Toothie 2 in Singles & Dating

1 year anniverssitty do you know what i should get my love?
its really hard trust! so idk what to get him .... hes very special and cute lol...so.....

2007-07-12 14:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my parents are away and they left me baby sitting we were outside and my bro came in side and took a nap when he woke up his ear was red and swollen and it just keep getting bigger and bigger right now his ear is hanging over please help me thanks

2007-07-12 14:05:00 · 31 answers · asked by 619*Monkey 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 14:04:56 · 28 answers · asked by Badthing 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

it seems that most guys (not all of them) like only the skinny girls...
Would you ever date a bigger sized girl?

2007-07-12 14:04:35 · 3 answers · asked by DesperatleyNeedingmyQsAnswered 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my 2 year old brother as if he was my own. However, I live with my grandmother because me and my parents couldn't get along. My parents are always trying to make my life a livin hell by threatening me that I will never see him again and that I am not welcome in their house. So what do I do so that I don't end up losing my brother?

2007-07-12 14:02:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so why is it?

2007-07-12 14:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by catwmn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all,

DAting with other race. Good or Dad?

Thank you!

2007-07-12 14:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although I think she is quite perfect and her breasts are too, this girl that I am on the verge of becoming the boyfriend of thinks her boobs are too small, its a bit of an issue for her.

Im not sure how to get around it if the subject does pop up (which it seems to now and again). Once i joked "If they were bigger it would be the first thing people see, like 'hey boobs..er i mean Hanna' "

2007-07-12 14:02:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 14:01:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think toe rings are hott?

2007-07-12 14:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so sick of being single, I'm 22 and i see all my friends finding their soul mates, I really start thinking I will end up alone and I really don't want that. I don't know what is wrong with me! I'm not a model but I'm not ugly either. I have a great family, nice friends, I succeed in my studies.. but I can't seem to find a guy who want to be more than my friend. Maybe I'm expecting too much. I don't know, is it so hard to find someone this day?

2007-07-12 14:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 13:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by Shawntel K 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been going out on dates alone and he almost always ask to see me again the following day. we do things that couples do- shopping, movies, dinner, dessert or just going to parks. my friend had asked him when he was going to say something and he said "when the opportunity comes". the question is, should i wait on him/ encourage him to make the first move or just move on? i really do like him but scared that he will be too late.

2007-07-12 13:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a girl who i think is shy, but she has quite a few friends who she talks to...mainly girls though..idk im just curious cuz im shy and I prefer shy girls

2007-07-12 13:53:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are getting married next summer. we are both 22 and while our friends still live with their parents and have no bills, we have an apartment and everybill you can imagine. here comes the problem. every time our friends invite us out, we kindly say thanks, but no thanks because we would rather save our money for a house, as we are doing, instead of dropping 50/60 bucks on a night of cocktails. so our friends started treating us to drinks when we go out because they want us to go out with them. i dont like this because i feel like i am a charity case. cant they understand that they have a larger disposbale income than we do at the moment? why are they paying for us all the time? its not just drinks, its now dinner and movie/show tickets and everytime they say, you'll pay next time, but they never let us. whats the right course of action here?

2007-07-12 13:52:40 · 5 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandfather has been very sick since February. After back and forth to the hospitals and rehabs to get him better and home, he still needs alot of care and rehab. He is in a Nursing Home now to try and rehab him to walk (his left leg gives out due to diabetes I believe and perhaps a stroke) and then hopefully get him home. He drove and did everything for his whole family and my grandmother up until he got too sick and is now in this situation. He really does not want to be there, but he is pleasant. What can I do or my family do to lift his spirits to make him more happy or comfortable???

2007-07-12 13:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by fun11 2 in Family

She'll go out like once or twice a week and I always get stuck babysitting my sibblings.
Everytime when she decides she is going out it is always within a half an hour before she leaves
Everytime before she leaves I somehow always make a big scene but sometimes I don't even remember how I started them
She'll always get really mad and I'll get yelled at
But I hate to see her mad at me so I am always stuck just sucking it up and knowing she's mad at me
But I feel that it could be eating away inside of me and pulling me farther away from her
But when she isnt going out and she has gotten over our last fight I am really close to her
I just hate thinking that she is driving away mad at me
Sometime later after she leaves she'll call to see how they're behaving and she seems to have calmed down and she doesnt seem mad but i still feel horrible and she says she'll talk to me about it in the morning but she never really does
what should i do? i love her and hate whats going on.

2007-07-12 13:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by xoLoveMaexo 2 in Family

why do guys get intimidated by girls in general and y? and also y do u guys get intimidated wen u see a pretty girl?

2007-07-12 13:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend & i have broken up for good this time about a year ago, and we were together for 3 years on&off and each time he would chase me back. but now i have a new boyfriend, and he's tried but we've gotten into some arguments and we have no relationship whatsoever now, not even as friends. we dont speak or anything. and recently i find he likes another girl, and he says the same thing to her that he used to say to me. i kno i shouldnt care becuz i have my boyfriend, and its not even right for me to even care becuz im over him and he deserves someone new. i know.. but why do i feel so sad? hah this is stupid i know, but i just need to kno why i keep thinkin how he could ever possibly love another..

im not being selfish, or so im trying not to. its just, even if im with someone, i could never imagine him loving anyone else but me. and its what he told me. ahh idk. im stupid. why do i feel like this?

2007-07-12 13:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by Riley 4 in Singles & Dating