Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

I am constantly turned away from my husband sexually. I am feeling frustrated and angry and resentful and hurt..etc.. he "teases meby saying oh lets make love tonight i;m horney so i fall for it and i say ok! i am too it has been a while and when nightfall comes, he rejects me when i remind him it is time for some love...and he pulls away and/or will make sure he has a few beers and has an"excuse" for not wanting to have sex with me. i am not ugly either. oh as a matter of fact i sale cars at a new dealership and i am the only woman there and u would think he would be a little jealous,,but no he is not..he actually seems like he wants to give me away like i am not good enough. i feel hurt and confused as to why he will not make love to me. he used to want to make luv to his ex all of the time but with me, he balks if we do it 1 time a week! and he makes sure he does it fast enough to where i do not have any pleasure then he finishes and rolls over and goes to sleep and tells me scram.

2007-07-12 01:49:43 · 23 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 01:49:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 01:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i haven't seen my dad in 2 yrs. He's never seen my daughter who is 1 now. Why? because there was a lot of family issues like money and my parents saying my daughter wasn't my husbands because they just didn't like him so they were mean to him. Well my mom recently called and would like myself the baby and my husband to go to their house for a visit. her b-day was yesterday and this is all she would like from us as her b-day gift. She says my dad often cries because he hasn't seen my daughter, but yet he is so stubborn he won't call me to tell me that! Anyway i want to go see them today and my husband is as stubborn as my dad is and says why should we go over there after all they"ve done.(ex: missing our wedding never calling on my birthday or my daughters etc....) I still love my parents and my heart is breaking, my dad has a really bad heart and i want him to see our child before its to late! my husband dosen't care! he will stop me if i try to go myself! What should i do! HELP!!!!!!!

2007-07-12 01:34:38 · 15 answers · asked by greenmarkalyssa 2 in Family

I'm 34, never had a girlfriend and a virgin and it's because all of these stupid requirements and demands have for what a a guy is supposed to be like. I'm needy, clingy, insecure, fat, lazy and passive. I have very little responsibility compared to most my age and I intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I play PS2 and go on the internet when I'm not working and that's it. If I didn't have to work to support myself, which unfortunately I do, I would sleep 16 hours a day, and spend the other 8 playing PS2 and going on the internet and eating. And everyone says "be yourself and you'll find someone", so I shouldn't HAVE to change anything about myself. I admit I am not too concerned with what I have to offer a woman, in fact I resent HAVING to have something to offer a woman. I just feel like I automatically deserve a hot-looking woman in my life to make me happy. And for all of human history just about, nobody really cared if women were happy in their relationships

2007-07-12 01:27:06 · 19 answers · asked by egocentric_loner 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm serving overseas and she allows our daughter to do what she pleases, spoiling her; she has no job, she's drop out of college and does nothing every day. Those are the two things we argue about the most; her spoiling our daughter allowing no discipline, and our 7 dogs running rapant in our filthy house. She knows my intent; I'm having to remind her countless times to keep the house clean, no more dogs, and encourage our daughter to either find a job or go back to school. I get no phone calls, or letters, and when she does send me a box every blue moon, no note or letter wishing me well, or any hint of encouragement, or how much she misses me. Very cold, very distant relationship. Married now for over 20 years, so please don't tell me a marriage counselor is your answer. Am I wrong for putting up with this crap?! I think it's time for me to end the marriage! What think you???

2007-07-12 01:24:56 · 21 answers · asked by cm2pappa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The father of the child is sacrificing happines only for child, but the marriage is real hell. Is ok for the child to live in that kind of enviroment, or is better to devorce and to have 2 normal parents, not to live in fighting enviroment.

2007-07-12 01:23:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's true...guys only want one thing from us girls, but i thought i'd met a decent one at last, he said he was different and that he'd never do that and gave me sympathy for the last 4 times i was silly enough to trust guys and then get walked over and left feeling like a fool.
But he played me like all the others, sweet talked me and i fell for him big style, i haven't seen him for 2 weeks and he ignores me so i don't try talking to him anymore...but i still think about him and i'm hurt the way he got what he wanted and did what the others did...didn't want to know me anymore.
I'm tempted to email him and make him feel bad, saying how he's taught me not to trust anyone anymore and i can't believe he did that to me, or tell him i hope he's happy for hurting me or something...do you think i should do it? If so, what else should i say?

2007-07-12 01:17:03 · 16 answers · asked by Yellow 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 01:16:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't think of the word... when you love someone so much, no matter what, your love doesn;t change. There is a word to describe that type of love... AND I CANT THINK OF IT!!!! Agggghhh! Nightmare.

10 points to the first correct answer! :)

2007-07-12 01:07:41 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

All my tests in school are finished. My parents had told me that i must work well & be among top five. I don't think i have work very well. I am sure my parents will be very angry at me help !!!!!!!!!

2007-07-12 01:05:07 · 4 answers · asked by Lets Rock 2 in Friends

There is this woman that lives in my complex who i have a crush on. We have spoken to one another a few times when we saw eachother whether coming in or leaving for work. but never have introduced our selves. I was thinking to introduce myself to her. I would like to get to know her, but i wonder if she has a bf. i have not seen her with a guy since a while ago since then i havent seen her with anyone. She seems to be at the complex bc whenever i leave for soccer or for a job i see that she is there and we acknowledge each other. What should i do next? How can i find out if she has a bf or is single. what signs what a female show if she is single? if i dont see a guy around her apt does that mean she is single? please help me i really do like her and have a crush on her. what should my next step be? thank u

2007-07-12 01:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

When agreeing to get a divorce which is the preferred route: mediator or attorney and why?

2007-07-12 00:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by caramia9691 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i like guys.well a lot of guys -well3 in particular one is cute kinda the sk8ter look and the next one is shy and preppy and then the 3rd one is a bad boy but he tells me he loves me but we arent involved, so what do the other guys like in a girl? like im all about having a personaltity but i was just wondering what those guys like in a guy like personality and hair and cloths wise??

thnx
help

2007-07-12 00:58:09 · 4 answers · asked by ♥RaWR 3 in Singles & Dating

Our invitation said that 'monetary gifts appreciated' on the right hand bottom of the invite....although it doesn't seem to matter these days, is this correct etiquette to have this written right in with the invitation?

2007-07-12 00:57:53 · 32 answers · asked by basport_2000 5 in Weddings

2007-07-12 00:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do I have to hire an attorney? Does the house need to sell first? I've never been in this situation before. Help!

2007-07-12 00:47:51 · 7 answers · asked by jen_walla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it because of lack of self esteem, lack of confidence?
I'm in a VERY Bad situation, somebody fell in love with me, and I don't feel the same for that person, and I fell in love with somebody, and not sure if the feeling is mutual. I need advices pleaseeeeeee. serious answers only please.

2007-07-12 00:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by ox23al 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-12 00:31:33 · 41 answers · asked by shady45196 2 in Singles & Dating

How soon is too soon to date after divorce? If you've been drifting apart from someone for years, decide to move on and feel excellent about doing it, it's very amicable and you're the happiest you've ever been with no regrets, is it fine to start seeing someone a couple of months later?

2007-07-12 00:31:01 · 25 answers · asked by lenny_bun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats a cute nickname for a boy named "CeeJay"?

2007-07-12 00:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by Mayra 2 in Family

I am asking my girlfriend to marry me next friday, but i respect her father ...so anyone got any good ideas how and when to ask h for his daughters hand in marriage

2007-07-12 00:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-12 00:25:35 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why wont my son get a job? He moans about having no money but wont get a job? Why does the government allow this?

2007-07-12 00:25:13 · 14 answers · asked by sunnyday 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello all

i want to say something . i enjoy being on this because you can sk and answefr questions we also answer the problems and watch dreams come true. listen over the past few months i have asked questions for others asked some questions because i was curious and qasked some because i was scared, you all do not need to know the details of my life all you need to know is i want to be a part and answer the questions. i will not be mean nor judge and please `do not judge me with the array of questions i have, i just want to help and learn.

thank you for most have been nice and thoughtful. i personallyhavo no life i just need to escapoe the hell i am
in.

2007-07-12 00:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by ERICA L 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Man from the childhood learns more and more and tries to get better for his future. Inspite of that he remain on normal race and other get bright future. Why ?

2007-07-12 00:17:27 · 10 answers · asked by anil a 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to make money. no fricken lamonade stand crap! plz just post links to good sites that can help me make money when im a kid! heeeeeeelp meeeeeee!

2007-07-12 00:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My next door neighbor has been going through a rough time over the past couple of months. His marriage is on the rocks and he is considering getting a divorce. He and my husband are best friends, they hang out all the time. My husband has been trying to cheer him up for the past few weeks but nothing seems to be working.
Last night my husband told me that he is going to hook our 16 year old daughter up with our 45 year old neighbor. He says that Jimco, our neighbor, has always been attracted to our daughter and dating her would be a really good boost for his morale.
He says that he knows that Jimco would never harm our daughter or take advantage of her in anyway.
He really wants our neighbor to be happy and feels that this is the best way of doing it. Is he right? Should my husband really hook our daughter up with our 45 year old neighbor?

2007-07-12 00:04:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl on messenger a month ago.. we talk a lot through text messenging and sometimes the phone, we haven't met yet.. well I keep saying "I love you" on the phone and she goes, "Luv ya too" and stuff. I really am falling in love with her.

Well last night I asked if she would go out with me, as in a relationship. She told me "we will have to meet first.."

Is this a good sign or a chance of a "no" ?

2007-07-12 00:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce