It's true...guys only want one thing from us girls, but i thought i'd met a decent one at last, he said he was different and that he'd never do that and gave me sympathy for the last 4 times i was silly enough to trust guys and then get walked over and left feeling like a fool.
But he played me like all the others, sweet talked me and i fell for him big style, i haven't seen him for 2 weeks and he ignores me so i don't try talking to him anymore...but i still think about him and i'm hurt the way he got what he wanted and did what the others did...didn't want to know me anymore.
I'm tempted to email him and make him feel bad, saying how he's taught me not to trust anyone anymore and i can't believe he did that to me, or tell him i hope he's happy for hurting me or something...do you think i should do it? If so, what else should i say?
2007-07-12 01:17:03 · 16 answers · asked by Yellow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The solution is simple...keep your legs closed until you have a ring on your finger. Stop giving it up so easily!
2007-07-12 01:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi Emily,
To immediately address your question, yes, e-mail him. His avoidance shows that he most likely wants off with a clear conscience; don't let him get away with it. Send the e-mail instead of just letting it go. It seems like in this case the e-mail will be the only form of closure that you get from this relationship so make sure that you don't say anything that you'll regret or want to take back. Very plainly explain how you feel and that you hope he understands what he's done to you. Write this as if you will get no response. You seem like the sort of person who has hope for everyone, even the bad people, but don't leave yourself hanging and waiting for a response from this guy.
I'm sorry about these past two weeks. I know from experience, as i'm sure most of us in this group do, how painful time can be. Write the e-mail, re-read it a few times and make sure you feel good about it, then send it. I'm sure you'll find yourself wanting to know if he's read it, etc. etc. and good luck making it through that too, haha :-P
But no, seriously. This guy is an ********, and you are not. Judging from some of the answers you've written on here, you seem like you're a wonderful person. I'm sorry about your bad past experiences. Good luck!
<3,
Chad
2007-07-12 10:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by chazzzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no point emailing someone like that. If he's ignoring you then he won't give a rat's behind what you have to say, you won't be able to make him feel 'bad', and it won't change a thing. Leave it as a thing of the past and let it go. Sorry to hear about this :( but never give up hope, there are decent guys out there (just significantly less than the not-so-decent ones)!
2007-07-12 08:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a pretty face like yours and a brain that comes with it, I can't see the reason for you to worry about not finding a decent guy any sooner, so move on. But, this time, make friends with the the guy, get to know, then if you feel like he's like the type of guy you can trust with your heart, then go ahead to the next level and so on... DON'T waste your time anymore, he's already wasted enough of yours!
2007-07-12 08:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that guy was a D*ick head and you deserve alot better then that guy.
The guys only want one thing from girls, that's not fair and true for alot, but I've never dated a girl for sex thats so f*cked up I can't tell you in words.
You will meet a guy, that defyes everything you learned about guys. Who knows mabey hes right in front of you. :)
2007-07-12 08:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would email him. start it out by saying...don't worry im not trying to talk to you or anything...just wanted to let you know how bad you hurt me.. I trusted you...you lied. That hurt me more then anything. Exspecially scine you knew the past relationships i've had...it was hard for me to open up to you like that...if all you wanted was some *** you could have atleast been honest and told me that! not play with my emotions like that. Whatever...what goes around comes around...have agood life.......... hahah sorry im rambleing now....i've had the same problem lol know where your comming from
2007-07-12 08:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not feel bad we have all been there You are not a fool you are human he is not worth the email Please be more selective of the company you keep Do Not give anything up and take your time in a relationship
2007-07-12 08:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to let your feelings out. Tell him what you're thinking and feeling. Honesty is the best policy.
But I also think that you should not stereotype all guys. So you "got used, again". Well, maybe you're looking in the wrong crowd. I certainly would never "use" a girl...
2007-07-12 08:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guard well your heart. Save yourself for marriage. The exceptional guys ... the good ones ... the keepers ... will be willing to wait.
2007-07-12 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your personality has something to do with it. When i have sex with a woman, if her personality is not the greatest, i dont see any point in continuing.
2007-07-12 08:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋