Is it because of lack of self esteem, lack of confidence?
I'm in a VERY Bad situation, somebody fell in love with me, and I don't feel the same for that person, and I fell in love with somebody, and not sure if the feeling is mutual. I need advices pleaseeeeeee. serious answers only please.
2007-07-12 00:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by ox23al 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think sometimes we fall in love very quickly..coz we don't tend to think much and we follow our hearts but sometimes falling in love in quickly manner have many consequences its either it end up in very quickly too..
you should follow your heart..but not all your heart..
youR mind also..
i mean think slowly and carefully to those decisions you want to make for that person..because every word that you say is very important..also to him/her..because you need to be matured enough to handle those things..also your love one too..
and don't ever put in your mind the word break-up..because i'm assuring you it can't last your relationship..and every trials that may come if ever you are in relationship..it will both of you
much more stronger to handle such thing..face every trials..and have faith in GOD.. GODBLESS YOU!!!
2007-07-12 01:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly we sometimes fall in love TOO quickly without realizing we really want it or need it in our life....what comes around goes around,thats the circle of life and love.You fall in love but aint mutual and somebody will fall in love with you but you wont....these are mysteries of love.Nothing to do with low/lack of self-esteem nor confidence...although if you feel confident and have good self-esteem you WILL attract the right lady and you will love her back.
2007-07-12 00:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often confuse love with lust. Lust is basically a chemical reaction due to hormones and is sexually motivated. Love grows over a long period of time as the person proves to be compatible in a variety of ways. Confusing the two causes a multitude of problems! Beware!
2007-07-12 00:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not lack of self esteem.. or self confidence.
it's the fact that the person who we're "falling for" gives us the time and attention we crave and yearn for... and sometimes we misjudge this attention for them returning our feelings for them.. when the ugly truth is that they just think of us as friends.
2007-07-12 01:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you dont like the person romantically youve gotta be honest and tell them gently about how you really feel.
hmm, about feeling if its mutual or not. only time will tell. meanwhile you can look out for any positive signs she's giving out. when the time is right, ask her out. good luck
2007-07-12 00:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by hiLdA a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you don't have the same feeling, just say it. And you fell in love with somebody, fight for it.don't give up.
2007-07-12 00:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by PYA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me 12 mouths it really realize my feeling for my hubby, now we have been married for 1 1/2 years and really happy
2007-07-12 00:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by SARAH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That’s and only why it is call love.
Because we believe that there is no specific time ,age, and -------- for Love.
(------- is the parameters set by every body for his own self)
2007-07-12 02:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sharafat R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust -- For some, all it takes is a hard on so strong you can pole vault with it.
2007-07-12 00:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♥ Miss Zora ♦♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋