Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

Would you be a nervous wreck? Or no big deal?

2007-07-12 03:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

If your husband says he will kill you and your whole family if you leave him and then says hes joking. then says he will kill your family instead so you will be all alone. and says he joking about that too. he has never hit me, he calls me names, i take care of the money, he has changed when i want to go see my family and friends. i do want to leave him but i am afraid he might do this and i have 3 kids i have to make sure nothing happens to them. Do you think he will do this if i leave him? I don't want anything to happen to my family because of me. i have people tell me to leave him but they are not in my shoes.

2007-07-12 03:51:49 · 29 answers · asked by purpledog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 03:51:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands mother constantly gossips about us and other members of their family to other people 99% of the time she gets things wrong and if u confront her she lies like a rug to cover up what she says. she totally ignores me and my children and has told people she wishes her son and i had never ever been married and recently told some of my husbands brothers that my husband is cheating on me? I need some advice to stop the mouth of the south and put her in her place once and for all. thank you for the answers

2007-07-12 03:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Family

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) On what date did your first bf or gf ask you how many relationships you had in the past? (Ex. first date, 2nd date, never...etc.)
4.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
5.) Did any of your family make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?
6.) If someone never talks about the opposite sex with their parents but they do with their friends, will their parents start to think they are lesbian/gay even though they aren't?

2007-07-12 03:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really really really like this guy and hes a year younger than me.(im the girl). i wanna go out with him and i think he likes me. but my sister sayas its gross and wrong since im the girl the guy HAS to be older?? is that true??PLEASE HELP

2007-07-12 03:48:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 03:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you know of anyone that got their first bf or gf in college which means they didn't date or have a relationship in college?
Is getting your first bf or gf in college weird?

2007-07-12 03:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, im 18 and he is 19. I love him and I know he loves me because he been waiting this long. He asked me on our third anniversary when are we going to become more intimate. I told him since its our third year, ill supprise you anytime during this year, and I still havent did anything yet and its already our 4th anniversary. He hasent asked or nothing, I guess he gave up, but know im ready I just need to know when. sometimes he comes and picks me up from work and takes me to his aparment and I fix him something for us both to eat about everyday. I need to do approach him while im at his apartment. give me some ideas please, make it romantic. but he cant know about it, maybe somethings that can fit in my purse, I can go in his room and set it up. Please just give me some ideas.

2007-07-12 03:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥904SOUTH♥♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on a guy and we are friends but he likes this other girl????? WHAT SHULD I DO????????????????

2007-07-12 03:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by hailey[♥.] 1 in Singles & Dating

I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A RECEPTION ON THE BEACH. DO THEY ALLOW THAT?

2007-07-12 03:40:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I plan on getting married soon but I am stumped on what to do because we are broke and not really into going to the courthouse.

2007-07-12 03:40:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

umm i am 15 and getting married and my bf and i keep talk about sex ...... but i am a virgin and he's not he's 17 and i don't know what or how to do anything?


please help the best answer highest points!!!!
no mean answers please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-12 03:40:23 · 24 answers · asked by blondewithbrains92 2 in Singles & Dating

why? for nothig and for everythig i do. nothing is good that i do. i,ve tryed to explain how i feel but she just don't belive me. she picks up a fight for every litlle reson, so i think. i don't know what to do anymore. gifts, phones, mails, messenger with every way i,ve tryed to tell her how i feel about her and how much she means to me. but she is not answering, and when she does she finds something in what i'd wrote to her to complain. we are not separated, yet, i hope not. what shall i do?! i'm lost and i need help. 10x

2007-07-12 03:37:48 · 24 answers · asked by hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

Now how am I supposed to take that.

I knew him for yrs. He's a 47 y.o. man, no kids, we had interest in each other since we met but never got together bcz he was always involved with someone. He changed GFs alot since I've known him, he always lives with these women. We lost contact, went separate ways, we're good friends, recently we spent time together & he shot a comment or 2 about "us" & said he "isnt ready for the pressure" I'd put on him. Said he makes it a point not to get alone in "close quarters" with me bcz he knows he wont be able to control himself. Said he'll have me strung out & knows he'll wind up strung out on me too. Last night he said that is why he doesnt take things further bcz he "isnt trying to get strung out". Said he'd visit me, "bend & twist me a little bit" & go home.

Am I to think he has real feelings for me but is just scared? Or am I to take this as he just has a sexual interest & friendship & nothing serious, like commitment?

2007-07-12 03:37:43 · 4 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a country girl. I'm in FFA and I like hunting (killed 3 bucks) and I can't wait till next hunting season, fishing, 4 wheelers, sports, raising/showing animals, riding our mules, I'm laid back and I love to laugh. And I love going to Church. There's more but that's the basic's.

2007-07-12 03:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by m 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance broke off our engagement and I've found the only way to get past this, is to treat it like a death. Like that person is completely gone, and sometimes like he never existed. If I don't do this, I drive myself crazy. Does anyone think this is unhealthy or have any advice?

2007-07-12 03:36:50 · 18 answers · asked by P.Y.T.23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Seems like a simple question, right? Is it intellectual, emotional, physical, spiritual, or some combination of the four? If you are lacking one of the 4 are you really in love? or will that love last a lifetime? What are your thoughts?

2007-07-12 03:36:11 · 8 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in a few weeks. I have been a single Mom for 12 years... and plan to have my son walk me down the aisle at my wedding.

My dad passed away a few years ago... so... in place of the Father-Daughter dance at the reception.... I would like to slow dance with my 12 yr old son.

Does anyone have any song suggestions?

Thanks :)

2007-07-12 03:34:48 · 13 answers · asked by MoShell77 2 in Weddings

so. my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year and there wasnt one moment he wasnt complaing about having money problmes. I always dealt with it because i didnt care, paid for myself and somtimes hime and let it be because i mean , this is the 21st century!

but this summer he has been working over time (65 hours) at a job he makes 12$ an hour. And he is getting a larger scholarship for his grades at school (10,000$ more) he is living with a roommate that said his roommate would pay 800 if he could pay 400$ a month. All this summer when we go out my boyfriends brother will tag along with his friends, and everytime his brother picks up the bill for my bf and him. and sometimes me as well. He never pays me back for gas when he uses my car and flips out if he has to drive to my place to see me using his gas.

What the hell is his deal. What do i do? The love is def. there. Our relationship is great its just if we get any more serious money is going to be a big deal.....

2007-07-12 03:29:08 · 2 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy is wonderful when he is not drinking. Problem is he drinks on a nightly basis. I know most of you will say leave him while you can but I have always been the type to try to understand peoples short comings and work around them. Last night he was awful to me and really said some hurtful things. He even looked me in the eye and didn;t care that I was full of tears over his rage. This morning I asked him how he could be so awful and he replied in honesty that he didn;t even remember being mean. How can he have regret over something he can't remember. Question is...... is it really possible that he can't remember a thing????

2007-07-12 03:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not happy. He uses my car (In my name & I pay for it but never drive it), My cellphone in my name on which I don't use but pay for cause he always uses it & my laptop that I bought a while before I even met him. He has returned his wedding band 2 times & exchanged it once. Returned it the 2nd time recently & the wedding is in a little over a month. The car never has gas in it for me to go anywhere. He always puts just enough in for him to get where he needs to be & to take me back & forth to work. He uses any money we ever get on weed & some other kind of **** that he always says he is going to quit but won't. I bought not only his wedding band but my wedding set as well including my engagement ring. He says he wants to move to Florida to make it easier on us cause he has a job set up there. But the thing is I will be paying for both of us to get down there. I don't think this relationship can be fixed. If it can be fixed please tell me how. If not I want out.

2007-07-12 03:27:12 · 32 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 03:26:58 · 12 answers · asked by happy 1 in Singles & Dating

first he stole my social card and now i want to get even make him feel like **** but how and what do i do or say he always use to ask me about his penis we havent see eachother for 2 weeks how can i make him jellous or just make him feel so furious just like he did to me, omething physical, mental or both help me come up with a smart plan with out getting into trouble.

2007-07-12 03:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by lisa v 1 in Singles & Dating

and you didn't know if the S.O.S. felt the same way? What do you do with YOUR FEELINGS!??

2007-07-12 03:22:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys are confusing what do you want in a girl?

2007-07-12 03:21:08 · 16 answers · asked by xXScorpiousxX 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I want a traditional wedding in a church~
we are not practicing members anywhere, and each one we've found that was really pretty and we liked, they tell us NO you have to be a member!?? I don't think that's very christian... what do we do? what CAN we do?? (Trying to get in for October 6, '07)

2007-07-12 03:19:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wife and I are going through some troubles in our relationship. We don't really fight at all in our marriage, but a few little problems came at once and we couldn't handle it like normal couples. Now we talk about divorce a lot, but I don't want that to be an option. We have been married for 5 years, we have 2 beautiful kids and we are both only 24 years old. I know couples go through really tough times together, but since we are not really used to problems.

Wondering if someone tried marriage counseling. I heard it was a lot of money and I don't have any money, but I am willing to work 2 jobs to pay for it if it will make us stronger and better.

2007-07-12 03:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by princemo4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Kissing to me is an intimate experience. Especially when there is no sex involved.

Would you make out with someone who meant nothing to you?

Would you be likeley to still think about them 6 months after last seeing them?

2007-07-12 03:17:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I take care of my sisters 4 children in the mornings and recently started a new job. My mother has Full costody of the children until my sister is able to take them back. How do i tell my mom that i cant watch them any more. I have bills of my own and a baby to support. I need the extra money because she does not pay me anything. I love these kids to death, but getting by is hard with no income. I just dont know how to tell her i cant watch the kids anymore. What do i do?

2007-07-12 03:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Family