Who never dated or had a bf or gf in middle school and high school?

Question

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) On what date did your first bf or gf ask you how many relationships you had in the past? (Ex. first date, 2nd date, never...etc.)
4.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
5.) Did any of your family make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?
6.) If someone never talks about the opposite sex with their parents but they do with their friends, will their parents start to think they are lesbian/gay even though they aren't?

Answer 1

I never dated in middle school, and didn't start until 11th grade, and then no one after that. The only boyfriend that I ever had was really surprised that I had never had a boyfriend before. He said that I was so pretty, and I told him that I've had a whole lot of crushes, yet never acted upon them because I was shy...Unfortuntely, our relationship never passed that silly bf-gf in school thing and we never went out on a date, though we were 'officially' together for 2 months. I don't think not dating since MS and HS has affected anything seeing as I'm not dating now. None of my family made fun of me, because I wasn't dating anyone. It was actually the opposite. I was the one worried about never having a boyfriend until 11th grade. When people used to hear that I didn't have one they would always ask me why, and I'd say 'I don't know'. Yet I always wondered why too until the point where I thought that I may be confused about my sexual orientation, but I got a bf in 11th grade and became sure that I like boys, lol. But I think you're going to be okay if you're in this predicament. Things will happen for you sooner than you know it.

Answer 2

I didn't have a boyfriend until my senior year in high school. I was a late bloomer and most guys were interested in the girls with big boobs. I dated a lot in college and really became comfortable with myself and I think that was attractive to men. I married a man I met in college and we've been married for 13 years and have 3 beautiful daughters. None of the guys I dated ever asked how many dates or boyfriends I had in the past.

Answer 3

i did not date in highschool in elementary terms as a results of fact I in basic terms did not choose a girl pal on the time and that i wasn't truly involved interior the girls that have been at my highschool. there became not something unique or distinctive approximately them that I enjoyed. i'm not attempting to sound cocky or something, yet I knew that i ought to in all probability pass out with any female if I asked yet i did not. i'm not a gruesome individual whatsoever, maximum women think of i'm stable finding. I do think of that the shortcoming of my relationships would preclude me from having a girl pal interior the destiny yet i don't care, and the variety of relationships somebody have had ought to have not something do with in the event that they are experienced adequate at the instant are not. journey should not be a ingredient in a dating, however the guy. additionally, there are some human beings available that in basic terms has to have a bf or gf and sense like they at the instant are not "finished" with out somebody. To me, those each and every physique is susceptible.

Answer 4

Yes. I was 20 when I had my first date. Sure, I got called a lesbian, dike, bi, everything by those highschool drama idiots. I did not find anything attractive about highschool boys. I still don't. They look a whole lot better when they grow up. He was 24 and quit acting like a jackass. You can call me a late bloomer or ahead of my time, but I did not like anything about jerkoff idiots. At least they were young. The older ones who have yet to outgrow sex drama don't have any excuse. I was very mature for my age and eventually he caught up. Like that is something to complain about. Good for you! Go!

Answer 5

1.) One brief 2-month relationship in 12th grade. I have been single ever since, though. (Going into junior year of college)

2.) No, she said it was fine.

3.) Pre-date

4.) I have less confidence than I think I would if I had had some girlfriends...

5.) Never! My dad will crack a joke once in a while like "Hey, she's pretty cute, huh?"

6.) No...

Answer 6

1. no
2. n/a
3. usually i find out before i start getting too emotionally invested
4. nope relationships in ms arent serious and few in hs are or dont last
5.yes
6. they have but they know im straight now, mom actually started worrying that id impregnate one of my friends cuz i was at her house everynight last summer until 3 or 4

Answer 7

1. I didnt have a GF until I was 20, I moved around too much when I was growing up
2. No, she thought it was wierd that I hadnt because she thought I was hott but she was glad that she was my first
3. Second
4. No, I was fine
5. My dad would joke about it, but then I would just kick his ***
6. Maybe but who cares, it doesnt matter if they think you are. You know that youre not

Answer 8

this pretty much describes my life, no serious relationships till college. Its not something you should really worry about, though the experience might have helped, people tend to be very understanding of your past if they're really into you and like you.. don't worry about it.

Answer 9

not me ive been out like with 20 girls in middle school and like 14 in high school

Answer 10

you people should know, it's boring to read lenghty surveys or questions