why? for nothig and for everythig i do. nothing is good that i do. i,ve tryed to explain how i feel but she just don't belive me. she picks up a fight for every litlle reson, so i think. i don't know what to do anymore. gifts, phones, mails, messenger with every way i,ve tryed to tell her how i feel about her and how much she means to me. but she is not answering, and when she does she finds something in what i'd wrote to her to complain. we are not separated, yet, i hope not. what shall i do?! i'm lost and i need help. 10x
2007-07-12 03:37:48 · 24 answers · asked by hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sounds like you really need to hear this, so here it is..."Don't be a weenie.". There are few things worse than a love sick adolescent male. Buck up & find a real girl. All this being a weenie will also prevent other women as seeing you as anything but sort of pathetic. Cut the melodrama BS & move on. Be a man.
2007-07-12 03:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be one of those people that live for conflict. Inside she is only happy when she is fighting or complaining.
What to do?
Stop kissing her but, it's not working anyway & you run the risk of losing all respect she has for you.
Try going somewhere different than usual get some energy out, like an amusement park.
2007-07-12 03:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, and how often does this happen? are u sure u didn't get her at a "bad time"? try confronting her but be strong, get her to listen to u, explain to her how she's stressing u out. get her to open up to u, tell u why she's mad. also it may be risky but space is good. NOT BREAK UP. but sometime to breath, some time to clear your mind. u love this girl so much, and its hard to love someone that is always fighting.
i hope it works out for u. u seem like a nice guy. by the way u still stick w/ her despite her attitude.
2007-07-12 03:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may feel guilty about something and the fact that you're not doin anything wrong is ticking her off. She wants you to react to her silly ways so she can find a reason to get mad at you and then you both will have done something wrong. Ask her what the hell her problem is cause I'd kill for a guy to be as sweet to me as you are her.
2007-07-12 03:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Take a few deep breaths and call her to ask her out to a nice place. Treat her ya know? Then just ask why she's ticked. Dont' rush it, just casually do it. And if she goes ballistic for no reason you can see, I doubt you guys are going to get along (especialy if you guys marry, I mean can you really stand for arguing with a person you love every second of your life)
2007-07-12 03:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nerdsbane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that she is interested in seeing someone else. OR. You are probably smothering her, and she no longer wants to be your GF because its maddening. Back off and see what happens. OR, Get mad at her for being a witch. Women like men who stand up for themself. We actually do like it when a man tries to be "the Man". Maybe you shouldn't act like such a whipped boy.
Your call.
2007-07-12 03:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by malibu30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life you sound like a whinny little girl that is probably why she is mad at you. She sound like she the man of the relationship and your the b****. Lay off the gifts the phone etc. all the time and let her breath...you are probably overwhelming her.
2007-07-12 03:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Satan Lives! God must Die 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO ME!!
She is just being annoying. Do not give her anything or call her for a good while. No more than 6 days. If she does not call you in that time, please drop her. She is insecure. I'm wondering if there is a reason why she would believe that you don't love/like her. If you think there is a reason for that, fix it. If not, she's insecure.
2007-07-12 03:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating on you and she thinks if she gripes at you all the time then you will get enough and leave her but you need to ask her what is up why does she treat you like that you know some girls dont appreciate a good guy like you! you need to find out and move on with youre life sorry to have to say that to you but its true
2007-07-12 03:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's treating you like this she doesn't deserve what you are doing for her.
I also think that she may be cheating and trying to get you to break up with her.
Nonetheless you still sound like you deserve someone who will treat you the way you treat them.
2007-07-12 03:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋