Do you know of anyone that got their first bf or gf in college which means they didn't date or have a relationship in college?
Is getting your first bf or gf in college weird?
2007-07-12 03:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, me and a few of my friends. It's completely normal. I was immature in high school and shied away from boys. Once I got into college, I was mature enough to handle a relationship, so I got into some. There's nothing wrong with having your first relationship in college at all. Who cares as long as your happy, that's what's important. The past is past, keep looking forward. :)
2007-07-12 03:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird at all. I know lots of people who waited until college to date and I know practically nobody who had a relationship in high school that was healthy, balanced, and mature.
You shouldn't worry about your prior relationship experience. College is a great time to meet people and learn more about what kind of people you're attracted to and what qualities in another person elevate you and help you grow as an individual. You could have long term or short term relationships, but let it all come naturally and don't let yourself be pressured into staying involved with the wrong person. Remember, college is agood time to make mistakes and explore. And if there isn't anyone you find yourself clicking with, then have some fun. Relationships will come naturally at some point, and I know plenty of people who didn't date in college and went on to have very healthy relationships in the real world. Don't think of yourself as weird - everyone is different, and everyone is going through their own journey at their own pace. Enjoy it!
2007-07-12 10:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by theharpomarxist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be a junior in college, and have only had one extremely brief 'relationship'. Not weird at all. Patience is the key to finding the right person.
2007-07-12 10:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother got his first g/f in college & they are still together after 1 1/2 years.
2007-07-12 10:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not weird at all!!! I know lots of people that saw college as a way to start fresh (after h.s) and maybe come out of their shell. It's an oppotunity to "reinvent" yourself, and if this means dating for the first time, it's fine....
2007-07-12 10:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by senoritaboston 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, moi. I was a late bloomer. I didn't like the soap operas so no, nobody knew all about my sex scandal life. No, it isn't weird. Other people don't focus so much on sex scandals, drama, rumors, and stupid crap so much in college. That's the good part. We grow up with any luck in college.
2007-07-12 10:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people that still havent had a relationship in college. To me, thats pretty weird.
2007-07-12 10:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of my boyfriends was a Jr. in collage and i was a freshmen. He always said none of the high school girls were ever up to his standards. (which always made me feel good.) We dated a year then he broke up with me because he went to med school.... Its not uncommon.
Its also nice to know that they waited a long time and you were the first person to really attract them. :)
2007-07-12 10:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by FireKittenofdoom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!
Go at your own pace!
Personally I think people TEND to be more mature and ready for a relationship at this age.
2007-07-12 10:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i did freshman yr. well hook up at least. but im 19 and a junior still never been in a realtionship
these things cant really be forced. maybe we just late bloomers. i know im still growin mentally and physically
2007-07-12 10:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by jcjunkact 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋