i really really really like this guy and hes a year younger than me.(im the girl). i wanna go out with him and i think he likes me. but my sister sayas its gross and wrong since im the girl the guy HAS to be older?? is that true??PLEASE HELP
2007-07-12 03:48:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that depends on your maturity level. girls usually mature faster than boys but that isn't always the case . as long as you can deal with his maturity level than it isn't a problem at all. especially one year
2007-07-12 03:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your sister! Men and women date, have relationships and marry others that may be older, younger, or the same age everyday. Age doesn't matter as long as you are both of legal age to enter into a consensual relationship. I married a man that was 16 years older than me and our marriage lasted 26 years and 2 children later.
2007-07-12 04:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong at all and why does a guy have to be older? A year is nothing. You should follow your heart because you will sorry if you don't. If she doesn't like younger guys then that's her business but you shouldn't allow her views keep you from being happy.
2007-07-12 03:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only a year apart in age. It's not like you're 25 and he's 10! Do what you feel is right but don't let the age thing stop you. Girls do not have to be younger than guys in a relationship. As long as he treats you right, that's all that matters.
2007-07-12 03:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wa Alaikum Salam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaatuh i could return salams as she continues to be my sister in Islam and no reason to be rude or hateful to her. and don't be shy sister, in the event that they snort at you or are rude to then you forget approximately it, you do not choose those varieties of sisters on your existence. they could be like that to you no count what you place on, some human beings only think of they are extra useful then anyone else and this is not now we could desire to consistently be appearing. Do they comprehend a rude or hateful remark could desire to turn somebody off hijab. Love and encouragement is what those sisters choose. You on no account comprehend how a sort word could desire to be the suitable encouragement that could help a sister placed on hijab or a hurtful you possibly can desire to be the suitable straw that made her exchange her ideas. And Allah is acquainted with terrific
2017-01-02 06:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him. Age is a number. There's nothing wrong with dating a guy who is younger than you. Your sister just needs to grow up.
2007-07-12 03:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by ralos2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no hun. if he's ok w/ it and so are u thats all that matters. its not gross, its not weird, it doesnt make him any less of a man. there are alot of famous people who's gf is older than the guy. look that is as normal as a black and white couple.
so u know what GO FOR IT! if the guy doesnt mind being younger.
2007-07-12 03:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true! go for it older women date younger guys all the time! i have date a couple of guy that are younger that me and there is nothing wrong with that!
2007-07-12 03:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is wrong. The guy does not have to be older. Some guys even like dating older women (I am one of them).
2007-07-12 03:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by The Brain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. . no offence but your sis is goofy. There is nothing wrong with dating someone older than you, within reason anyways. My personal limit is 6 years.
and if age really mattered would it be different if you were just friends? So what if he's a year older, go with what your heart tells you.
2007-07-12 04:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a year is not a big deal my older sister once dated a guy who was two years younger than her in highschool.
a year is not a big deal anything over two is though.
go for it
GOOD LUCK =)
2007-07-12 03:52:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋