Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

I think that I am probably emo, but like I kind of don't... because I am always sad and lonely...And I don't have hardly any friends, and I can't talk to them about many of my problems...but whatever. So yeah...how can you tell if your emo?

2007-07-12 05:42:29 · 29 answers · asked by Megannn. 5 in Friends

2007-07-12 05:42:23 · 34 answers · asked by . 7 in Singles & Dating

Cause this is so un true...100 percent of myfrinds and myself prefer normal chicks...with some meat....How do i get my GF out of this mindset?

2007-07-12 05:39:27 · 16 answers · asked by themaster 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do?

2007-07-12 05:36:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont know why but I always reject myself before a guy can. I am not ugly or insecure I just havent had the best past relationships and before the guy can ask me anything or ask me out I already have set in my mind that he will reject me so I do stupid stuff that he will. Help me please what can I do to stop this.

2007-07-12 05:35:35 · 1 answers · asked by PoshBCD 2 in Singles & Dating

We are getting up in numbers for our wedding and reception. We have some kids that have to be there, parents in wedding party or with family from out of town, but is it ok not to invite the other kids like in town family? We are running into capacity and cost issues. Any input will be a big help.

2007-07-12 05:34:41 · 26 answers · asked by jss104 5 in Weddings

me and hubby have split i left the home (lomg story) im settled now in new house with daughter on benefits(will change). he wants to buy me out of house i want to sell. he recons the courts would side with him so he can keep house and buy me out is this true?

after all things taken out will be roughly 11k left. he has offered me 6k ???????

im going to see solicitor just wanted to have an idea what has happened to other people?

my daughter is two, im 26 part time job 8hrs per wk, hes 30 2nd chef on good money £330 wk, been married 4yrs, he broke it of (affair).

Do i take my chances in court?
Do i accept his offer?
How will it go?

2007-07-12 05:27:10 · 23 answers · asked by kitty4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay my family is starting to hate me because of this!!!!!

i have a thing for guys that are below me .. like they are from nothing, drop out's... you know those guys... big tall... basically alot of guys from this little town outside of my home town.. there white.. just ghetto

now my family is not at all like this! my brother won't talk to me anymore because of it

i'm only 18, and i did date a guy like that for a year, but i ended up leaving him i just can't seem to get myself to like the type of guys i know i should!! help me plzz

2007-07-12 05:16:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a relationship with a man good on paper. I intially thought I could have a NSA(no strings attached) relationship with him-but after being conjoled to spend the night and meet his friends and play PRETEND boyfriend/girlfriend with him..I eventually caught feelings. We had sex 4 times and the last time I've called it quits. My reality check: Hes no more interested in me as Bush is interested in ending the war in Iraq. My feelings are hurt and I'm confused that he wants NSA with the feel of a pseudo-relationship-but doesn't really want the committment aspect of it. I wrote him a brief email-ending the situation. Letting him know that I've caught feelings and don't want to sell myself cheap anymore, hence no more sex. So how do I get over it? How do I heal myself? How does NSA work without getting caught up?

2007-07-12 05:16:18 · 1 answers · asked by naomiferrar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 05:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 05:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend keeps blowing me off and that gets me mad hes always with his friends and today in the morning he saw me and didnt even bother to day hi to me! [[im in summer skewl]] and he works at WHATABURGER! so its even worse! ohhhhh...and he never kisses me in public or holds my hand nada! only when we are alone...and also my mom isnt one to let me go out everyday sooo i rarely get to be with him! ooohhhh and his ex girlfriend is pregnant with his kidd yeah! and i already had sex with him!....ayyy i already got into the gym so i can spend less time thinking of him but still its hard not too! and besides that hes ugly! i know im stoopid! can anybody tell me whats da best way too jsut let him go without me getting hurt!!!!!! (((the funny thing is that he says I LOVE YOU))) HAHAHA

2007-07-12 05:12:06 · 34 answers · asked by NATALiiE ANN♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

The concept makes me ill. Plus, I love to go and come as I please and not answer to anyone but myself. Keep my home the way I like it. Eat what I want and when I want. Watch TV when I want .... Fart when I want.....and numerous other things! I can't ever see sharing this all with another person and especially little bratty kids!

2007-07-12 05:08:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

suppose this ex girlfriend of yours that you don't see for a long time asks you out and she's hot and great but you already have a hot and great girlfriend (another one), what's the best thing to do without passing a bad image of yourself and without hurting her feelings?

i don't think it's correct to tell her i have another girlfriend if she doesn't ask

2007-07-12 05:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out my ex-girlfriend contracted AIDS from the guy she cheated on me with. For some reason I feel satisfied that she got what she deserved. I feel really bad for thinking this way but she hurt me so much! How would you feel?

2007-07-12 05:05:07 · 66 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my hubby is gone to abroad,he dosent do anything about it , we have lots of fight, i have a daughter of 2 yrs,i dont know what to do, i hve no support frp my parents as she fought with them and now we have no relations with them tooo, i have no other family member excep 2 sis in law , & they too support my mom in law(no physical harresment only mental torture),i need some space since 8 yrs of my marriage i am becoming weak and losing confidence in doing things please help

2007-07-12 05:04:35 · 15 answers · asked by payal s 1 in Family

i am desperate, i have so many problems, with my mother, in my relationships, and im 19 just so you know, and i dont know what to do, im tired of the life i have, im tired of always being at home, im not allowed to go out without my brother, i dont have a boyfriend, my mother always treats me as if i was a bad person, but i dont drink, i dont smoke, i dont go out at night, ive never been with a guy, i work, i study, i have dreams, and still, no one is pleased with me. i wish i could run away from home, but im so afraid, what should i do??? my life is so unhappy, i lost my father; he was killed 3 years ago, and, i feel so alone.

2007-07-12 05:03:38 · 2 answers · asked by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We never even get to see Gross pay when we get our paychecks. We get the net pay (after taxes) which in some cases are close to 50% lower so why do the courts use gross pay? Is that fair?

2007-07-12 05:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was recently invited to a bridal shower, but I have never "attended" one. Are the two the same, and what should I take? Help!

2007-07-12 05:00:19 · 31 answers · asked by ecookie_4 1 in Weddings

2007-07-12 04:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by she sees 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what turns u on about a girl... plz leave answeres like boobs, out. i mean like about personality/.... and if u like a girl what do u do to get her attention or anything. THANKS!

2007-07-12 04:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

honestly. im a lesbian and i just want ppl to voice themselves

2007-07-12 04:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by NiiNii 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I admire a man i have met here in answers, his spirit, his culture...
How should i tell him what i feel?
I know it is a virtual contact, but i always think of it...

2007-07-12 04:52:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and when she comes over to my house she sleeps naked on my couch even during the day and when i tell her something she gets angry can i get some help

2007-07-12 04:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have 4 brothers (7,13,14,15) and I have to share my room with the 7yr old!!! the 13yr old and the 14yr old share a room, and but oldest brother has a room to himself!!

Why do i have to share a roomwith him? I'm a 12yr old girl and I think my older brother should share a room with him.

I have to get ready for bed really early so I don't disturb him when he's asleep (cos he has an early bedtime)
I feel really embarassed when I have friends round cos my brother has all these posters up of dinosaurs and reallly babish boy stuff and I have to just go along with it.

I asked my parents if I could change rooms with Jack (15) but they said a 12 yr old doesn't deserve her own room if it means kicking and older sibling out.

How can I change their minds?

Thank you!

2007-07-12 04:50:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-12 04:48:51 · 19 answers · asked by Yowza! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-12 04:48:20 · 7 answers · asked by donniegirl_88 1 in Family

I have been married for 1 1/2 years to a successful, good-looking man with a friendly/good sense -of- humor personality--we are not rich, but not hurting either. Since I married him, it seems like other women(and not always younger, I admit) try to "hit" on him or they are definitely thinking they can have him. It seems like a wedding ring on the finger makes no difference these days. My husband is 55 yrs. old, but nice looking.

2007-07-12 04:48:17 · 18 answers · asked by skyward 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this it a real problem 4 me

2007-07-12 04:45:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As an atheist living with a VERY religious mother, there have been obvious problems for years now, particularly in regards to me bringing 'evil' into the house in the form of fantasy novels and odd items.

After bringing yet another 'evil' item into the house, she told me either it goes, or I do. Although perhaps I'm being a spoiled brat, this has just been the final straw. I've dealt with this for over 5 years now and I'm so thoroughly tired of it all it's making me physically ill.
She is sick and dragging me down with her.

The problem is that I work as part of her family cleaning business. I'm not financially independent and have only about $140, no car, no close relatives(They all moved away from her) and few close friends(none I can live with).
She thinks she can keep the business without me, but she can't really do all the work herself and no one will agree to work for someone who can't always give them their whole paycheck due to rent being due.

Any advise would be welcome...

2007-07-12 04:43:33 · 35 answers · asked by Zero Lynn 2 in Family