How do I get over a NSA Relationships?

Question

I was in a relationship with a man good on paper. I intially thought I could have a NSA(no strings attached) relationship with him-but after being conjoled to spend the night and meet his friends and play PRETEND boyfriend/girlfriend with him..I eventually caught feelings. We had sex 4 times and the last time I've called it quits. My reality check: Hes no more interested in me as Bush is interested in ending the war in Iraq. My feelings are hurt and I'm confused that he wants NSA with the feel of a pseudo-relationship-but doesn't really want the committment aspect of it. I wrote him a brief email-ending the situation. Letting him know that I've caught feelings and don't want to sell myself cheap anymore, hence no more sex. So how do I get over it? How do I heal myself? How does NSA work without getting caught up?

Answer 1

LOL ITS DOESN't! Unless of course your more immature, realise the way love works is that it comes down to YOU!!!! Not him shot anyone can love a tree, worship the tree, pray, eat, sleep, drink, have sex, and even die under it. If they feel strongly enough, of course that doesn't stop it from oneday falling down and killing you. So its time to learn some lessons. One is don't try and play stuipid MTV games with your heart, your to... mature? smart? empahatic? loving? human? The whole f-buddies, NSA, playa, game thing is based on an immature understanding of the way love works, namly that love doesn't have to be there, bs. If you do anything, as long as you felt something, it was because of love. And give time, more experiences, more time together, more exposure, we'll love almost anything, ever heard of STOCKHOME SYNDROME? Look it up. The heart is a serious thing don't play it lightly again and this won't happen. Just don't respect any opioion this guy threw your way to, if thats all he want'd thats all he say in you. Also remember this next time friends can become great lovers, but lovers becoming friends, lol good luck!