what should i do?
2007-07-12 05:36:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what should i do.i'm very shy i do not like talking someone please help me.!!!!
2007-07-12 05:46:20 · update #1
i do talk to my friends ,parnets but everybody else no what is my problem?
2007-07-12 05:47:23 · update #2
First you need to be more confident with yourself. My husband is the same way. What I do is give him more confidence in himself, telling him that he really great and not to be shy. He has the greatest personality and I put you do too. Let people in your life just stay calm and be yourself. :) You will do great!
2007-07-12 05:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sonrisaloca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Lizzard,
You need to get out of this shyness for sure so you can enjoy life the way you deserve to. Try taking up the little theater at your school or in your community if your not in school. You need to be more active in things that will give you confidence and plenty to talk about. Like scuba diving, fitness, riding bicycle, photography, camping, fishing, sky diving, growing a garden, etc. Just get going on anything and doors will open and lead you to more new opportunities and chances to share. Have fun at it and people will gravitate toward you. You will wonder why you were ever shy in the first place.
2007-07-19 22:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well according your story, i believe that the reason why you are shy and afraid to talk to others because you are afraid others might not accept you and you're not sure yourself what to say that does not make a fool out of yourself. You should TRY to talk to new people and make new friends. they might be a stranger at first but you never know they could be your best friend at the end. Don't talk to stranger stranger just people you see at parties or different kinds of events. That way you will be able to overcome your shyness by speaking up. It might be scary at first but i believe that it'll work. So make life the best out of it and make new friends!
2007-07-19 05:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Vi3tcutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really get over your shyness and start talking with people, we're not that bad! life is too short to be worried or scared about saying or doing something wrong. besides, what have you got to lose. some people may talk back to you, and others may not, but that's okay, you just move on! good luck!
2007-07-12 12:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to talk to your doctor, you might have agoraphobia, or basically a fear of being around people. If he/she thinks your situation is bad enough, your doctor will recommend a psychiatrist. I am kind of going through the same thing(bad enough i didn't even want to go the doctor about it), and my dr. put me on lexapro and i have been happy with the results
obviously, some people are different and can get over it themselves, but fear and anxiety of being around people is a terrible thing, and something a lot of people dont understand. If you cant get over it yourself, i'd definitely recommend seeing your doc
2007-07-12 12:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by bkelly is a loser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure to smile so you seem friendly and approachable. If you see a girl who wears a soccer shirt and you play soccer, make conversation with her! Good luck! And remember, if you want a friend, you need to be one!
2007-07-12 12:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by swedishfish047 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as weird as this is, think of something really cool to say. something nice and cute without doing you self injustice! next time you see someone say what you've planned, after getting started with a conversation its easy to maintain as long as you be yourself and truly answer questions and don't say anything like "that's nice" or "that's cool"! that is and instant conversation stopper!!! you can say that's cool or nice or what ever as long as you back it up with something else!another really good thing to do is to pretend (don't get cocky) that you little ms.popular and that whatever you say someone will like it. even thought this isn't true, it will give you confidence, and when people see others who are comfortable with being themselves and look confident, they are instantly attracted to them!!!!!
2007-07-12 12:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie*pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i used to be like this but i got a job with avon and you have to knock on peoples door and ask them for the books.
it has made me more confident!
2007-07-12 12:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you talk to people act like your in your own house, and that you own the room, its yours, just dont talk crazy or to much. your confidence will then and only then pick up and make you fell easy around other people.
2007-07-20 12:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by FATCAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You in the world once you should make friends and socialize as much as you can.
2007-07-12 12:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by pm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋