i am desperate, i have so many problems, with my mother, in my relationships, and im 19 just so you know, and i dont know what to do, im tired of the life i have, im tired of always being at home, im not allowed to go out without my brother, i dont have a boyfriend, my mother always treats me as if i was a bad person, but i dont drink, i dont smoke, i dont go out at night, ive never been with a guy, i work, i study, i have dreams, and still, no one is pleased with me. i wish i could run away from home, but im so afraid, what should i do??? my life is so unhappy, i lost my father; he was killed 3 years ago, and, i feel so alone.
2007-07-12 05:03:38 · 2 answers · asked by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She has to be at peace with your fathers death, she being very over protective of you and worries that something will happen to you as well, that's why she's so tough on you. Ask her if she's over his death, and why she's being so hard on you, tell her that you are growing up and she can't lock you up in the house. Do you pay rent at home? If you do then this shouldn't even be an issue, you have got to live your own life she can't control you....look for friends to move out with if you can afford it, find a room to rent some where.
2007-07-12 05:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mother is also feeling a lot of loss. Check at school or the local mental health society and see if you can all get familyy counselling. Best of luck to you.
2007-07-12 05:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋