my boyfriend keeps blowing me off and that gets me mad hes always with his friends and today in the morning he saw me and didnt even bother to day hi to me! [[im in summer skewl]] and he works at WHATABURGER! so its even worse! ohhhhh...and he never kisses me in public or holds my hand nada! only when we are alone...and also my mom isnt one to let me go out everyday sooo i rarely get to be with him! ooohhhh and his ex girlfriend is pregnant with his kidd yeah! and i already had sex with him!....ayyy i already got into the gym so i can spend less time thinking of him but still its hard not too! and besides that hes ugly! i know im stoopid! can anybody tell me whats da best way too jsut let him go without me getting hurt!!!!!! (((the funny thing is that he says I LOVE YOU))) HAHAHA
2007-07-12 05:12:06 · 34 answers · asked by NATALiiE ANN♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is wrong with girls these days??? They let guys take control of us!...Damn...guys..you have it made!!
2007-07-12 05:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bella ♥ Italiana 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its funny how young boys say the words "I love you" all the time. I say this because grown men are terrified of the same words!!! Anyways honey you seem way too young to be having sex and what not. I see all you young girls on here talking about your momma don't let you out of the house and stuff and I am shocked!!! There are plenty of men in the world for you to play with when you are a woman, not a little girl who needs to graduate high school and then go into the real world. Just tell him to get lost and do something for yourself this summer before school starts back up. Don't even date anyone next year! Just hang with your girlfriends and make good lasting memories!! Do what is healthy for you!!!
2007-07-12 05:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't mean it - just walk away from it now. Why would you want to be with an ugly guy who has another girl pregnant who wont kiss you or even say hi to you in public?! You're self esteem cant be that low... you can do better. Don't waste your time even thinking about him - a great guy could be out there and you will miss him cause you are wasting your time on this loser. You should probably get some tests run at Planned Parenthood just to make sure - and consider it a new start. Working out is good too - exercise always makes you feel good and you will feel better about yourself. Good luck - take care.
2007-07-12 05:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by dj2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend like that. there is no way of letting him go without getting hurt. The sooner you let him go the sooner you will get over him the longer you keep making excuses up to stay with him the longer you will feel this way. Don't listen to him when he says that he loves and that he will change coz he wont and you will end up feeling worse in the long run if you do. Trust me i spent a year and a half getting hurt by my ex and 2 months later after getting rid of him i couldn't be happier.
2007-07-12 05:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by cheryl s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should leave him. it seems like he's either uncomfortable, or ashamed of being with you in public. ask yourself, are you a really pressuring girlfriend? do you press on him a lot and expect him to do certain things a lot? that could be one reason. but in any sense, none of this would be your fault. maybe you guys just don't work out.
and sometimes when guys say "i love you", they only see the three words, plainly, as words. nothing else. i think you should think about leaving him, and find someone else.
good luck an dbe strong. dont' be afraid of getting hurt
2007-07-12 05:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you just have to face the reality that you are going to get hurt because you have/had feelings for him, but he's being a jerk. That hurts, no two ways around it. Just tell him it's not working out between you two. You feel like he doesn't appreciate you enough and that you're not worth his time. If he pulls the crap ," but oh i love you..." You should say, "oh well you had your chance to prove it while we were going out, but u ruined it." He's really not worth it. There are plenty other guys that'll treat you better than that. You just got to get over him. Good luck!
2007-07-12 05:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you have feelings for this guy then there is no way to let him go without you getting hurt. But if your not happy and you feel as thought he's blowing you off because he doesn't want to be with you but he also doesn't want to break up with you cause he doesn't wanna look like the bad guy, then you need to end it. If you don't want to end it then you should ask him what's up and see if he still wants to be with you.
2007-07-12 05:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he "loves" the idea that you are hung up on him (or so he thinks) he probably doesnt even really know what love means. I say just dump him, you cant be anymore hurt than you have already been...and if you keep holding on, you WILL be hurt more. Hope this makes sense and I hope it helps
2007-07-12 05:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by mom of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow dats some drama! He sounds like a playa and a straight up jerk who doesnt deserve u. Show him the dueces and go chill wit ur girls or find another guy (witout baby mama drama and who's not ugly) and move on girl...before u become baby mama #2 ay!!! Good luck with summer school!
2007-07-12 05:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by [Lady D] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You don't need the eternal heartache and child support payments due to him having a kid with someone else. He sounds like an immature brat and will do nothing but hurt you. Get rid of the drama. Life is too short to live like you are.
2007-07-12 05:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by bfldmom3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam girl. I think you need to find yourself a new man that you deserve!! He is not the gentle man that's for sure. And the fact that he got another girl pregnant and didn't stay with her tells a awful lot about his attitude. You need to buff up and leave before it gets any worse than it is!!
-Good luck to you
2007-07-12 05:18:07 · answer #11 · answered by Carly T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋