Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

What do you do when you have the person you love most, constantly accuse you of being a cheater and a liar? How do you deal when your fiancé constantly calls you a whore just because he's insecure? I don't know what to do. He harrases me at work, he's manipulative. He'll manipulate a situation just to get what he wants. He treats me like he's my parent and not an equal. I love him so much, but I don't know how much I can take of the insults and the name calling.

If I ask him or even mention the word therapist, he thinks that I think he's crazy and that he doesn't need to see one.

Should I leave the person I love most or stick it out some more?

2007-07-12 08:01:17 · 88 answers · asked by Catherine J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just dont get it, it makes no sence why people would or could be so mean to someone they love!! I am not giving details for anything that happoned in paticular, this is just based on many things that I have observed thru the years.

2007-07-12 08:01:01 · 11 answers · asked by CHRIS 3 in Friends

I'm looking at different sites (I'm afraid YH hasn't been that great), and it looks as if "Adult Friend Finder" has the most members, but I'm less interested in "naughty" photos than I am in intelligent conversation. Any suggestions?

By the way, I'm not interested in Christian or other religious site, either. Nothing personal -- I'm simply not religious.

2007-07-12 07:58:51 · 7 answers · asked by Solstice 6 in Singles & Dating

My bf is hidding something from me and i want to know what it is. he told me that last night when he was with his friends he was all hyper for about an hour and then the rest of the night he was all sad. and so i asked him why and he told me he didn't want to talk about it right now and he'd tell me later. and this is also the reason why he thinks we can't hang out today but we can tomarrow. i know for a fact he isn't cheating on me so don't even say that. we are in a strong relastionship we even plan to get married. so i know its not cheating. and i know its not drugs either.
I really need your help on this what is going on with him?

2007-07-12 07:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm using match.com and am finding it a bit of a soulless experience. Its getting me down a little all I want is to meet a genuine intelligent man, they arent on this site!!

2007-07-12 07:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by RedSnook 5 in Singles & Dating

How happy are you? Truthfully??

2007-07-12 07:56:06 · 28 answers · asked by U1S2K3O4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy and my friends and his tells me that he likes me but i'm not sure. he sits next to me helps me when i have problumes with homework and where in keyboarding together we look at each other and if i catch him looking at me he'll move he's head back to he's screen like he got caught doing something bad so do you think he likes me? and if you think he does how do i ask a guy out i've allways been asked out i've never actully asked a guy out.

2007-07-12 07:55:19 · 29 answers · asked by lacy 1 2 in Singles & Dating

After the honeymoon phase of being married and you start to notice a few flaws in your mate, do you ever wonder if it was a bad idea to get married- does the grass always appear greener on the other side.

Does this feeling pass or does it come and go?

2007-07-12 07:55:13 · 29 answers · asked by smiley10036 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like it, I feel its a very relaxing life

2007-07-12 07:54:32 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs.♥ Krasinski 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been best mates with someone for 35yrs he has never been to good with birthdays but this year we were both 40 (our birthday is only 2 weeks apart) I always make sure he gets a card etc and because he was 40 this year I made sure he had a nice card / present, 2 weeks later I was 40 did not even get a text to say happy birthday, no card, phone call nothing. 1 week later I get a call asking if he could borrow my sat nav and when was my birthday again!!!! We have been mates since school and he does forget things but I just think because we were both 40 this year he would have tried a bit more, now I just cannot let it go am I taking it to much to heart?

2007-07-12 07:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The RSVP says, "Please respond on or before "date". Then, "M___________" "Number of persons _____" What does the "M" mean?

2007-07-12 07:52:56 · 15 answers · asked by jdecorse25 5 in Weddings

I think this question is pretty simple and to the point. If you have put up walls, what did it take to tear them down?

2007-07-12 07:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 07:48:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i just ordered my wedding dress last week. the color is called pink chapagne. it is like an ivory with pinkish undertones. i really have no ideas about what color bridesmaid dresses to choose. any suggestions?

2007-07-12 07:48:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For those that don't understand, BYU (my alma mater) happens to be coming to Pasadena to play UCLA on Sept. 8th. This rarely happens. My sister-in-law goes and schedules her wedding for then. I live in Burbank and was primed to do this before I got word that the "I do's" will be clashing with first downs. AAAAGGHHH!!

2007-07-12 07:48:31 · 33 answers · asked by RickNY 3 in Weddings

ok i see so many young people on here , and i see alot of older people on here , so here is my question , i never took classes in school for typing and i know i didnt pay much attention in english classes , and i rarely read these back to myself to see what i spell right or wrong , but one thing i do believe i do is make sence in the choice of words i use to express myself , so with so many people on here why do i see so many people using words in sentences that make them look like they have a kindergarden education , do people really talk like this , i mean come on read the questions and see the lack of intelligence in the wording , ok i know i will catch hell over this question , but to be honest it drives me nuts to see some of these , well never mind enough said !

2007-07-12 07:46:17 · 28 answers · asked by gate_heavens 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think about that?i need a female opininon

2007-07-12 07:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Please no clubs or bars

2007-07-12 07:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by redbone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding was horrible. I had so many problems that it was hard to focus on the real meaning of the wedding. There was a lot of bad things going on outside of the wedding and because of finances I had to do most of everthing myself including half of the catering. I paid for most of the wedding too. I was extremly stressed and wanted to cancel. Many people bailed on me. My husbands friends said some very unflattering things about me in front of several guests. These friends were all groomsmen. In almost the same breath the best man in his speech said wonderful things about me. At the time I thought he was sincere. My husbands ex-girlfriend confronted these friends at the wedding and they were unapologetic for their words. She told me fairly recently but made me promise I wouldn't tell anyone. In the meantime I made the best man godfather of my child. (I didn't know). One of these guys is getting married and I don't want to go. I am not sure I want them in my life or my child's.

2007-07-12 07:43:15 · 20 answers · asked by egyptian_water_lily23 2 in Weddings

She is making me miserable. She has always made me feel like nothing I do is ever good enough.

I am in college (doing very well), I have two children. She always makes comments like "maybe they think they are too good for you" when I talk about why I don't fit in with yuppie parents at my son's school; she planned a camping trip for family and friends on a weekend that I would be unable to go and I informed her of this prior to her making final plans-she then got mad when I told her that we would be unable come because we would be in Myrtle Beach and told my sons that they would miss out on the camping trip because i am a "selfish-meanie" which of course upset them that they would not be going; she lost track of my son at a water park last weekend and he was missing for 1/2 hour-he was fine but I was so upset because she didn't apologize and only said "it's not my fault"; the list goes on...

Am I being oversensitive or do I have a right to be upset with her?

2007-07-12 07:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by HRchick 4 in Family

I wanna do something special with him. Usually when we stay in we watch movies but I'd like to figure out something different to do. Any ideas? Thx.

2007-07-12 07:40:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My two co-workers won't leave my friend and I alone! We told them that we only see them as friends and now they just follow us everywhere! Even when one of us go to the bathroom, one stands by the door! They even follow us home! They even tell everyone we're their girlfriend!

The link below is the question i asked to say we're just friends to them..: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Anch6SV3fkveTSXNEtnM2rrsy6IX?qid=20070711125159AAH7QaR

Help me!!!

2007-07-12 07:40:14 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Friends

What's on your mind?

2007-07-12 07:39:14 · 10 answers · asked by LordVader 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my girlfriend has been bugging me to meet my wife for some time now. I was a little worried about it at first but I finally decided to go ahead and introduce them. My wife was a bit worried about it at first because I told her my gf is quite a bit younger and pretty hot. Well, they hit it off great. I'm thinking about asking my gf to move in with us. My wife isn't really hot on the idea but I think she'll come around...especially when she sees what a firecracker the gf is in bed. Should I go ahead and have her move in or is that a bad idea?

2007-07-12 07:38:26 · 33 answers · asked by littlepenisbigtongue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never even dated period...yet. But, I'm just wondering.

2007-07-12 07:38:19 · 11 answers · asked by Sergeant Lauren 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 07:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you tell the truth? Do you lie? Do you scream it out for the world to know? HOw open are you about your virginity?

I've never lied by saying things like, "Oh, I just had sex." or anything like that at all. My close friends know that I'm a virgin, because they understand me, so I feel comfortable with telling them.
But I don't tell people that I dont know too well, or sometimes I just let them think what they will (not that they think im a s lut! haha!) I feel like by telling people I dont know too well, they will put a "VIRGIN" stamp on my forehead and think that I'm shy, conservative, bla, bla bla....


What do you think? What do you do in such situations? How open are you about your virginity?

2007-07-12 07:36:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something that your special one does which made you say "He's the one"! (or she).
I am not talking about physical attributes, in succesful relationships there's always a little something that makes that person be the one you chose, and more foten than not, it happens and something clicks inside. What is it for you?

2007-07-12 07:35:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 07:35:29 · 15 answers · asked by mayfair25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am the only one in my little group that i hang otu with that has never had a boyfriend and never have been kiss. I am 16 years old and it is driving me crazy that i havent been able to find the right guy and get my first kiss.
Is it normal for girls my age to not have expericenced like getting there first kiss or having a boyfriend ?

2007-07-12 07:33:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating