My bf is hidding something from me and i want to know what it is. he told me that last night when he was with his friends he was all hyper for about an hour and then the rest of the night he was all sad. and so i asked him why and he told me he didn't want to talk about it right now and he'd tell me later. and this is also the reason why he thinks we can't hang out today but we can tomarrow. i know for a fact he isn't cheating on me so don't even say that. we are in a strong relastionship we even plan to get married. so i know its not cheating. and i know its not drugs either.
I really need your help on this what is going on with him?
2007-07-12 07:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now my only suggestion to you is to let him be until he is ready to talk about it. That is good that you trust him and you feel that he is not cheating on you. Obviously there is something that he feels he may need to tell you but is not sure how or when to tell you. Most men or people for the most part don't like to be pressured into saying or doing something. So if you have a strong relationship like you say, just let him know that you are there for him whenever he is ready to talk. You never know maybe he saw something he didn't want to see and doesn't want to talk about it. No one knows but him. Just be the shoulder that he can lean on.
2007-07-12 08:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by brownssugar03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, the only thing i can think of that you'd need a day to recover from is drugs. It's a good sign that he said he doesn't want to talk about it right now, that just means he'll talk about it later. Even if he's still avoiding it when you ask about it later tomorrow, just say "do you promise to tell me sometime? I just want you to be okay." That will either get him to speak up then or it will show that you care and he'll talk about it sooner or later. Good luck!
2007-07-12 15:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by chazzzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you just don't want to believe that he may be doing drugs or cheating? Everyone wants to think the person they love would never do that, but it happens all the time. No one is perfect. And if he doesn't tell you what is bothering him in an open way --- how strong can your relationship really be?
2007-07-12 15:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by theatxangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hyper then sad,like talking about way back sad things?You sure he isn't a meth user?Sounds like hes a user.Either that are he wants freedom and is confused on how to get it.If he knew he couldn't hang out today,he knew he would be too tired from the meth,but tomorrow?Why?Dig deep before you leap..Don't let him string you along.
2007-07-12 15:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he'll tell you when he sees u 2morrow. oh or maybe hes planning on proposing if he hasnt already, i dont really know your situation. but if he hasnt proposed maybe hes planning something today and hes just a bit worried.
oh and it all depends on your age.
2007-07-12 15:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably did something that he thinks you wouldn't like like going to a strip club thing of that nature.
everything a guy does he can't tell his girlfriend because it changes how they think about him
2007-07-12 15:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by igotrings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fix a guy. He said he would tell you later. Don't worry.
2007-07-12 15:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if *he* has the problem, *you* can't fix it for him. you need to just sit him down, talk to him, let him know you're worried & tell him how he's acting.
2007-07-12 15:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by *TiNK* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone if he does not want to confide in you.
2007-07-12 15:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's drugs.
2007-07-12 15:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋