There is this woman that lives in my complex who i have a crush on. We have spoken to one another a few times when we saw eachother whether coming in or leaving for work. but never have introduced our selves. I was thinking to introduce myself to her. I would like to get to know her, but i wonder if she has a bf. i have not seen her with a guy since a while ago since then i havent seen her with anyone. She seems to be at the complex bc whenever i leave for soccer or for a job i see that she is there and we acknowledge each other. What should i do next? How can i find out if she has a bf or is single. what signs what a female show if she is single? if i dont see a guy around her apt does that mean she is single? please help me i really do like her and have a crush on her. what should my next step be? thank u
2007-07-12 01:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her a small bouquet of flowers saying something on the card to the effect of "For the neighbor who always brightens my day, Tom in Apt. 4D" She will most likely respond with thanks and at that time you could inquire if she might be interested in going for coffee and/or lunch some time.
2007-07-12 01:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by ersof59 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about you use your month! Introduce yourself and ask her if she has a bf. You are making this harder than it should be. The worse that can happen is that she yes she has a bf. But even if she does, ask her if you can get to know her and become friends. If she says no she doesn't have a bf, ask her out or for a walk or something.
Good Luck
2007-07-12 01:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by yonni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk to her. You could tell her that you've noticed her around and were wondering if she lived there or was just visiting someone. If yes, then you could keep the conversation going by asking her how long or if she likes her apt. From there move on to where she works.By then if she hasn't mentioned a man, you could ask her if she wants to get something to eat or maybe see a movie. You will never know unless you ask.
2007-07-12 01:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by butterflylady77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't seen a guy at her apt. that means that she must be single. Or shes probably not in a serious relation you need to go for it and ask her before it s to late and she ends up finding someone else. If she gives you good looks that must mean she probably wants to have an affair with you.
2007-07-12 01:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by lucy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making this too hard. You are over thinking it. All you want to do is get to know her better. Just take the time to stop and start talking to her. She is the best person to answer all your questions. If the conversation goes well ask her out for coffee, then see where it goes from there.
2007-07-12 01:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Injam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first may i ask are you a women or a man?? lol if you really like her that much ask her out for a coffee or dinner. If she isnt interested or makes a stupid excuse to avoid it you know she has a bf. if she says she would love to come she obviously likes you so after your first date if it goes well ask her for another and another. and by then you will probably be really close! hope my answer helps you! goodluck!
2007-07-12 01:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely ask the subsequent time you spot her leaving and shes no longer likely to paintings what shes as much as and in case you dont desire to ask her that because of the fact you have merely talked to her two times merely initiate asserting hi to her each and every time you spot her till you return to a call to ask her if she has any plans or something and in case you never see her with a guy she is maximum possibly single. you additionally can write her a letter telling her the way you experience and bypass away you quantity or ask her to jot down you back or come seek advice from you in person approximately it
2016-10-01 10:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you encounter her, Ask her straight up if she is in a relationship. or ask her if she would be interested on going out to dinner with you. Either way, you get an answer.
2007-07-12 01:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out for coffee Or ask her if she is a soccer fan invite her to a game or practice
2007-07-12 01:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just introduce yourself" hi im soandso im dont think we were properly introduced"
"would u like to grab a cup of coffee/tea one time"
if she says "well can my boyfriend come"
it means she has a bf.
2007-07-12 01:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋