What's with these stupid demands women have?

Question

I'm 34, never had a girlfriend and a virgin and it's because all of these stupid requirements and demands have for what a a guy is supposed to be like. I'm needy, clingy, insecure, fat, lazy and passive. I have very little responsibility compared to most my age and I intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I play PS2 and go on the internet when I'm not working and that's it. If I didn't have to work to support myself, which unfortunately I do, I would sleep 16 hours a day, and spend the other 8 playing PS2 and going on the internet and eating. And everyone says "be yourself and you'll find someone", so I shouldn't HAVE to change anything about myself. I admit I am not too concerned with what I have to offer a woman, in fact I resent HAVING to have something to offer a woman. I just feel like I automatically deserve a hot-looking woman in my life to make me happy. And for all of human history just about, nobody really cared if women were happy in their relationships

for just about all of human history it was women's job to shut up and make her man happy. And now in the last 40 years or so we've decided to go against thousands of years of recorded history and be concerned about what women want in a man. And because of that I can't get a woman. But I refuse to change anything about myself because I deserve a hot looking woman just the way I am. I'm just "being myself". And if I'm alone the rest of my life it's because I'm an innocent victim of the time in which I was born.

Answer 1

You are a child. No woman wants that. A woman wants to be a companion and partner for you, not have to babysit. I think it has little to do with your physical appearance and more about your view towards life. A woman instinctually looks for a man who will be a good father, husband and provider....and, sorry to say, you don't seem like you would be successful at any of those, as you have no ambition and a clear sense of entitlement. If you don't want to die alone, you have to make some healthy changes in your life. First off, you need to change your view towards women. We were not placed on this earth to marry men like you and spend the rest of our lives wiping their asses. We want someone to lead with us, not create more work. Secondly, you need to find some more healthy behaviors. Perhaps put the twinkie down and move a bit...or else not only will you die alone...you'll die young too.

Answer 2

If you want a great woman, you're gonna have to be a great guy who's good enough for her, and that takes some effort. It is true what everyone says, "be yourself and you'll find someone", but what type of 'someone' are you looking for? Are you looking for a woman that's fat, lazy, clingy, insecure, has no interest in what life has to offer, and does nothing but eat, sleep and go on the internet or play video games?

Answer 3

I agree 100%. You shouldn't have to change a damn thing about you!
Only problem is that you never go anywhere or do anything to meet a chick who will love you for you. I mean, unless you want a mail order wife from some 3rd world country, no one is going to deliver the perfict woman to your love seat! If you want to increase your chances of getting laid, you have to increase your human interaction. And let's face it...everyone trying to hook up on the internet lies about who they are. So, the computer dating thing is like a one in a million chance. Get off your *** and put some effort into finding a girl, or give up and stop bitching about it!

Answer 4

"I'm needy, clingy, insecure, fat, lazy and passive."

"If I didn't have to work to support myself, which unfortunately I do, I would sleep 16 hours a day, and spend the other 8 playing PS2 and going on the internet and eating."

You just described things that most women don't like in a man. Get off your lazy butt and do something with your life!

Answer 5

I really feel sorry for you.Your are getting on in years and before you know it,40 then50. Will you still be playing some stupid game while ever body else is loving there grand children? How pitiful you are.That's why you are a virgin.I guess if you can't get a woman then you hate them instead.Life is passing you by.Oh !! that's right you have the game to play. Will it give you the pure joy of children.

Answer 6

If you're not concerned with what you have to offer a woman (which seems like a whole hell of a lot **snicker**) - then what are you spazzing out for? This is actually amusing! Perhaps you should try going the other way since you're using these poor excuses for not being able to attract a female!! Pity, poor you! Have a wonderful day - and thanks for the laugh!

Answer 7

if you think that u deserve a hot woman who loves u dont u think that that woman too deserves a hot dude who reciprocates her love. its not that women have demands, personally i think what matters is the impression u make on each other. yes one is not supposed to change for someone , but if your behaviours are affecting ur partner negatively dont u think its good to change since u both deserve living well and at peace.
by the way we are all human and we all have feelings if we dont take care of each other wat is God expected to do- torch us? He loves us unconditionally why should we do less of that

Answer 8

i am sure if you order from Sony. they can get a Super Hot woman into you PS2. Can program her to like and worship you like the god you are.
Since you sleep 16hr and play PS2 for 8. you can actually spend alot of time with her. What nice life you will have minus all the problems and headache. (well if you want those can be program in too)

Answer 9

blah, blah, blah, your a lazy person with no drive. why would (or little girl for that matter) want to be with you? what do you have to offer except dirty linens, dishes and being good at ps2?

Answer 10

I'm sure that if you give it enough time, you'll figure it all out. You sound like quite a catch. I'm betting any woman would love to be with you. Give it time and someone will surely recognize your superiority and lay themselves at your feet.




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