I think this is my breaking point.. I don’t know what to do, and I really could use some people that just want to care. I really messed up this time. There is no one to blame but myself this time… I have a lot of anger built up inside me and I’m just going to end up going crazy. I am 5’9 and use to weigh 170 ( which scene I was so tall I looked pretty normal)
I met this guy and I fell for him.. I mean I have thought about him every day scene I left him.
I need help. I need to be over this, I don’t know what to do.. He has another girl friend and it doesn’t bother me, what bothers me is what he said, and did to me, he treated me good when he was in a good mood….
So this is the problem… I think I’m pregnant, or something is very very wrong with me!!!
I feel this grinding in my lower stomach, when I look at my stomach it jumps, I haven’t had my period scene 0ctober 30. But the last time I had sex was on june8 of last summer, and did bleed between june and October. There is no possible way I am pregnant.. Right? So I guess that I just keep hoping that this will go way, but every now and then I feel something in my stomach… I don’t know what it is
I know I messed up, I wish I could go back and just tell him to get away from me.. I hate him for what he did, and really messed up my life.. I don’t have any of my friends left, and I quit school when I only had a semster left to finish .. I hate myself.. All I do is think about my problem and what he did, and his new girl friend.. I cry, and sit alone.. I hate myself.. Why did I throw everything away??
But there is something inside me that Is pushing me to get threw this.. I would love to go to the doctors but my mom doesn’t have insurace if anything I would love to go to the ER right now because my veins are popping out alll up my arm ( all up it) and that’s not normall.. I’m dying inside I just don’t see what I’m going to do.. Why did he say he loved me? And then leave me and now he is happy and I’m soo alone with this problem?? Is everything my fault.. He had sex with me too.. I dunno what to do..
2007-07-12 14:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a good person you put up with his mess that he put you thru. Do not sit there and be all down and out over him he is out there doing his thing so you get out there and pick up where you left off. Go to the doctor,er, a clinic and find out what is really wrong with you. Sitting and pouting is not going to solve any thing at all. Pick up your head do not let no man make you feel less of a woman. You have to live for you cause no one else will. Go back to school finish graduate and move on with your life. WHo knows there maybe another guy sitting in class waiting to meet you again and wondering where you have been so he can talk to you. Never give up on your dreams for no one. You go out there and do your thing you were just making the wrong choices you have not thrown anything away at all your doors are still there for you to go thru them. Where one door closes there are many many more opening up for you. Sitting and feeling sorry for yourself is not going to help you find that door to success where your headed. You have to pull it together and do what you know you must do to still full fill your dreams we all fall off track but we have to learn from our mistakes pull it together and get back on track.
2007-07-12 14:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I've known people who get one dog after another and when the latest dog becomes a problem they get rid of it, never thinking that the problem is the people and not the dog. Some people just don't get it, and it's really hard to do anything about them. They just don't want to know, or they might have done a little research before they tried again. I once gave a neighbour a copy of "Dogs for Dummies" to help with dealing with her first dog which was incredibly badly-behaved. I don't know if she read it or not but nothing changed with the dog.
2016-05-21 01:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, go to your local pharmacy or general store and get a pregnancy test, it doesn't matter if it's cheap, get 2 if you can. Test yourself-you don't have to go to the doctor as yet considering your insurance situation you mentioned. No need to panic either I highly doubt you're pregnant-I'm not a doctor but what you explained might also be psychological-our bodies can do that. Anyhow, test yourself and then take it from there. Try to relax! If you are not pregnant, go out and enjoy yourself. If you can try finding work and go back to school that'd be great too. As for this guy, he's not worth your time nor tears.
I hope everything works out for you. Best wishes!
2007-07-12 14:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by fine00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is good to a clinic some of them are free. Also you need to get a sounagram to find out what's in your stomach. ALso it could be that you were pregnant and had a misscarriage. Best the best thing for your health is go to the clinic and see what's wrong. If you wait any longer it could be worse. But don't worry about the fool that left you for a S*L*U*T just think about getting yourself well for now need to chat jsut IM me anytime.
2007-07-12 14:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a medical and a mental problem. One may be causing the other. You need to see a doctor right away, Call ahead and tell them you do not have insurance and see if they can work out a payment plan. You need to see a therapist also.
Find someone(maybe your mom) who you can confide in and tell her all of this. You need people around you who love and care about you to help you thru this. Get help now. You do not have to face this alone.
2007-07-12 14:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by nitesong 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray pray pray....
Go to the store and buy you a ept test and that will answer some of your pregnancy questions...altho october and now its july..girl you aint pregnant
you would have had it by now
Hold your head up..men have done worser things than that to us...ive been through it all...but i tell you what you do..join a church...pray and get your life back on track and you will start seeing yourself change..and become a different person..sooner or later..your meet someone new and really be happy..but you wont be happy sitting in that house crying over this loser...focus on your studys...and your self esteem
and please tell your mom.....
2007-07-12 14:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be pregnant because you would be pregnant for over a year and that is impossible. If you go to church go to the counselor there they'll probably help you with your emotional problems.
2007-07-12 14:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not pregnant so get this out of your mind-it sounds like you are just very stressed. Please try to calm down because no guy is worth all this pain you are causing yourself inside. You will meet someone new.
2007-07-12 14:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by travelinbianca16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget tests --- go straight to the emergency room do not pass go do not collect $200 --- forget everyone but your own health and i would suggest the health of your child ---- go now best wishes
2007-07-12 14:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parentsa and goto the docters of the ER if it pains u then u should tell someone
2007-07-12 14:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋