Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

i believe im asparagus dependant as CRAZY as it sounds.

it makes my sex drive go off the wall and w/o i don't really one...

do you think im dependant on it? sounds crazy but just what ive noticed...

2007-07-12 13:05:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister drags me on the floor, cusses and doesnt make me anything to eat. Im only 11 and i need to find out a way to not be in the house as her!

2007-07-12 13:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by (: 1 in Family

when she prys on mine, I have to show her/tell her. She always acts as if she is in a terrible situation and I am forced to console her. It's just that whenever I go out with her, there is this sense of arrogance: the ways she talks, looks at me, etc that demean me. See, one time when we were in the bathroom, she was looking at herself in the mirror, fixing her makeup, etc, and when I would do the same, she never gives me time. Her belief is that if she's done, everything's done. the most funniest part of all of this is that, she says I think i am an angel when I myself have never even said anything like that about myself and she even said i was selfish. why is it that she never sees her mistakes but is so eager to point out mine. what should I do?

2007-07-12 13:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by ar2ch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK- I 've put the question forward- why marry the girl unless she is a virgin. People have asked several what if questions-
we don't have to go into details. But my question is, isn't it endangering your future family to marry someone with psychological problems from abusive ex-boyfriends, traumatic experiences, etc etc etc etc. Some bad things do happen to people that they can't control...and some people have horrible crosses to carry. Some people are broken.
Why is it so bad to limit the person you would marry to virgins only. Doesn't this show something in this persons character, that they commit to a personal belief more than someone that is oK with a societal flaw? Doesn't a marriage that starts with less baggage have more of a chance of lasting, and less psychological damage to the children?
A lot of societies values are after affects of the whole hippy thing? Sex and drugs have damaged this countryso we have that whole movement to thank. what do you think?

2007-07-12 12:58:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife confessed to me that she had sex with seven men before meeting me. I can't get the images out of my head, on the other hand I'm not sure I believe her. I have asked her for their names, I intend to call them to find out if she's telling the truth.

2007-07-12 12:57:03 · 41 answers · asked by Johnny Guano 3 in Marriage & Divorce

personality, looks all of it!

2007-07-12 12:56:41 · 5 answers · asked by floflo 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy that i was friends with for awhile has a HUGE crush on me. i know i flirt with him a little bit, but i've given him huge hints that i don't like him. he texts/calls me/comments me on myspace ALL THE FREAKING TIME! he even asked me out on a date and i gave him tons of reasons why i didn't want to. he tells everyone he likes me so much, but then he's around me all the time and won't even talk. i don't like him at all like that and he's not my type. he won't take a hint and i wanna let him down easy, how do i do that?

2007-07-12 12:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by Fera H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 12:53:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lots of young people like to go to scary movies...

2007-07-12 12:51:42 · 1 answers · asked by misleep1 3 in Singles & Dating

If so, how did you cope?

2007-07-12 12:50:21 · 7 answers · asked by cats 7 in Singles & Dating

Alright theres this girl I really like she goes to my school and shes very smart and beautiful and I couldn't ask for more in a girl, however heres the problem. I've already gone out with her and she dumped me but now we have started talking again. I don't know how to approach her i.e. talking online going to a movie I am torn. I don't know if i should even be talking to her since she dumped me but I really still do like her I just don't know how to approach her. She runs and thats it she likes to clean...I don't know what to talk about when I call her...please does anyone have any Ideas of tips on what I can do to start seeing this girl again. Thanks

2007-07-12 12:47:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he and I have been together for four years-after three years he proposed, and asked me to move in with his fam. for 6 months and then we'd get our own place and get married..after I moved 6 hours from home to be with him, he changed his mind and said that we should live with them for him (so he can finish college-which is very reasonable) so I waited a year and now decided to move back home-we are on a "trial separation"

I was ready to come here and start a family with him and then he tells me that he wants me to wait! I wish he would've told me sooner-I need a fam. and if he and I aren't starting our own fam. then I need my fam..we'll get back together (he said we will) until then I'll wait for him somewhere I won't feel isolated..I am isolated here..but now I'm worried: what if he doesn't want to get back together?!? if he leaves me then this was a mistake..because I don't want to leave him or him to leave me..I just wanted to be near my fam. until he was ready to start our own fam.

2007-07-12 12:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We spoke and decided to work things out due to our kids. The problem is even though we are both trying to move forward, it is extremely hard for me. I get flashbacks and her treason feels like it just happened yesterday. I wonder if these feelings will ever go away? Any suggestions from anyone in a similar situation?

2007-07-12 12:43:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Say you haven't seen any of them in a year.

2007-07-12 12:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by ThanksJustWondering 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a year and a half. We got married quickly in Vegas. Soon, things started going downhill. Since I had a savings, I had to use a lot of it for furniture and apt. deposits. I also bought my own ring and his as well. He made all these promises to me that we would go on a honeymoon and we would have a party. After about 7 months of being married I had to quit my job so I could do my internship for school. He was aware of this, and then quit his job because he thought he could make more money doing real estate. He made nothing and we ran out of money. Now that i've graduated, he got a job that is just enough to pay our bills. We haven't been able to go anywhere or do anything due to his poor choices. He hasn't been really supportive. I got a job that pays more than his and I feel a lot of resentment because now we can do more from my salary. I feel like I have had to be the responsible one. I feel like he hasn't reciprocated much effort. I have no feelings for him.

2007-07-12 12:38:16 · 20 answers · asked by Strawberry shortcake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 12:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by U1S2K3O4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whatever happened to the vaule of waitng for marriage young and old fathers steping up to the plate teaching there young girls(legs closed) and there boys (pants up with respect for women,young ladys and responsibilities.)

2007-07-12 12:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by Coffee 1 in Friends

the 40 year old virgin. i am 15 and still a virgin, what should i do?

2007-07-12 12:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by alex r 2 in Singles & Dating

We go to the fair in October, and I was running around with him and my 10 yr old, and his wife was there too, but she was running around with their 12 yr old daughter, he mad eyes at me, and even gave me a hug when I left, his wife did not see that hug, or him making eyes at me. I bet he does not tell here when he does those things with me.

2007-07-12 12:26:45 · 15 answers · asked by mldavr29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 12:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-07-12 12:23:48 · 23 answers · asked by pierre w 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me!

2007-07-12 12:19:27 · 8 answers · asked by MRS. NICK JONAS 4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

2 yrs ago my husband and I, we had it good he layed brick for a living. I didnt have to work.Paid our bills. Now since he says he has vertigo all the time he can't drive. He drives everywhere else just too sick to drive to a job.We saw many doctors- couldnt explain it. So I worked while he thought and thought and thought. Then he opened a automotive business and still doesnt make enough to pay bills. Now I have a judgement against me- he ran up credit cards too. I sought a bankruptcy attorney and he said we could file. I just don't even have the money for that much less bills, groceries, things kids need, etc................, I dont understand why he wont do something more. anything to make money. I am going to have to get 2 jobs. The last one i had was killing me. I feel very angry with my husband. I feel he should help me more. I dont think most of the bills should fall in my lap. I am afraid i will become bitter and angry. He used to be a workaholic- Any advice?

2007-07-12 12:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by springreed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone had any experience ? If so what was the outcome ?

2007-07-12 12:10:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got married on June 23rd of 2007. I love my wife with all my heart. She works as an independent jewler for a jewlrey company that is known world wide. She told me before we got married on the 23rd that she wanted to go to a nationals training show in Texas from July 11th to the 15th. It's not manditory, but it helps people like her who have a tough time with this business kind of break out of their shell and get their business off the ground. I told her I really didn't want her to go because of how close it was to our wedding date. She kept saying that this would be good for her so she could start making some money with the business. I told her that if it was in September or something I wouldn't feel this way about it because it wouldn't be so close to our wedding date. Dispite how much I told her I didn't want her to go she went anyway. Should this bother me or am I just being an idiot?

2007-07-12 12:07:44 · 41 answers · asked by gamelover 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad treats me like im mental and I can't remember the last time he said I love you!!!!

Any comments on what to do?!

Serious only please! Im hurting here!

2007-07-12 12:04:56 · 7 answers · asked by doglover1012 2 in Family

Recently my boyfriend's dad was not in good health, so when my boyfriend called me and said that he needed me, i jumped on the first plane I could get to. I ended up meeting his whole family, and everyone REALLY appreciated my being there to support my bf. We've been together for almost 9 months, so its pretty serious. He kept saying thank you during the time I was there, and he said I was the best thing he could have asked for at one point. I figured a girlfriend had to support her boyfriend through a hard time with his family, so i didn't think my being there was a big deal. When I left, I got hugs from the family, and one of his relatives whispered in my ear that she wouldn't mind me being part of the family. I just laughed if off and didn't plan on telling my bf because it was about marriage. Apparently he overheard it and told me later. But he wasn't freaked out about it. He's even told a friend that he can see him marrying me. Whats going on? should I be worried about anything?

2007-07-12 12:04:20 · 23 answers · asked by tangerinequeen 1 in Singles & Dating

If he/she insisted on living in Europe? You wouldn't see much of your friends and relatives. And think of learning a new language.

2007-07-12 12:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by Galahad 7 in Singles & Dating

I've asked my hubby about 3 times in 3 months, when we needed it, if he asked his friend about the $60 he owes us or when he's going to pay us back. He gets really angry & makes up excuses for his friend like "he just started a new job" or "he'll pay it back, dont worry about it" or says "how many times r u gunna bug me about that" Well, we need the money & his friend is out partyin w/ his wife every weekend, so what's the big problem w/ asking him "hey man, you got the money you owe me? we really need it right now."

2007-07-12 12:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Friends

What if you were dating some one and a couple months down the line u figure out that you were the sideline booty. Then u find out that your bf/gf's partner is a escort. What would you do. How would u take it especially if u have feeling for this person. How would u confront the situation. If there are kids involved how would you shelter them from the drama. If this person denied u what extreme would u go to, to prove the truth. How hard would it be for you to move on.

2007-07-12 12:01:42 · 3 answers · asked by the most hated 1 in Singles & Dating