when she prys on mine, I have to show her/tell her. She always acts as if she is in a terrible situation and I am forced to console her. It's just that whenever I go out with her, there is this sense of arrogance: the ways she talks, looks at me, etc that demean me. See, one time when we were in the bathroom, she was looking at herself in the mirror, fixing her makeup, etc, and when I would do the same, she never gives me time. Her belief is that if she's done, everything's done. the most funniest part of all of this is that, she says I think i am an angel when I myself have never even said anything like that about myself and she even said i was selfish. why is it that she never sees her mistakes but is so eager to point out mine. what should I do?
2007-07-12 13:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by ar2ch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like jealousy to me
2007-07-12 13:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Marla ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister sounds like she's very unhappy with herself and because obviously she does nothing about it she picks on the closest person to her which is you and because she hates herself she puts you down for that reason. She's very insecure about herself and have a very low self esteem and in order to make herself feel better she puts everyone around her down. Your sister is slowly dyeing inside from hurt and she doesn't know how to make herself feel better and it's going to be hard to help her if she doesn't admit it to herself. I feel for you. You or anyone does not deserve to be treated like that especially if it is coming from your own sister. From friends is easy because you can just avoid them, but from a sister it's blood. I think you should go to your parents, if not then the next closest member, and if you really need to go to a center for dealing with low self esteem
2007-07-12 13:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are both hypocritical. You both don't like it when you pry into each others' businesses, but you do it anyway. You need to stand up to her and tell her that she is not the controller of your life; that YOU are. Tell her to stop being a selfish byotch and to piss off...
2007-07-12 13:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Gaga<3Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's to into herself. stop going out with her and don't ask her about her business. when she asks about yours, don't tell her anything. problem solved.
2007-07-12 13:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is insecure about herself...and thats why she acts the way she does...
2007-07-12 13:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋