Ok. I'm gonna dump my bald girlfriend. What's the softest way to tell her?

Question

sorry my english, im spaniard. im dating an american chick.

She is loosing hair ( A LOT ) because she is stress cuz of her exams ( university ) . Everytime she looses a strand of hair I feel like our relation is dying slowly. What's the softest way to tell her i don't wanna be around a bald head woman? and, just in case she gets her hair back , what should i tell her to go back with her?

I HAVE to dump her, is like dating a dinosaur. , is horrible..

Answer 1

Your hair doesn't fall out because of stress, it is probably some deeper health issue. AIDs is one possibility. Another is anorexia or bulemia, if she has an eating disorder then the body refocuses its energy in order to cope with lower caloric intake, thus hair falls out and is not replaced.

Answer 2

There is more to a relationship than hair!

I think she would truely love you forever if you stuck with her through this stressfull period in her life! Also if you thing its a problem for you, take a moment to think about your girlfriend; she probably is crying every time she looks in the mirror! A significant part of a woman's apearance is her beautiful, luxurious hair; think how devastated she must feel! To forsake her now when she needs your support would be especially cruel! Stay with her; if the hair loss is from the stress of exams, I think it would grow back when she is done with school.

Answer 3

Look her right in the eye and say, "I'm going to dump you because you are going bald from stress and it is like dating a dinosaur. It is so horrible for me." See how that goes for you. As to what to say when her hair grows back? Look her right in the eye and say, "When your hair grows back I will think of something to say to convince you to date me again ." See how that goes for you, be sure to let us all know, OK?

Answer 4

A person who is in a committed relationship will help their partner through times like this, from what you have written you are committed to her external appearance and not her 'inner beauty.
To want to dump her now with her losing her 'crowning glory' and then wanting back with her when she has recovered is unfair and cruel to her. As is your final remark. Goodness towards others has nothing to do with your cultural background as it crosses all boundaries.
Just tell her you are breaking up with her and leave the hair loss out of it, blame yourself by telling her you cannot cope with her being stressed over her exams.
Leave her with her dignity intact is what you need to do.

Answer 5

Oh my. Don't dump her. Just try to ease her stress. And you might want to look into health. Because there is a health issue on stress and losing hair. Seriously. Just take her out on a few dates, and relax her. Massages work well, and you could be nice, and go buy her some tv dinners, so that she doesn't have to cook, and you could do her laundry for her. All of that stuff is practically GUARANTEED to work.

Answer 6

She should dump you!!!! You obviously don't care bout her, or it wouldn't bother you so much that she is losing hair! There is no soft way of breaking it off. How do you think she's going to take it if she's already stressed out and now you want to hurt her feelings? How would you feel if your hair was falling out or you couldn't get it up anymore and she was wanting to dump your insensitive ***?

Answer 7

properly, in case you rather loved her, it wouldnt matter what she regarded like, and for my section, i think of you ought to tell her the actuality. i do no longer think of that it is common to her that she is working perplexing to bypass via college and her boyfriend cares what she sounds like. She doesnt want that stunning now, she desires somebody there who's there, none the fewer. some human beings, benefit weight while they're under pressure, some lose hair, some bypass loopy. Pero, seriamente, yo creo que tu eres superficial y que tu no eres un buen novio. Si vas a salir, tu debes ir. Hay hombres mejor para ella. P.S. it is "strand" no longer "fiber"

Answer 8

First off, let me say I think you're an *** and she deserves SO much better than you. Think of how bad and worried SHE must be feeling to see her hair falling out! Exams will end and she should grow it out. If you weren't so pathetically into looks i'd tell you to be supportive and wait it out, but you should just tell her she could do better than you and break up with her.
Jerk.

Answer 9

instead of dumping her, help her to get over stress. massage her back and neck and head and give her bath salts and stuff. dumping her will only increase her stress. Do you really want her to fail just because she is bald?!? rescue remedy (a mixture of plant extracts) is good for stress. sold in NZ i am sure but might be a variation in America!

Answer 10

i hope she reads this , leaves you and you don't find any good girl to like you ever.
as for the girl, tell her you lost interest. tell her that it doesn't always works out and you need a break from long term relationships. don't prolong it, just wait untill she finishes her exams so she won't fail because of you.
i hope she finds a wonderful guy who is a millions time better than you who loves her , marries him and you end up alone for the rest of your life.

Answer 11

lol Poor you, a baldy girlfriend is just EUGH! I would break it to her gently by saying ``Hey why dont we spend some time apart, until your exams are finished, that way you can concentrate on your studies Babe`` Oh your spanish, i love the spanish:) I love Rafael Nadal he`s amazing, do you like him? Where abouts in spain do you come from is it near where Rafa stays in Mallorca? Im gonna visit him:) and then persuade him to marry me, do spanish like Scottish people? haha x