Family & Relationships - 12 July 2007

I met a guy with an 8 yr old daughter. I normally dont date guys with kids, but he was he exception. I have been dating him for 8 months and what i noticed was how his daughter manipulated him and how she was allowed to be direspectul and rude to me in front him. After taking as much as i could take i begin to voice myself. I blatantly told him that he would be by himself in the near future if he did not check his daughters behavior. To this day our relationship has strayed because of her. My question is this, why would a man who knows that he has a good woman and companion allow a child to come in between his relationship. Kids grow up and leave and if you pass up a good thing along the way would'nt you regret having let your kids run someone off that you know was good for you.

2007-07-12 18:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my fiance more than words can say however all my life i have wanted a big wedding..just like cinderella...now I am having second thoughts not about the marriage but about the wedding..we are of limited means..we have money and live comfortable however my family isn't going to pay for this cinderella wedding..I have been thinking that i want to get married in the courthouse and have a small reception until we can afford as a couple that cinderella wedding I have alwys wanted...so should I wait for my dream of a cinderella wedding or follow my heart and marry the man I love in the courthouse which I know he would perfer??? What would you do???

2007-07-12 18:10:56 · 29 answers · asked by alwyswaiting107 3 in Weddings

It can be made up.

2007-07-12 18:10:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 5 months now. We have had our terrible fights and about three weeks ago we finally broke up. We broke up because I was being controlling of him because I was very very jelous of the naked girls he had all over his computer and how many girls he LOVES to chat to on msn all the time. He has about 150 contacts and probably 3 are male. Anyways, I was getting very nervous about it and was trying to control what he loked at. He just hid all of that stuff from me anyways. Well, after we broke up, I finally noticed that what I was doing was very very wrong and I contacted him asking for him to be at least my friend. He refused so I asked if i could have at least the possibliy of being his friend even 10 years down the road. I made a vow to myself that day saying that I'm going to shed this jelousy and controllingness about me and just be me again without the bitchy piece of sh** i was...

2007-07-12 18:09:35 · 5 answers · asked by Janna L 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been going out for like 2 years but when i met his best friend we were crazy about each other. how do i tell my b/f that i don't like him anymore and still be able to go out with his friend? P.S. his friend is single.

2007-07-12 18:08:27 · 26 answers · asked by _-Eliz-_ 2 in Friends

its been six months since ive seen my girl physically...i need some input for some romantic ideas ....input please

2007-07-12 18:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by robert s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not the most trusting person but i told this guy that i know ... like my best friend who i could tell anything to.. we started having these weird conversations about VERY private things (blowjobs,sex,handjobs...) and now im not sure if i can trust him and dont know what to do!!

help?

2007-07-12 18:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

mention this fact to my mother for fear of her words of discouragement. Long story short, I ended up telling her today and she was (how I imagined) very negative about it. I value my mother's opinion a lot, most would say too much.. and I don't know how to acknowledge her opinion without actually doing what she says. I really just want to know how get over feeling bad because I don't make every choice she wants me to make. I feel like I'm a bad person if I don't do what she wants... any helpful advice out there...?

2007-07-12 18:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by superrr_star88 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lets have some fun here. Questions women ask:
Am I fat? Never answer that one!
Am I pretty?
Want to go shopping?
Do you think I look good in this?
I put these next to each other because you'll be holding her pocketbook when she ask this question.
What do you mean you....this is trouble!
Do you want to get out of the house? leads to lets go shopping.
Guys: have you heard these questions?
Girls: c'mon, you know you ask them!

2007-07-12 18:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by ozwol 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 18:00:39 · 26 answers · asked by a published author 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

about not knowing much, only friend she made in school was me in the 8th gr he's 8 yrs older. first off I had no intentions on ever seeing him because I heard so many bad things about him, she has 2 5 yr old twin girls because she was stupid and believed he was sterile from all the alcohol he drank, slept with him after shortly meeting him walking home from hg school senior yr. me and her one weekend took the twins to the circus and she never told me ahead of time she was going to do this but we went back to her moms house to visit and he hangs out @ a house down the street form her mom she called on the cell phone to come out to the car that I'm in it, she goes he want to meet u He took 1 look @ me and goes lizzy she like u, yeah she like u, I go what do u me Im like her he goes I don't know u like lizzy she goes I'll tell u what he mean when we drove away she goes were not out among people like him we really don't know what out there (I came home pissed cause I dont like lifestyle)

2007-07-12 17:59:35 · 1 answers · asked by marissas aunt 1 in Singles & Dating

I get married next year, The man I am with is a great man,he is sweet and kind and was a virgin when we met. I grew up in the christian faith and finding a man like that was awesome.But now is sorta sucks becuase he is very unromantic and does not know how to please me romantically. He thinks he knows what he is doing but our first time lasted less then 30 seconds.It is driving me crazy that he can't please me..How do I get him to please me without bursting his ego?
Help Please....

2007-07-12 17:57:46 · 24 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have an 18 year old friend, and people say she's pretty, good body, everything, and to top it all off she's really nice too. and yet no guys would ever approach her. most of my friends, who are mean, careless, and not so good looking, guys would just approach to them. what is wrong with this? i mean when im with her guys would stare at her, stay close to her, and give her smiles and such, but would never talk to her. what can she do? no matter what she does they wouldn't want to approach her. other than making first move because she thinks its not proper for a woman to do that. no one would ever approach her normally. if they do, it wouldn't be as normal as a simple hello. as for my other friends they would get that. she's so lonely... i dont know what to tell her, cause im not in that situation.. so what should she do?

2007-07-12 17:57:05 · 4 answers · asked by michelleite 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your exboyfriend want to get back with you,while you love another guys.

2007-07-12 17:55:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 17:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Edwin J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 17:54:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somebody please find out!!!

2007-07-12 17:49:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He refuses to go with me and then tells me that it looks bad if I go without him....

2007-07-12 17:48:11 · 29 answers · asked by SLIM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 17:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by w@yn3s b@bii 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for two years. We have agreed that we are exclusively dating, but because his work has taken him several hours away from me, we only get to see each other a couple of times a month. Recently, when he was at my house, he checked his e-mail and left it logged in. Well, like a sneaky little idiot, I looked over his messages. I found a few from this girl he had been talking to, and apparently they had been out for coffee and dinner a time or two. One of the messages she sent asked if he had a girlfriend, and he said no. We have agreed that it is okay for us to have and hang out with friends of the opposite sex, just no intimacy with anyone else. I just am a little insecure of the fact that he has told her he does not have a girlfriend. If I ask him about it, he will know that I read his mail. If I e-mail her about it and tell her he does have a girlfriend, she might tell him. What should I do?

2007-07-12 17:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 17:40:29 · 12 answers · asked by KW 3 in Friends

Marriage is a lose lose scenario for men nowadays, why then some guys still see marriage as an option.?? Are these men do not know what marriage is like or they do not read the news ?? I would like to know that ...

2007-07-12 17:37:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Aight here we go.

5 months ago my ex wife was blah'ze'n with me over the phone and "for real when I was with her I never knew this about her" She told me her fantasy was to be involved in a gangbang with a few dudes though she's never had the chance to do it. About 3months ago I made remark to her like (I should just lock u in a room with 5 guys and see what happens) Her response (while giggling) was "Damn I don't know what I'd do" alright....

Recently she started trying to get back with me (ya know feedin them good lines like) "I could never love anyone like I loved you" and that usual BS you know. Anyways I told her hell no I could never be with a B!TC# that wants multiple cats up in her. Her response was (NO NO I ONLY WANTED THAT WHEN I WAS YOUNGER)

1. Wasn't that a contridiction since she basically stated she'd get down with a gangbang only a few months ago.

2. Could you be with a chick that always wanted to do a gangbang but never go the chance or EVEN IF SHE DID.

2007-07-12 17:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by nightpanther_79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any way to change a man's mind?

2007-07-12 17:34:21 · 20 answers · asked by that_one_day 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated on me, again, and now I feel like I need to leave him. Is it wrong for me to save money behind his back, and begin looking for a place to live without him knowing? or should I just tell him and let whatever happens happen? I think we both know this marriage is not going to work out, we are just staying together right now for our kids and because of money.

2007-07-12 17:32:59 · 55 answers · asked by swtme810 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my name has been selscted in the an engineering college in Bombay and i live in delhi.
and i am very sad that i will have to leave my home and my family and go to live in Bombay with my uncle.
My mother was crying in the morning and even i feel to cry because tommorrow i am leaving my family..

what to do ?
how would i live without my parents and live in an entirely new place.

2007-07-12 17:32:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-12 17:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really llike this guy and he likes me. but im always am soooo nervous around him. like even talking to him on aim my heart starts pounding. and i have never had this problem. help!

2007-07-12 17:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by girls in the hood 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-12 17:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by Catherine M. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-12 17:29:18 · 23 answers · asked by suzanne 1 in Marriage & Divorce