2007-07-12 17:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by w@yn3s b@bii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd talk to my parents and ask them their reasons....
2007-07-12 17:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are. If you are over 18 and can support yourself you move out of your parents house and continue seeing this boy. If you are under 18 you listen to your parents at least until you can move out on your own. Before your do anything you better take a hard long look at this boy and ask yourself honestly if there is any truth in what your parents are saying or giving as reasons for not letting you see him. defying your parents especially if you are under 18 is a big step and you had better be damn sure about this boy and your relationship before you do something like that.
2007-07-12 17:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let your parent find out that you are seeing him behind their backs. If you like him, and he's a good guy, whats the big deal. Im going through the same thing. My parents dont know about my boyfriend. But we have been together 9 months and still going strong. Dont let your parents keep you from seeing anyone.
2007-07-12 17:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by urb3stkpts3cr3t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure its the right person, it may be a bad gy and ur parents r doing t for ur protection, or ur parents r overprotective and phycotic. If u must see him ( and think about this) sneak out or go see him when u say ur going to library or sumtin
2007-07-12 17:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyinaplane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent now and understand why parents do that. We are usually trying to protect you. They might have a really good reason. And when your young boyfriends come and go. You will have soo many more to worry about one now. Good luck.
2007-07-12 17:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by SerbMex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take a look at the reasons why, he may be a total jerk and your parents can see that but you can't, if your parents reasons are not justifiable, and ridiculous (for instance they don't like him because he is a different race) sit them down tell them how you feel about this guy and ask if you can work something out....
2007-07-12 17:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley Bright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u either sit there and take it, or u start sneeking around and defy their rules. or you can tell them u wont put up with them restricting u from him and go ahead and see him and all that anyways. that is, if you believe you have that much feelings for him. if you really dont have feelings for him, hes not worth the trouble.
2007-07-12 17:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to answer without knowing why they don't want you around him and how old you are.
My guess is they are trying to protect you from either someone they think is unacceptable or you are too young to have a boyfriend.
2007-07-12 17:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like him
is love a possibility
then everyone can leave u alone
but u have to know
really know
ask yourself this
if one of you were sick and dying would u spend every waking second with them to make them comfortable, and at peace with your love for them...if u can say yes to that, and feel it be true in your heart and soul, then the hell with what everyone says...
good luck
2007-07-12 17:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by funboy98935 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if u reallly like the guy i would sneek out n seee him or they should understand that i liike him n u want to see him n be happy for u but if all fails sneak out
2007-07-12 17:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Annieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sneak out of your house and chill with him anyways. thats what i do. if you dont want to do that or dont have enough skill or have a problem lying to your parents... well dont have a boyfriend . good luck with that
2007-07-12 17:49:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋