im not the most trusting person but i told this guy that i know ... like my best friend who i could tell anything to.. we started having these weird conversations about VERY private things (blowjobs,sex,handjobs...) and now im not sure if i can trust him and dont know what to do!!
help?
2007-07-12 18:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im definatly not the kind of person who talks about those things im more of a "goody-goody"
im under 16 just incase you care
2007-07-12 18:04:00 · update #1
ok he has assured me that he wont tell anyone, he could never do that to me and stuff?
2007-07-12 18:10:33 · update #2
be careful who you tell important things to. over your life people will betray you and others will prove themselves to be true friends. just realx, it's not the end of the world if someone betrays your trust in something like that (it sux and you shouldn't be their friend anymore) but it won't kill you, you'll be stronger and learn something. relax and don't worry until you have to.
2007-07-12 18:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when you tell someone those private thing esp sex topics hate to say it but its bound to come out. either they do it get some advice from others or they do it cause there mean or they do it cause it slips out. i feel that if u really need 2 talk than talking on here is good cause we don't know you so even if we do tell it doesn't affect you cause i mean who cares were not going to run off and tell them ur name, but sometimes its nice to tell a frd but i mean its hard with sex questions but if anything happens play it of like u were just kidding or say i wonder how girls our age or if not younger can actually do things like that, say were do they find out how to give a ******** or hand job.
u prob already know this but i mean if they come up to you and ask if you know how to do it. a ******* aka bj is when u just suck on his frd. hand job ppl call hj but not usually us when you jus cuff ur hands around it and rub up and down lotion helps and sex well yea u just stick it in and ur done.
I'M NOT TELLING YOU TO DO IT OR HOW TO DO IT JUST TELLING YOU SO THAT YOU DON'T GET THE REST OF UR MIDDLE SCHOOL N HIGH SCHOOL YEARS MADE FUN OF.
2007-07-13 01:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel a pang of distrust when crossing from regular stuff to private matters. It's completely normal.
There must have been something about him that prompted you to tell him this stuff, perhaps in your mind, you really do trust him!
2007-07-13 01:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 you should not even be thinking about sex.
2007-07-13 01:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either test him to see if he is trust worthy or you can stop trusting everyone and go insane.
2007-07-13 01:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by rvpendleton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay never discuss that unless you are dating. They will tell their friends you are a ****.
2007-07-13 01:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by jelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are kidding guys talk more than wome do on matters like this in my opion?
2007-07-13 01:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhhh? dont trust him any more
2007-07-13 01:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by always right 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋