what would do if your friends boyfriend she been going out with for 7 years who's verbally abusive toward her

Question

about not knowing much, only friend she made in school was me in the 8th gr he's 8 yrs older. first off I had no intentions on ever seeing him because I heard so many bad things about him, she has 2 5 yr old twin girls because she was stupid and believed he was sterile from all the alcohol he drank, slept with him after shortly meeting him walking home from hg school senior yr. me and her one weekend took the twins to the circus and she never told me ahead of time she was going to do this but we went back to her moms house to visit and he hangs out @ a house down the street form her mom she called on the cell phone to come out to the car that I'm in it, she goes he want to meet u He took 1 look @ me and goes lizzy she like u, yeah she like u, I go what do u me Im like her he goes I don't know u like lizzy she goes I'll tell u what he mean when we drove away she goes were not out among people like him we really don't know what out there (I came home pissed cause I dont like lifestyle)

Answer 1

Hey Christian? Sounds more like a rant really. Ether way except that my friend doesn't give a heck about herself, so how can she care about me and leave her, honest. Done it before, typically the best step, fine line between those who simply survive and those who try and thrive, which side are you on? If your simply surviving, don't worry about it, doesn't matter. IF you trying to thrive, ether help her help herself or leave her be.