Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

Without going into too much detail, if there is a mutual attraction between two people but one of them is in a relationship that has been very turbulent, should I follow my head and stay away or follow my heart and be there for her? I'm stuck between wanting to be a part of her life but know that I can't be just friends with her. It's so frustrating!

2007-06-14 05:43:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It will be a winter wedding (February) and I would really like to include hunter green if possible, but I don't know what to pair it with. I'm also having trouble finding invitations that would go well with hunter.

2007-06-14 05:42:02 · 27 answers · asked by Becksterpas25 1 in Weddings

A year ago, I asked a friend of mine to be in the wedding. She was so happy I asked, and said yes.

Well, we didn't really talk through the winter, but I kept sending email updates to everyone in the wedding party about the wedding, vendors I used, etc... and I never heard back from her.

Two weeks ago, I get a notification from my dress shop where the girls are getting their dresses and they say that she's not been in, and on top of that, because she's not come in, everyone (who came on time!) must now pay $30 rush fee for the delivery of the dress to be in on time before the wedding. I tried calling the bridesmaid and ended up having to leave a voicemail about this and telling her to get in ASAP!

I tried calling her and calling her and she won't answer, and won't return voicemails where I have BEGGED her to call me back. I finally just said "Screw this!" and replaced her, without her knowing.

Should I have done something different?? I feel like I did everything I could!!

2007-06-14 05:41:48 · 39 answers · asked by Rock Goddess 3 in Weddings

ok theres this guy who i sometimes have sex with (no relationship) (casual sex if u want to call it that) were just really gud mates but theres this guy who i really like but hes kinda shy with me but i think hes found out ive been having sex with my friend would this have put him off getting to know me? plz help im abit upset about it

2007-06-14 05:37:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never given my husband a reason to believe that I am jealous or insecure. I don't question him about his where abouts and I don't give him a hard time about going anywhere. But recently he received a graduation invitation from someone that he did not recognize and when I asked him who it was he told me he didn't know. I left it at that. He went all out trying to find out who it was and later told me it was one of his cousins. Then he made a comment about how cute it was that I was jealous. To me that's not jealousy, that's just asking a question and I think anyone would have asked. What do you think?

2007-06-14 05:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and if you are, why are you this way?

2007-06-14 05:25:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was just a friend but I formed feelings for him. He has never said whether or not he has feeling for me. How do I forget my feelings and still be his friend?

2007-06-14 05:24:04 · 15 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i always wonder if its pointless to care about it or even think about it but its just i can never find anyone attractive aside from my spouse and it bothers me that he could think anything lustful about another woman.

2007-06-14 05:22:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if you are married and your husband is 11 years older than you and says constantly how he dislikes your age and how you are too old for him, what does it mean?

2007-06-14 05:20:38 · 14 answers · asked by jims 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My one friends is annoying me... I have lots of money and so does my fiance so we are having a super fancy wedding. My friends father lost his job... is getting sued... and he doesn't have any cash, plus she never changed her spending habits and now she in credit card dept. Everytime I tell her she needs to get her sh*t straighten out and not blow money on a wedding- she gets mad and points out what I have.
What would you say to this dumb ars?

2007-06-14 05:19:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

As you all know I'm 2xx married mid 20's and I don't like to brag I'm a great catch, smart, beautiful, professional and career motivated.

My hubby and I have been married almost a year although we have known each other for 15 years he's my brothers bf anyways when we graduated highs school he went to military I moved to NYC got married had a kid got divorced and moved back to my hometown all in 3 years time. Once I moved back I started dating and living life again. My current hubby proposed I said yes and later borke it off because I was dating another guy. Well when my hubby left military and started doing reserves his career took him into another direction, now he is a big time investor with an extermely rewarding career that affords me all the luxuries a girl could ever want. He has close ties to a number of celebrities and I get to live teh lifestyle of a celebrity without the paparazzi and madness. Well recently I ran into the one guy who had my heart and we have been seeing

2007-06-14 05:14:33 · 17 answers · asked by mrsknowitall 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My Father passed away on April 22nd (this year...see other open quesiton I have on here)....I am so dreading this day...yet, I have dreaded EVERY day since his passing....I so hope I die myself before Sunday....I always took Dad out to eat seafood (his favorite...at his favorite restaurant)...I will NEVER be able to eat there again or go back........LIFE IS SO UNFAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-14 05:12:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-14 05:12:18 · 18 answers · asked by RaMrOd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...be willing to move to a distant country knowing there would be little chance of seeing your friends or family again?

2007-06-14 05:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And don't give me a bunch of crap about it's not the ring.. it's the love and marriage.. Cause then your ring is either from walmart or a bubble gum machine.
If you don't like the question then don't answer it!!!!

2007-06-14 05:05:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband has never been romantic... never asked me to marry him, never tries to sweep me off my feet, nothing like that. I used to try to have these quiet romantic moments together, like, plan a hike when it might rain, or recreate our first "date"... he never notices things...

Some times i guess I just get sad. I used to be such a passionate person, such a hopeless romantic, life and love was all so mysterious and magical. But its all lost on him, and its like it died in me. Its such a hopeless empty feeling some times.

Not that the love is gone or something... just the magic in my own heart. I cant really discribe it i guess.

Any one else ever gone through that?

2007-06-14 05:05:35 · 12 answers · asked by amosunknown 7 in Marriage & Divorce

In about a month, we're moving to another state where we know absolutely no one.

I've always been shy..I don't know why..but I always was and still am.

And...I totally hate it!
Every year I always say I'm going to be more outgoing and confident..and I always back down.
Well not this year..
I'll be a junior in high school, in a place where I don't know anyone..so this is my perfect opportunity.

Can you give me some tips to become less shy and more outgoing and confident?

Thanks =]

2007-06-14 05:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-14 05:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my man off and on for 5 years. He always seems to leave the relationship when things get too stressful or when we get to serious. Once I agree to the fact (that was his idea in the first place) to move on myself and don't care anymore he comes back 10 fold..begging and pleading and making promises he always breaks. I know it is part of the chase but seriously its so dumb, if you don't want me but just don't want me to move on then why do you leave in the first place..??

2007-06-14 05:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Number one my marriage has lots of issues. (he is controlling, jealous, always telling me what my intentions are and aren't) up until now I have always sorta brushed these issues under the rug because I know its just the way he is. its not just me he does not trust it is everyone. Ok, I know I have a troubled marriage, my problem is I can't make the final step to leave. I have every reason to, I have told him many, many times I have to separate from him because its just too stressful. Why does my mind keep ratinalizing things, why do I keep hoping for things to change? I know he is who he is and it most likely will never change. I serious from one conversation to the next my emotions flip flop, "I can do this marrige, then soon as he says something stupid, bam, I'm back to I gotta go" and it starts all over. This is on a daily . Please help me, it seems like his crazieness is making me crazy. Do I stick it out with him for better or worse and do what a wife should? I know he loves me.

2007-06-14 05:02:01 · 15 answers · asked by Tamm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 5 years and unhappy almost the whole time. We only knew eachother about 3 months before we got married. He is a coach and very set in his ways. He doesn't even realize the abnormality of his controlling behavior. Family and friends say that I act totally different around him. He doesn't allow me to drink alcohol or anything of that nature.

2007-06-14 05:01:11 · 9 answers · asked by liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and how do u start:

From up or down?

2007-06-14 05:00:20 · 19 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

IF YOU HAD ME ALONE... LOCKED UP IN YOUR ROOM FOR TWENTY-FOUR HOURS & I HAD TO DO WHAT EVER YOU WANTED ME TO, WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITH ME?

2007-06-14 05:00:02 · 16 answers · asked by adam m 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought perfect pair favors and was looking for ideas for the invite to tie that idea into it but all the ones I have seen are cheesy. I hate that cheap black and white image that all the shops carry online. If you know of any or have seen any nice elegant looking invites or ideas- please post the website!
Thanks!!

2007-06-14 04:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-14 04:54:11 · 18 answers · asked by panicos m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been slowly hinting around for marriage, but there's a problem. He's catholic and i... not sure really, been in a holiness and baptist and just always said "i'm christian, not specific i worship God by the Bible" not labeling myself you know? Well he wants a church wedding. Can 2 different religion branches get married in a catholic church? Is there any way to make it work and still have a church wedding?

2007-06-14 04:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

or when the baby is still very small?

2007-06-14 04:49:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WHY?

2007-06-14 04:47:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my husband (we're seperated however not legally yet) has been seeing a 28 yr old gal that has 3 small kids. the problem is he's 49 and we have a 28 yr old daughter ourselves. is that gross? like dating/sleeping with your daughter. he has grandkids for gosh sakes? whats up with these guys who think they can relive their younger years through someone else? whats up with her? she likes sleeping with daddy? how could you ever forgive something like this? i'm devastated and sick at heart.

2007-06-14 04:44:03 · 51 answers · asked by MIMKA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me I'm so fat, I can't even dodge responsibility


should I celebrate?

2007-06-14 04:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce