2007-06-14 04:54:11 · 18 answers · asked by panicos m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having an affair never just affects the two people involved, it affects the cheated on spouse, children, the whole family. So don't think if you want to have an affair, you are not hurting anyone but yourself, you are totally wrong, ask me, my son, my family, the ex's family, we can tell you how it feels to have your world turned upside down, because of an affair, also this had been a 30 year marriage.
2007-06-14 05:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not that the person have the affair is sad. The entire situation is a sad as in not a good thing. Having an affair normally means someone is being cheating on. When that person becomes aware of the fact that the person that they love & trust has betrayed them, all sorts of negative things happen.
2007-06-14 05:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Flying_James 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because its immature and disrespectful. theres no need to be seeing two or more people at the same time, genuine honest people will leave their partner to be with someone else not carry on with both at once. it shows your still a little girl/boy and have yet to grow up a lot, thats sad.
2007-06-14 05:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by * Mummy to 2 Girls * 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Y you think having an affair is good don't get it?
2007-06-14 05:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by mims03 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A bad idea, what about the risks? STDs, Venereal Disease, Pubic Lice, and the slap in the face when the wife finds out.
2007-06-14 09:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What so you think its good to have an affair? I don't quite understand your question but if you do, you should be ashamed.
2007-06-14 04:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It comes down to the dishonesty and the violation of the trust of another and really yourself. That said, of course their is the emotional and physical upside, but what does that do to the primary relationship and/or family? It is basically living a lie and one that eats away at you.
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2007-06-14 04:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my wife has been cheating on me after just 8 months of marriage its not nice its really messed me up in head iv lost all trust in women
2007-06-14 09:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a violation of trust. If you trust someone to be faithful and they aren't it makes the person who has had their trust violated, both sad and angry.
2007-06-14 04:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by tnk3181979 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one wants to be the one getting cheated on they think it's okay if they are doing the cheating...
2007-06-14 05:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋