What if you are married and your husband is 11 years older than you and says constantly how he dislikes your age and how you are too old for him, what does it mean?
2007-06-14 05:20:38 · 14 answers · asked by jims 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So let me get this right, he is 11 years older than you and yet you are too old for him? Sounds like he has a lot of issues. He can either get help, or you can get out, because it will end soon and it will not be pretty.
2007-06-14 05:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know alot of pple who have a huge age gap such as that, and seem to be doing ok. Although to me, its kinda wierd, When a man wants a woman that much younger. But if your husband is saying he wants someone younger then you now, that is not right.
When you marry, you grow together and change together, the fact he is not seeing that, and wants someone younger, kinda raises a red flag in my eyes.
Is he teasing? maybe seek some counseling, if he is willing.
If not, Maybe you should get out, of the marriage....If he is really meaning what he is saying.
Hope this helps, and i wish you the best.
2007-06-14 05:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he is looking for a way out. Put dismay into you to have you leave instead of showing his cowardly ways.
If age was not a problem initially, it should not be a problem now, unless you have done something or he has done something, to which these reactions will come about.
2007-06-14 05:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by LLC E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused are you older or is he?
Either way, if your married it's alittle late to be worrying about the age difference. Tell him to deal with it. Life's to short to worry about age.
2007-06-14 05:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he's got a deeper issue in your marriage and it's not your age. sounds like he's using that as an excuse for some other underline issues that he's not being completely honest with you about. if your marriage is worth saving you guys should do some serious talking or get counseling. good luck!
2007-06-14 05:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The man has some insecurity about the marriage. Talk to him and seek marriage counseling if necessary.
Good luck.
2007-06-14 05:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking to better deal for a younger model
2007-06-14 05:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doenst sound good that he thinks your too old for him when he is 11 years older than you. also, he's probably liking younger women.
2007-06-14 05:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's eleven years older than you and he says you're "too old for him"?
that doesn't sound very good
2007-06-14 05:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants someone younger, and once you hit a certain age he is no longer attracted to you....
2007-06-14 05:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋