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My borther is currently 22 years old, and he's unemployment. He had a several jobs, but it never lasted for long. He either quit or for some other reason. He doesn't live with my family anymore and move out at 18 since my dad and him doesn't get along...my dad is his step dad. Now he's living on his own and still don't want to get a job. Even though he doesn't live in our hosue anymore, he still comes for help and finacial support. My parents searches job for him, and he said that he'll take it but when it comes to that day, he bail out. He just doesn't want to work and going to parties. How can I help him get things straight? I'm his younger sister who's 18. My parents..actually my mom and I since my dad doesn't care anymore, can't competly ingore him and wait till he finally changes, or else he'll get deeper into the mud and it'll be harder to pull him out. Now that's only one situation that I'll mention.

2007-06-14 21:27:42 · 3 answers · asked by ceec 4 in Family

1st of all my husband is already insecure.... if i told him that i kissed someone else he will automatically assume that i don't want to be with him.. I don't have his trust as it is. yes, i love my husband with all my heart. i'm 20, i was a virgin until i met him and now i'm curious about other people.. i never been out with anyone else.. and now i feel as if i've made a mistake.. not by marrying but by being so reserved.. he's< 23> and had his fun and slept with more people than a little... what do i do?

2007-06-14 21:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by cyuenvj87 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 21:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

I was trying to go to sleep right now and i heard noise outside so i looked out the window and i saw a car backing up and they just crashed into someone elses car that lives down the steet and the person wasnt driving right and i think they were drunk and they went down the steet and left. should i call the cops? the peoples whose car they hit just ran outside and i saw someone else drive off in a truck. i tihnk they might have gone to chase them. i dont know what to do

2007-06-14 21:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by simi♥ 5 in Friends

2007-06-14 21:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

Look Im 14,Me and my girlfriend wanna have sex.We have a condom,but im scared that I wont be good anough.HELP!!!!!!

2007-06-14 21:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by Joe M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 21:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by bharatram_ketireddy 1 in Family

How is it possible for two seemingly, very opposite people (who are of different faiths, as well) to develop such a strong attraction and closeness to each other? Is it because those two people are complementary to each other?

2007-06-14 21:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by La_ponderousman 2 in Singles & Dating

Before marriage and then after marriage?

2007-06-14 21:14:06 · 25 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a high school student i look decent and i smell good but i was wondering is it okay to talk to a girl in a book store if i don't know her? i'm just trying to find a girl friend and thats the only way to do it or will she view me as weird if i just start talking to her?

2007-06-14 21:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was having a bad day, no makeup, hair in ponytail, really tired eyes. I saw a guy friend i havent seen in like a year across the street,, dont think he saw me, i made a mad dash around the corner and got away.
i feel bad but i didnt want him thinking i changed to look like crap.

2007-06-14 21:05:21 · 5 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Friends

I have been married now for over 20 yrs but 12 yrs ago, I met a single guy at wrk 7 yrs my junior. The chemistry was instant. I then moved to another country, although maintaining occasional contact via email. He has subsequently married, divorced and remarried and says he is happy. Says he loves me too. He came to visit my husband and I with his current wife recently, and it was lovely to have him. When I entered the room, his face lit up and we laughed constantly, he would seek me out and we talked all the time, yet he says he is happily married. I wonder if there will ever be a future for us. My children have grown up and he has yet to have any. His wife is from a different culture and does not get him at all. I love him and have said I would be prepared to marry him, if only he would ask. Question is, will he? Eventually? We have not had a sexual relationship, and I have told him I will not have one with him until we are married. Guys - interested in yr feedback

2007-06-14 21:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by Max2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 21:03:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do if i was a guy and was being pressured into going to parties and hook up with girls to show that i was not gay?
should i go and prove to my friends i was straight or ignore them... ? please answer i need to know!

2007-06-14 20:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by dutchychik 2 in Friends

'm hope I'm not asking an inappropriate question, because I'm not looking for any inappropriate answers.

Here's the story: he is Tibetan and is immigrating from China to the United States so we can get married. We lived together for 3 years in Tibet, then I had to leave and we've been working on our legal paperwork and visa application and stuff for the last 2 years.

Obviously we've kept in touch via mail, e-mail, phone (we talk EVERYDAY-- eek: phone bill ! ! ! ) , and via computer IM and video chat/calling.

I'm not worried about it being awkward or anything when we see eachother, I just need some ideas on how to make it special when he first arrives. I want it to be really special... I think it will be anyway, since we have been apart for so long, but do any of you (guys or girls) have any clean answers regarding what I'm talking about. You don't have to use explicit details (obviously), but just some good ideas for special intimacy? thanks!

2007-06-14 20:43:22 · 5 answers · asked by eo 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out, he got 2 girl pregnant a the same time still having an affair w/ ex GF abroad. Since then we've been civil w/ each other, i only stay for the kids. I found out too that he's planning to file for annulment but then lately, he started acting differently, he's been kind and sweet to me, now that i'm ready to have my own life coz i have moved on. Do you think there still hope for us to reconcile and continue our marriage despite what had happened?

2007-06-14 20:39:22 · 12 answers · asked by Daneelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship with this one guy for 2 months now. Lately i've been noticing that he really makes no effort to talk to me. The last time I saw him was Sunday night. It was really great. Monday he didn't talk to me at all. I texted him a couple times and tried calling but he never responded. Half the time he doesn't actually get my calls or texts because his phone service is really unreliable. Tues. I talked on the phone with him for like 10 minutes. Wed. was the same as monday. Thursday I called and he picked up, he said he was with his friend and he would call me back at 7 but he never did.
What do I do? I always feel like if I don't try to contact him we don't talk! We pretty much haven't talked this whole week! Am I over reacting with this? Should I wait for him to talk to me? I don't think this is breakup worthy because he is a great guy but it bothers me that I feel like I care more than he does...

2007-06-14 20:25:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to politely and delicately ask my girlfriend to stop shaving off all of her hair "down there". It really turns me off when it is all shaved. I do not want to hurt her feelings.

2007-06-14 20:21:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iam married for 8 months and she has been abroad for some time.The thing is that she dresess up in jeans and t shirts most of the time at a place where no one even wears a thing like that.I want to tell her to wear something traditional without hurting her.My relatives r also disgusted at it .Any ideas

2007-06-14 19:54:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It just seems like she is not open to try new things. If I mention having sex anywhere but the bedroom she thinks I am crazy. Before we were married we would have sex 3-4 times a day and everywhere...the beach, the movies, the park. Now we have a 3 yearold son and her sex drive is GONE. Please help me ladies tell me your thoughts.

2007-06-14 19:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by GunXXX 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There isnt anything to talk about and she is always bored and never talks to me. She is beatiful and i love her and everthing but... i want to talk to her but she has nothing to say. she would reply there isnt anything to talk about.


what should i do people?

2007-06-14 19:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have my officemate who revealed his affection to me..he texting me and saying he love me..but the worst of it hes older than my father..sometimes i miss him..because he always make me smile..but is it possible to fall for him or its just an infatuation?

2007-06-14 19:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by yang 1 in Singles & Dating

To all you gents out there: What are you looking for in "The One?" Good Looks, Personality, Intelligence, Matronly Attitude? Is beauty the primary characteristic you are interested in your ideal woman??

2007-06-14 19:31:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im married and have a child but i have never ever had an orgasm. Please help.

2007-06-14 19:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Chickenlicken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just need more opinions from other people esp. the guys out there. lol! I wanna know if a girl will look cheap/easy to get if she shows a motive that she likes the guy or if she makes a way first to know him like asking his cellphone #, giving him her # even though he didn't ask... to make it short, the girl does everything first... hmmmn?

2007-06-14 19:27:20 · 32 answers · asked by Somebody 2 in Friends

I've been married for 19 years, we used to lead a marriage bible study to help other couples. I'm sadden that we have helped others and they use their tools to work on their marriages, yet my husband won't use the tools we encourage others to use. I stepped down from the class and am heartbroken that my husband won't go to counseling. We go through this cycle it seems like every 6 months or so, but I have gotten to the point of complete exhaustion of the up and down roller coaster ride with him. I really would love for some help on how to continue in the marriage basically living single lives minus the infidelity.

2007-06-14 19:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Blue E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are going through a very hard time right now. I am moving out and we are most deffinitly filing for a divorce. But he keeps trying to kiss me and hug up on me. I go stiff when he does that- you see i was sexually abused by my ex and also by 2 close friends. He knows these things, and yet he still wont back off from me when i go stiff and cold. I have told him i dont like it and that i am uncomfartable. The worst is when he pins me and almost has this "im gonna make you love me" hold on me and starts kissing me (eventhough i dont open my mouth). Things are very shacky with us right now. We could not talk all day or he could be in a sh*t and then when he feel like it he will be "affectionate"- what do i do?

2007-06-14 19:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents told me to break up with my boyfriend because he's a "bad person and emo" but he's got a good heart and he's really nice and he said that if I broke up with him then he would kill himself what should I do?????????????

2007-06-14 19:18:42 · 21 answers · asked by muffin pirate XD 1 in Family

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