My parents told me to break up with my boyfriend because he's a "bad person and emo" but he's got a good heart and he's really nice and he said that if I broke up with him then he would kill himself what should I do?????????????
2007-06-14 19:18:42 · 21 answers · asked by muffin pirate XD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i seriously dont want to leave him ( i love him with all my heart)
2007-06-14 19:24:02 · update #1
tell his parents
2007-06-14 19:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing first, any guy that says if you dump him he'll kill himself is manipulating you, or he needs to be put in a psych ward. Seriously, anyone talking about killing themself is not something to think is just for attention. But thats not a good reason to stay in the relationship. Your parents are right to be concerned. Could you possibly talk to his parents? Are they good people, maybe they could help him through this, and help him get better. If so maybe then your parents would reconsider. If you told him that, you need time apart for him to help himself. You cannot save him hun. You have to tell someone, and not let this run your life. Your young obviously, and this is a big thing to deal with on your own. I hope it all works out ~ Sheky ~
2007-06-15 02:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by sheky r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you anyway? Your parents knows whats best for you. Maybe you are not yet on the right age and maybe they really find your boyfriend not good for you. Try breaking up with you boyfriend and see if he kills himself. Well, you can really test how much he truly loves you by doing so ...
2007-06-15 03:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Zhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he really loves u, he should not give U an ultimatum. He's a really sad person. Ur parents are right. U can still be friends and let'a face it a relatioship at a young age will last as much as it took U guys to get together. GOOD LUCK!
2007-06-15 02:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Junia Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would gather you are both very young and the I will kill myself deal is just the words of an immature boy. Such drama!! Ask yourself this: do I really want to be in a monogamous relationship with someone who tries so hard to control my actions that they are even willing to threaten to inflict violence upon themselves? In case you aren't sure the only right answer is: NO. Tell him it is over and then tell his parents he is suicidal if you really think he could be serious. Your parents are making a choice about what is best for you, it's not their job to do what is right for him.
2007-06-15 02:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would really kill himself because of a breakup, he has issues. You should definately tell someone who can help him get the help he needs (like a school counslor, his parents, etc). I think you should try to distance yourself from him - hang out with him less, make yourself less available- and then break it off. If you do something sudden, it may cause him to do something drastic. But I do think you should break up with him soon.
2007-06-15 02:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by caligallj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf needs to show or do something to prove to your parents that he's not like what they think he is. If all of that didn't work out, then your parent just doesn't like him in general and has some other problem with him. good luck.
he said that he'll kill himself if you break up with him?....wow that's kind of crazy there. I guess he's not understanding it then.
2007-06-15 02:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my parents are the same way with my gf.. and my gf said the same thing to..if your bf loves that much to that he would kill him self if he lost you, then you ask him to stop being emo and maybe do sumthing for your parents like bring them over a coffee talk with them and likeget him doing stuff with your family...maybe that will change your parents minds about him after seeing how he's like around them...if you want to talk just add me to messenger or email mail me back ok...i hope i can help Ciao........heavy_man2001@yahoo.com....or hot_killer13@hotmail.com
2007-06-15 02:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by FATTONY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are not living your life for you.
If you like him then stay with him
If you're not feeling him then dumb him
BUT don't ever stay with some one because they tell you they will kill themselves if you leave.
That's a red flag for either a manipulative person or someone with major emotional issues
Its your decision in the end
DO WHAT IS BEST 4 U.
2007-06-15 02:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by shay22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him! Its your relationship not your parents.Try to show ur parents you like/love him or lie to them that u broke up and see him on the low i kinda understand what ur going trough. But also remember do not stay with a guy cause of him and his feeling make sure ur happy too.
2007-06-15 02:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by nenamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Your parents are concerned about what will happen to you. Just explain that you have no choice in the matter.
I would not trust anyone that said they would kill themselves if you break up with them. Your bf sounds unstable.
2007-06-15 02:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋