I just need more opinions from other people esp. the guys out there. lol! I wanna know if a girl will look cheap/easy to get if she shows a motive that she likes the guy or if she makes a way first to know him like asking his cellphone #, giving him her # even though he didn't ask... to make it short, the girl does everything first... hmmmn?
2007-06-14 19:27:20 · 32 answers · asked by Somebody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what do you think? =)
2007-06-14 20:16:59 · update #1
no ur wont look cheap at all. i know a lot of guys who like that u never know either, the guy u show interest in may have liked u too but was too shy to do anything about it. u have nothing to lose
2007-06-14 19:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure you might get a better answer from a guy on this one but here's my thoughts anyway.....
I don't think so... I made the 1st move with my man... we have been together along time, we are having a baby in Oct., and we are currently looking to buy a house together. He was kinda shy and I don't think he ever would have made the first move so I'm really glad I did.
So get that # number - give that # do whatever it takes to get what you want! If in the end your happy and you get the guy then who care if someone does want to comment about you being cheap... they don't have your man do they?
2007-06-22 03:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by MsCrtr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In whose eyes? Look at it this way; if you don't make the first move and he is too bashful or shy to make any moves, then maybe you will have missed a great opportunity. So make your move(s) and be damned to those who accuse you of being cheap/easy. Besides, you know who and what you are...so what do you care what others have to say? If they know you they know what you are like.
2007-06-14 19:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no; you would not look cheap.there is a right way and a wrong way to do things.don't give out any numbers until you are more familiar with him. don't come on to fast,and to hot.if you must meet.meet him at the mall or a nice public place that's out in the open. maintain your femininity.and do not invite him to your home until you are comfortable with who he is, and sure that he is the one you want to spend sometime with. these days things are quite different from ten or fifteen years ago.people are no exception. and are not what they always appear to be. looks can be and are deceiving. good luck
2007-06-21 07:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sexy actually. AS LONG AS the guy looks like her interested as well. Definately don't do it if the guy isn't really paying much attention or if you 2 haven't really found common ground yet. But if your out togeteher having a good time and there's been some friendly contact. Go 4 it... It's damn sexy
2007-06-14 19:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
It won't cheap it would look like watching a movie with hero and heroine exchanging roles.
How would you feel about it.
If so i'd suggest you to go slow your intrest in him won't make a difference unless he is intrested too, if he is he'll come forward ............if he still does not he is of the timid kind and you can take the dominant role.
Till then do not make fool of yourself.
Just play to the gallery!
Cheers!
2007-06-22 07:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Life won't Stop Nor Should U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hec would that make her cheap? Did you know that 7/10 guys want the girls to make the first move....it's not cheap...it's taking initiative...if she likes you she'll ask you...if you like her you ask her....why would anyone consider her any less of a person if she decides to do that first? ...sooo stop fretting...and go with it...
2007-06-14 19:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most guys like it when girls make the first moves. It makes them feel more comfortable around them. It proves that the girl has confidence and can act on it. Guys like that ability in a girl... that I know of.
2007-06-14 19:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by FunStuff78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes a girl look cheap if she shows interest in a guy. Even if she asks his phone number or gives him hers. It just shows that you are interested.
It's what you're willing to do, or how far you're willing to go with this guy shortly after meeting him that can make you look cheap.
"I like you, let's talk" shows interest...
"Hi, my name's Mary, let's hop in the back seat" that's cheap!
2007-06-22 08:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! It's a bit sexist and outdated to assume that only guys can make the first move when they like someone.
I imagine most guys would be extremely greatful and impressed if you took the initiative! I know I would!
2007-06-14 19:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Norm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋